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what should I do?
15/f
Me and my boyfriend just started going out and he's great don't get me wrong there but its just that my parents are stricted and they don't let me go out and that's besides the point anyways everytime he asks me if we can hang out I've always been saying I don't know or I don't think so and he knows why but sometimes I feel like he's going to get tired of it eventually and ask to end it and I don't want to end it because I really do like him I've already tried talking to him about it so please don't say try talking to him all I want is some advice on how to make him understand that I can't go out all the time and to understand me.
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i think you should tell your parents that you would like to have atleast just one day of a nice day with your bf. you deserve it. if you can't, then tell your boyfriend that you're really trying and that you love him. i'm not saying that you need to talk to him, i'm just saying that you should tell him something like that.
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Since you have already explained it to him
knowing why you can't go out isn't the problem.
He knows all that. Understanding and liking it
are two different things. If he really cares about you he will probably wait for you to be able to do those things. He will still ask though, if he didn't you would worry about why he wasn't asking anymore. :)
The thing to do is discuss going out, or I should say being able to go out with your parents.
If you could start going out as a group, with other friends, to public places, maybe they would allow that. Their main concern is probably you going out with a boy alone. Ask and see if they would let you go out with a crowd of both male and female friends. That approach may get you out of the house and able to see your guy. :)
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well first explain the sitchuation to him b/c communication helps everything especially if you really like this guy, maybe u could try and fit him in with other things that way you can see him more. if you are hanging out with your friends invite him along or hang out with him after school [if he goes to school with you] talk to him in the hallways and ask to stay the extra period at the end of school and study together or something :] hope i helped
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well.. there really is no way of letting him know what your thinking unless you talk to him more about it just tell him that your parents are strict and you can only go out on certian nights and if he asks maybe dont just say i dont think so, maybe say something like "oh i really want to but i cant tonight" and then both of you should plan ahead and check with your parents if you can go another night.
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