there are these 2 guys i like,(A & B)
A is like my best friend but the kind of friend that you can make out with and theres no strings attached, he told me wen we first starting makeing out that he doesnt want a relationship which i was fine with until he started wanting to go further with me and thats when i told him that i won' until i was in a relationship with him,.plus i'm 16 but he is like the guy who hooks up with every girl he meets so its reli awkward sumtimes,.but he gets reli jealous if i hook up with someone
B is another very close friend who again likes to hook up with girls,.but would want a relationship if it came to it,.i think,. but i think i do actually have feelings for,.but the problem is when i go to tell him i like him he likes sumone else and vice versa,.we have made out a few times but we're usually drunk when we do and both take it as a drunken kiss and nothing gets said bout it afterwards
i'm soo confused i don't know who to pick and try and stick with and try make it work,
sorry its soo long but ye kind of neeed to know sum background info to know where i'm coming from
thanksx
in my opinion, I think a relationship with A would last longer. A seems like he sincerely likes you. He wants a relationship which means he wouldn't cheat or treat you wrong. As for B, he seems like he just want some ass from you. He just want friend with benefits and nothing more. You'll get hurt if you stick with him as a bf.
no matter what I say.. I think you should think it through as of who you like more? which one you can see yourself being with? or which one you're more comfortable with? who understand you better? etc. then make your decision base upont that.
hope I helped. good luck =].
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I really like this guy. He's my age and we're really good friends. Call it best friends if you want. We're both a little shy. I can't seem to say I like him and he can't either. Is there an easy way to tell him I like him without saying it to his face?
Note: Please don't tell me to just say it to his face. I don't have the guts.
there's always AIM, or messengers that you use. MYSPACE. umm or you can have your friends tell him for you or his friends. umm but if you want a straight foward answer then just take a deep breathe and go up to him. I know you're shyy but hey.. that one way to overcome your fear. imagine he was someone else and be confidence. go up to him as if he's yours and just tell him straight forward.
you: hey i like you and I was wondering if you would like to hang out sometimes.
but if you're tooo shyy. then yeah. lol aim, myspace, or friends should help.
hope I helped. good luck with the fella. =].
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Ok so next week august 28th I start highschool and I'm not going to lie I'M TERRIFIED I don't know what to do or how to act who to talk to what to say I don't know anything! And what's bad enough is that I have a lot of people at this highschool who I didn't get along with in middleschool and still don't get along with and the drama omg the drama I can't stand the whole "she said this about you" "she said that about you" I hate it! I want to learn how to stay away from alll the drama and all the people I don't get along with does anyone have any tips on how to make my first year in highschool a year where I don't have to worry about everything and everyone??
First piece of advice... RELAX!!. I remmebered my first day of high school too. I thought it was all badd but it wasn't. Its just like middle school except you are in a bigger and older environment.
Second, its HIGH SCH00L!. there will always be DRAMA!. one way to avoid it is ignore whoever you have problem with. If they say something tell them to get a life. cuz you have your own to deal with.
Last but not least, just have fun. its not hardd. you'll meet new friends. Don't try to act out of the ordinary. be yourself. hang out with the people that you know or with your friends. You'll be fine. If you don't know what to do .. ask someone. they'll help you. You're a freshman. .. you'll find AL0T of friends there .. trust me. freshman year is the best year.
good luck. and have fun. =].
hope I helped.
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well, i have a boyfriend and lately it seems we cant talk about anything. even when i try to talk about something it's like it doesnt matter to him.such as, i'll start talking about this "talking problem" and he'll be like, "oh, i didn't hear a word you said, but one of my friends is on the line with us". i just dont understand him anymore. like in the begining of our relationship he was really serious about everything; he would talk about all of our problems with me. ask me if i was okay with something. and i'm scared because he's been talking to a lot of girls lately and it bothers me because a lot of them he seems to be really good friends with and i'm just worried. maybe he's getting bored with me...a lot of guys seem to do that with me, or that's how it seems. are we in a block?...i dont know who to talk about with this stuff, i cant go to my mother, she doesnt take anything i say seriously and all my friends don't even really support me in anything right now. i dont even know if i have any real friends any more. i dont even know if you can help me with my problem, but i just dont know what to do anymore. i dont know what to say to him or anything. im scared we are going to fall apart and i dont want that to happen because i love him with all my heart. i would die for him, but i dont know if i can trust him to do the same. i dont know if i can trust him with anything. i just got out of a really bad relationship about 9 months ago and i have a lot of trust issues and i told my guy that and he said he understood but at the times when i say i trust him, i mean it and then later on, like with the girl stuff, when i say i dont agree or appriciate that, he says he doesnt understand why i cant trust him. he doesnt even say i love you that much anymore and its scaring me. i care about him so badly, will you please help me?
you can contact me at xxmusicforlovexx@aim.com
thank you so much
Heyy. okay. first, take a deep breathe in and out! Sounds to me like his feelings are fading. Maybe he just need some spaces ya know? Every guys want their space w/o their gf on their back all the time. He sounds like the type of guy that would make promises and break them.
I think you just give him some spaces.. do your own thing. If he talks to girls.. you talk to guys eventhough you're much in love with him. But if you cling onto him, he'l take advantage of that and think you're easy. He wants girls that he can have and have fun with right now. Play hard to get now. If he doesn't call, then you don't talk to him. Let him come to you. I know its the hardest thing to do because you want to talk to him and etc. Every guys started out a relationship good.. I mean they'll say the most sweetest thing and do the cutest things.. THEY D0 THAT BECAUSE ITS THE BEGINNING. as time go on.. it became less and less. So just make him jeaklous like he did with you. PLAN A.
If plan A doesn't work.. then PLAN B. ask if he have time ..come hang with you for a lito bit. don't tell him you want to talk or anything. just say you miss him and you want to see him. Then when he comes.. just be cool for a lito bit. Then tell him you want to talk. Say you notice that things been falling apart and you want to know if he wants to make it work. Don't show emotions or cry. hold it in. don't let him see your weakness. its the hardest thing but that keeps him from thinking he have you. If he's being like that.. he doesn't deserve your love. There are a lot more guys out there for you. If its not working out don't hold on to it. Then you'll be hurt 10x worst. let it go before it gets too far. The relationship isn't going to work if only one person wants it badd.. the other person must want it as baddly too. Its not going to work if you're willing to make it work and he's just like w/e about it. So yup. Also tell him, trust is somethin you earn. If he showed you that he can't be trusted then you can't trust him. Plus he needs to understand you got out of a really bad relationship therefore the trust thing is fragile when it comes to you. He needs to be sensitive about it and prove to you that you can trust him not ask you why dnt you trust him.
About your friends.. you ned to drop the ones that can't support you and keep the ones you can trust to the fullest. the ones that won't talk behind your back and back you up even when you're wrong but tells you the hurtful truth. The friends that aren't supporting you 100%.. they're not worth keeping.
hope I helped ? good luck.
this is my AIM sn: shietitzvy. IM me anytime when you need someone to talk to or need help with the bf problem. its easier.
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15/f
so theres this guy and i really like him a lot but the thing is he knows i like him but doesnt know me or even what i look like ... and one of my best guy firends is best friends with him and my best guy friend is dating my best girl friend so me and my biff have been trying to set something up where all 4 of us could hangout together...we are probably hanging out tommorow ... so 1st do you think this will be awkward? 2 what should i wear?!? 3 i need conversation topics .. ive never even talked to him before at all! (hes uber shy)
ahhh im so worried i really need some help i really want and need this to work i havent had a boyfriend in over a year and i havent hooked up in 6 months so i really want this to work out and i reallyyyyy like him
please and thanks
okay first of all, RELAX! second of all, BE Y0URSELF is the best policy. If this guy doesn't like you for you then it wouldn't work out.
Something to wear, okay.. depends where you're going. If you go to the movie and mall.. then be casual but also dressy. Wear jean and tank top with a sweater over and sandals? or skirt and a tee and flats or sandals. Wear earrings, light make up, and accessories not too much. I'm not sure what you have in your closet so I'm just do random pick. ask your friend for opinions too.
Topics you can talk to him about .. well just talk to him about anything. be random. talk to him like you would talk to someone you know. Don't try to impress him. Ask him what he likes, get to know him, but also be flirtyy. Then something will come up and you guys might have a few common things. Just be yourself! don't try to impress him to where you're not you and its a totally turn off.
hope I helped. good luck and have fun =].
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hey!how do I get a guy whos looking just for a one time thing to want more???can u guys give me some tips?plzzzz im not looking forward to commitment just not a one time thing more likely if it could last all summer..since hes leaving after anyway
help plzzz
tips would mostly help..
thx in advance
talk to him about it. Be like lets be friends with benefits. you want to be a summer thing. see if he agrees? I doubt he wouldn't since he's a guy and all. Just be straight up with him but show that you're taking control and not like one of those easy girls. Be natural lol. I'm not sure how that works. Just be yourself. Be friends with him but you just want "benefits".
good luck. hope I helped. =].
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ooook so to make the story short, i liked my best guy friend for a year, never said anything because he had a girlfriend. he breaks up with the girlfriend and we start a friends with benefits relationship, i only gave him a hj and we felt each other up. i started to like him again, like alot, like i thought i loved him and the night i decide to tell him he gets a new girlfriend right before i get the courage to tell him. so we ended the friends with benefits for the month that his relationship lasted...then we started again with the benefits. drama started with his first ex after she found out what we were doing and we stopped for like 2 weeks and then started again. now 3 girls like him and he wants to end it for good. so my non boyfriend is ending our non relationship. i hinted to him that i still like him and he knows i used to like him but him being a stupid guy said "well since there were no feelings involved it should be easy to just stop" now i dont want to complicate all this even more so i told him that i dont like him. guess what i do like him and there were feelings involved. even though it was friends with benefits when we were together it was like we were going out because he was romantic about it. so yeah i feel like we're breaking up and tonight i cried more than i did after i broke up with an actual boyfriend i had last year.
how do i get over this? should i tell him i really do like him before he gets another girlfriend? i know friends with benefits wasn't a good idea if i have attachment issues but its too late for that so dont lecture me please.
o.k. this is S.U.C.K! ya friend with benefits [FWB] .. there's no such thing as no feelings involved. If there weren't any feelings then you two won't be doing things. He sounds kinda like a player to me. I think you should stay away before you get hurt even more. Unless you know that he have some sort of feelings for you.. otherwise you're risking your heart.
I've been through this first hand myself. This guy and I .. we were good friends. I liked him and somehow we became FWB. Then I started to like him a lot! I thought he likes me too because he gave me all signs that he likes me. Then later I found out he didn't? its confusing. so we stopped when he graduated. Therefore, I was hurted.. I didn't know what to do.
Unless its a sure thing, don't tell him anything. If you like taking risks then I say go for it and deal with the consequences. That means you'll be hurted even more than you already are if he doesn't like you back. Then who knows, he mights like you. Be ready for anything if you are going to tell him how you feel.
This is really up to you. You need to make a decision of what you want. if you want to get over him then don't tell him how you feel. Just let it go and move on. Don't think about him or have any contact with him for a while. Just do your own thing and let time do its job. No more FWB.. if you think your feelings will be involve. If you decide to do FWB .. make sure you can control your feelings.
hope I helped. good luck =].
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okay so, i dated this boy for about a year, after all that time, he started taking everything we had for granted and bragging about things that had happened, i had liked this other boy for a while and i found out he liked me and it pushed me to break up with my boyfriend, we dated for two weeks, he got drunk, and broke up with me through voicemail, after a week of crying and not knowing he was drunk when he had done this, he now tells my bestfriend that he regrets everything and started talking to me again, in the week or so we weren't talking, i started hanging out with my ex, and i still really like the other boy, but i don't know if i should trust him enough not to do the same thing again over the summer. help?
I say you should give it a break and date neither of the guy. Just take to them and have fun. Since trust is an issue right now. So why not have fun and while figuring out your feelings than make your choice and regret. I think you should talk to your ex and the other guy. See how it goes with both. Have them gain your trust and work hard to get to you. Let them know you're not some kind of cheap hoe that they can have and leave whenever they want. Its summer, have fun. Don't get involve in a relationship that you're doubting. You'll winding up hurt or lust. keep your options open and see which guy you have more connection with.
good luck. hope I helped. =].
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my name is Rachel and iam 18 and i smoke and i get the ciggerates from my cousin but the thing is she didn't know that i got them from her until this morning and now she is pissed off at me becouse when i was 17 she let try smoking becouse i was curious and wanted to know what it was like but she made me promise to never do it again so i promised her i wouldn't do it again but now she won't even speak to me becouse she's mad becouse she thinks my mom'll find out that i started smoking at her house and won't let me come back anymore and she thinks i hate her but i don't .I don't know why i wanted to smoke i didn't know it would make my cousin this mad at me becouse we've never even had a fight before in my life becouse we used to be so close like sisters.I don't think she'll belive me if i tell her i'll quit becouse i told her i wouldn't do it again the last time and i lied to her and went behind her back how do i regain my trust and not make her mad at me anymore i hate when she's not speaking to me what should i do?
urgent!
Well sweetie, the only reason she is that upset with you because she cares about you. She's probably felt betrayed and hurted since you lied to her. She's also worried because she doesn't want you to become addicted. Smoking is one of a bad addiction there is. It causes cancer, lungs cancer, diseases, etc. She doesn't want you to be sick.
You shouldn't give up and keep on trying to gain her trust back. it can get frustrating sometimes and you feel like she doesn't care about you.. but she really does. Trust is a fragile thing, once you break it.. its done.
You should sit her down and show how sorry you are and that you promise to quit. Tell her once you make this committment, you will stick with it. You don't expect her to trust you right away but ask her for another chance so you can prove yourself to her. convince her .. show that you're sorry. Give her some times too.. let her cool down and think about her decision.
hope I helped. good luck =]
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do you no any games that are similar to the hook up game on the-n.com
There's the prom avatar. its similar to the hook up game.
hope I helped =].
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ive been friends with this girl since 1st grade, on and off (little elementry school fites seperated us`during elem. school) and 5th grade everyone hated her, even my new best friend hated her too, and i almost went against her but didnt. Ive stuck by her side for the longest time, but then 6th grade came and she became freinds with everyone, and she hung out with everyone else more and more, and me less and less.
I felt betrayed, like 'what am i not good enough'. we still hung out but not alot. Then 7th grade came, and we were in differant clusters (other schools mite use teams, groups,...) and she made friends with so many differant types of people, most hated eachother. from the preppiest happiest girls, to the bitchiest wanna bees, to the 'punks' of 7th grade. and so she hung out with me even more less than last year.
We went on a summer vaca together and i thought things would be differant, or well thats what she said.
Then 8th grade came and she narrowed down her friends, and i was 'one of them' but i didnt really consider myself it. We attempted to become best freinds again like 7 times, I would send her random long notes throughout the year saying, things have gone bad again, we'd hang out, then i wouldnt speak to her for like 3-5 weeks...then id send a new note.
now 9th grade has come,in the begin, of the year, we didnt talk much but she would atleast say Hi. and talk to me alittle. then she asked me if i wanted to come over and we went through our busy sceduales (she always says shes busy) and i stayed after school with her, and she hung out with like other people and basically ignored her, then at her house we watched some boring movie, and i fell asleep. then i havent talked to her for like.....4 months. then i found out 3 weeks ago that she is always high and smokes pot, and that she isnt usually really busy, but is hanging out with potheads. geting high.
i dont know what i should. she hasnt been a good frend since elementry school, but when i needed her desperatly, she was usually there....idk.
its long but you can just skim it if you want.
Well hunn, people change over the year. You can still be friend with her but that doesn't mean you two can be the best of friend. She can be one of your good friend. Since she's always there for you when you're in desperate need. But I don't think she can be your bestfriend. Because a bestfriend is someone you can trust, someone you can talk to, share everything to and no secrets. Someone you can depend your life upon. Someone who gets you or can predict you're emotion without you telling them. I think she has none of those.
So I say you can keep her as a friend but not a close friend. It doesn't seem like you trust her enough to be close to her anyways.
hope I helped. good luck with your decision.
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hello everyone. well i'm pretty much wondering what to do to be pretty? i know this is a stupid question, but how do i FEEL pretty when i'm truly not at all. i have no self confidence and my self esteem is extremly low. it's been since i can remember. i pick out everything on my body and critize it. people tell me to shut up, and tell me i'm pretty but i just feel like they're just trying to be nice. i don't know how to take a compliment, and i just don't feel like i do anything right. i don't know it's just getting terrible. i feel like i'm 1000 pounds, and discusting.
-if anyone has any help, that'd be amazing.
thanks in advance.
Hi. I'm sorrie you hear that. This is how I look at it. If people compliment you on your look or tell you that you're pretty then you probably are. If you think you're ugly then maybe you are. I mean don't put yourself down. If someone put you down then that means they have low self esteem, that's why they're judging you. Its not hard to have confidence.
1. ST0P picking out your imperfections! [nobodys perfect!]. your inprefections are what perfect about you [if you get it].
2. D0N'T take put downs seriously. if they say negative things about you.. well then say they must hate themselves that's why they reflect it out on you.
3. if you feel fat.. well look at other fatt people! then see if you're really that fat?
4. last but not least TRY T0 LEARN H0W T0 L0VE Y0URSELF!!. =D.
instead of criticizin yourself.. hold back the critics. ! and look at what good about yourself. if someone say you're hott. your reply is I know! its not being conceited.. its confidence. just when you think about puttin down yourself.. try hold back and say something nice. that's the attitude & emotions part.
now the physical & fashion part. to be able to feel pretty and have confidence in yourself you must look pretty to have confidence. So you can have a good sense of style. do your hair. .. dress up. it doesn't have to be formal and dressy. but be cute and dress nice. do your hair. be accessorize.
umm.. wear a little of make up, N0T too much though. natural is always better. Be Yourself!.
Lastly, your health is very important. don't let stress and other things get to you. When you're tired and stress.. RELAX! listen to music, sleep, read, exercise, or do something that will keep your mind away from what stressing you. when you're thinking about things that would make you depressed.. talk to someone. let it all out! it will make you feel better. Be medicated if that helps. eat healthy food too and balance your meal out. I think that helps.
hope I helped! =]. this is my aim sn: shietitzvy. if you need more advice or someone to talk to.
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i wish i was rich...like more than anything...i really do...is there any way that i can forget about this desire? its killing me!
everyone want to be rich! =]. even I want to. You can either act on it or try to be happy with what you have. its not much but its what work hard for and earned it. You just need to learn to appreciate what you have instead of wanting for something else. But there's nothing wrong for wanting to be rich. There are ways to kill that ..
1. STUDY hard! education can get you anywhere you want. [look at bill gate & other sucessful people lol.]
2. MARRY a rich man. that would work.
3. BUY lotto and try to win?
4. sue some company.. and there you go.
5. join NBA or WNBA [I don't know your gender]
hope I helped =]. good luck
[I was kidding about those examples except #1.]
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Alright so like me and my best friend used to be really close, but then i met this guy that i like and my best friend and him don't get along at all. Ill admit he is an ass to her but thats only because she's annoying when he is around. So when i go to hang out with the guy i like and his friends (my other friend and i leave school for lunch or whatever) she gets soooo mad. I hang out with her a lot on the days that i leave to hang out with the guy i like because we have the same off hour and other stuff.
She'll like get super mad and cry and all this ridiculous stuff just because the guy i like and her dont like each other. I want to keep going to lunch with the guys and my friend because we have a lot of fun, but i dont want her to be mad at me!!! WE arent as close anymore like we used to be because she keeps getting mad at me! I donno what to do. :[
if it helps im 15/f
Your friend need to learn something called "sharing". There's nothing you can much if she's that way. You can tell her, she needs to share. Its not your fault if she doesn't get along with the guy you like and his friends. She's not your only friend. She needs to accept that. its not like you're abandonded her. You still hang out with her and so on. You just like hanging with other people too. She should find new friends too. umm also tell her you're trying to balancing out your time with her and the guy. She should stop worrying and overreacting. She's only making a fool out of herself. Let her know that its not that you don't want to hang out wit her. You want to spend some of your time with your other friends too. [sorry if its harsh]. But truth hurts.
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alright by boyfriend always grabbs me and puts his hand up my skirt and everything. like during school when were watching a movie and the lights our off, he starts grabbing me and tries to finger me. three of his friends laugh when they see and call me a whore and that hes their hero. and i told him to stop and all he does is laugh and says shutup whore. i dont wanna break up with him and im not going too but i need help like what do i say to get him to stop? thanks.
He needs to respect you. Why would you want to be with a guy who doesn't show you any respect or calling you a whore? You need to stand up to him and tell him what you like and don't. If he tries to do what you don't want him to then straight up tell him. "Hey look I don't like what you're doing and you need to stop. if you continue then you won't like the result.". If he continues.. you should slap him and leave , go to another place or hang out with someone else for that moment until he apologizes. Boys are like animals actually [N0 0FFENSE T0 THE GUYS!!]. you need to train them. They are childish and immature. They do whatever that makes them look cool infront of their buddies. So you need to show him that you respect yourself and its time for him to respect you. He can't do what he wants to you just because he's your bf. You just need to put him in his place.
hope I helped =].
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First let me start off by saying i have been with my boyfriend since October 23rd 2005. I'm 15 yrs old , and he just turned 18. My parents let him move in the 3rd month we were together, so we have been living with each other for awhile. I cheated on him a couple of times when we first got together and everytime we get in arguments he brings it up. I'm really in love with him , when im not around him for one second i have this feeling of lonelyness. We fight all the time , he always says i start them but sometimes i dont. Ive been trying really hard not to start an argument but it doesnt seem like hes putting in any effort. He always calls me names even if we just get into a disagreement. And theres been a couple times hes hurt me physically. He's choked me a couple of times and pushed me down. I know deep down hes not really a bad guy but im scared hes going to really hurt me. He always leaves me when he gets mad and im the one that always has to call him to come back. Hes hurt me mentally to where sometimes i think im not all there. Im young and my mom and dad are really concerned , i shouldnt be going through this. I was wondering if anyone could give some advice on mabe to make this relationship better , because i really dont want to have to leave him. Theres alot more to my story but im not going to write anymore.
- kaylaa
Yes you are very young. You have a whole life out there to experience. What your bf is doing to you is WR0NG. I know he is not a bad guy but no matter how upset he gets with you, he SH0ULDN'T hurt you physically or emotionally. Yeah, he loves you and you love him. But think about it [without including feelings but logically], does he really loves you? I mean if a guy truly loves you, he'll never lay his hands on you. He would control himself and take his anger elsewhere. I suggest you tell him to go to anger management. As for you and him, tell him you need a break and sort things out. Its better to work a relationship out when you're not together. Especially when you guys are constantly fighting. Its harder to work it out when you two are still together. Calling you names isn't a way to treat a girl. You should show him where you stand. If he calls you name.. let him know its wrong and you won't take that. Have your parents involve, tell your parents to let him know where he stands because he's 18 and guys at that age think they owns the house.
I know you want it to work out and you love him. But also think about your safety and how much this can affect you and him. If the relationship is not healthy soonner or later, you will grow out of it and get tired of fighting constantly and emotions will fade. Its just not good.
here's my sn: shiet itz vy .. if you need someone to talk to.
hope I helped and good luck with the bf.
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alrightie. so im close friends with a lot of guys and stuff. and tonight were going to the movies. my 3 girlfriends and 6 of my guy friends. there is this one boy that i think is eally cute. but im not sure if ilike him. i think i do but jsut the fact that he has a girlfriend is holding me back from liking him. so its me my 2 other girlfriends the guy i think is cute (derek) and 4 of my other/his guy friends. well this week derek has been ignoring his girlfriend. im not sure if they got in a fight or not. but he hasnt been talking to her online/myspace/on the fone/ on AIM. he called me a couple of nights and hes like im bored whats up? and stuff and liek i knew he wasnt on the computer because i can always hear him. hes a loud typer. and since i was on the fone with him he couldnt be with her. and she comments him on myspace sayin baby whats up? havnt heard from you in a while. well we have had this movie night planned since last week. and today his girlfriend called me and yelling at me telling me that im stealing her boyfriend. and im like what? so i asked him about it today and hes like me and her just got into a fight today because she thinks im cheating. but i know thats a lie. because my friend was with him. so does he like me? i mean were going to the movies and i wasnt going to go because im really tired but he like wants me to go hes like i miss you and i havnt hung out with you in a while. and were going to a romance movie. and i know his friends like my friends who are coming. and i just dont know. like what if he makes a move? i mean he has a girlfriend. and the fact that his girlfriend called me thinking that im stealing him. when me and her are like best friends. and now she hates me. also, she might show up to the movies. i was reading my friends comments on myspace. so i have no idea what to do. and i have been trying to call him and hes like in 4 text messages:
1. Look, im sorry i cnat talk.
2. Ok....uhhmmm..so...
and then i texted im liek c na you text cuz you said you cant talk?
he said:
3.Very true. lol sorry i sound wierd. uhm yeah
then im like are you ok? anyways how much money should i take tonite?
then hes like:
4: Ehhh im fine. dont worry bout the money cya tonite
and he normally doesnt write like that..
and the first letter of each text message...spells love...im so confused on what to do. the movies at 1130. i think. so yeah. help!!!
Hi, I know I'm younger but thought I can help. You should just go and act normal. If he makes a move, well remind him that he has a gf. You don't want to be involve unless he sort things out with her. You don't want to be a backstabber to your bestfriend. Trust me.. its not a good thing. Be honest with him. I think he has some sort of interest in you or else he wouldn't talk to you and giving you signals. So just go with the flow. Have fun. Stopp worrying too much. If he makes a move D0NT fall for it. If he cheats on his gf.. imagine if you go out with him. He can do it to you too with your other bestfriends. Just set him straight. [if he makes a move on you that is]. Cuz if you go along .. and hook up with him.. you'll be known for a backstabber, slut, hoe.. etc. N0T A G00D THiNG.
good luck. hope I helped. =].
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My feelings in a relationship aren't clear to me.
I have a boyfriend [of almost 3 months] he's amazing, believe me. But we have seem to have nothing in common, only that we are "weird". I spend a week with him over break... and now that we are in school again.. I'm kinda bored with my relationship.. because all we seem to do is.. make out and laugh at jokes.
But.. I think I like this other guy. I'm not sure if it's just a little crush.. because I'm getting symptoms of liking someone [this i know].. [thinking about them, hoping i see them around the hall corner, blushing, smiling too much when they acknowledge my presence, or when our eyes meet together in class] I think I like him for his looks only.. so I'm just waiting for that to go away.
But how can I be so sure?
I'm stuck..
I like my boyfriend, not love.. because I honestly don't. There is feelings for him.. Maybe opposites attract?
I don't know.
Any help? :[
You're just tired of being in a relationship. You're not ready for commitment. Yeah, you like you're boyfriend but at the same time you want to have fun. Maybe you should tell your boyfriend that you need to take a break. Take that time to sort your feelings. You don't know what you have until you lose it. So maybe when you're not with your boyfriend, you can date and stuff, then maybe then you miss your boyfriend and appreciate him more. Maybe so your feeling will come back. If it doesn't and you're still the same, then you and your boyfriend weren't right for one another. You both should stay friends, or friend with benefits, or however you like. If you have mixed feelings and you keep on leading this on.. it would hurt him much more when he finds out later.
hope I helped. and good luck on making your decision. Do what you feel is right. =].
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14/f. My friend's birthday was the other week and me and my other friends are planning a surprise party for her. Does anybody have any ideas? We want to do something creative, not just at one of our houses. She doesn't like the mall or movies or bowling, but she likes baking cookies and watching old movies :). Theres about 6 girls to invite including her, and also about 5 boys. Thanks in advance ^^.
You can have a "dare night"/.. think of something creative and have an outin dare night. That should be funn. Like hide it at stores and you have clues and each person have a dare and they go to which every clue leads them to. That should take all night. Its also funn!. Then you guys can order pizza after, ice cream or cake [you guys can bake her one and surprise her.] and rent an old movie [that everyone like] to watch.
OR you can give have a scavanger hunt. Create clues and have her go find each clues which led to her surprise party. .. you can throw her party at a restaurant.. and when she gets there.. have everyone sing her happy bday song and jump out to surprise her. Have dinner,hang out then you guys can go back to one of you girl's house and watch a movie , eat, and play games?/.. twister, monopoly, DDR?, video games, truth or dare, etc.
hope I helped =]. good luck
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Ok. so i am tired of getting up every morningg and starightening my hair and leave i want to do something with it. But i am terrible at doing hair. So with it straight i need some very cute hair styles and how to do them. Websites would be great! And i mean like easyyy. but not like a simple pony tail i know how to do that ;].
Thanks in advance.
Oh p.s my hair is to my shoulders
this is the site --> http://www.hairstyles-guide.com/hsmain.mv
and you can also french braid it if you know how. or just braid it normal. you can braid and tie it half up and half down. umm.. there are a lot.. you can curl it.
hope I helped.
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