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highschool
Ok so next week august 28th I start highschool and I'm not going to lie I'M TERRIFIED I don't know what to do or how to act who to talk to what to say I don't know anything! And what's bad enough is that I have a lot of people at this highschool who I didn't get along with in middleschool and still don't get along with and the drama omg the drama I can't stand the whole "she said this about you" "she said that about you" I hate it! I want to learn how to stay away from alll the drama and all the people I don't get along with does anyone have any tips on how to make my first year in highschool a year where I don't have to worry about everything and everyone??
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Okay okay....CALM YOURSELF!!! Highschool isn't quite as terrifying as it sounds or looks. Just be yourself...you don't have to go with the trends and you don't have to try to act cool, trying to act cool just makes people seem more...childish and dorky which leads to dumb comments such as "stupid freshman"...Don't pay attention to that. As for the drama drama drama people...stay away from them. Blow off everything they say it doesn't really matter. Make new friends, in your new classes just introduce yourself or say hi to the person sitting next to you. You're gonna be a freshman so most of the other freshman are feeling like you are right now...terrified, you will look calm and confident compared to them if you are the one to say hi first. At the first sign of a dramatic person, move yourself away, you don't want drama in highschool its just plain bad, so when you see a drama girl coming your way walk a different direction. Theres a whole school of new people to get to know. I promise its not that scary.
Hope this helps...and don't worry everything will be fine!
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I understand how you feel what you need to do is to associate with the right people,ignore bad comments,act like it doesn't affect you,eventually those who like to start trouble will go away because people like that want to see a reaction don't let them get to you.Sit away from people you don't get along with,don't make eye contact with them act as if they don't even exist so you stay away from all the drama.
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First piece of advice... RELAX!!. I remmebered my first day of high school too. I thought it was all badd but it wasn't. Its just like middle school except you are in a bigger and older environment.
Second, its HIGH SCH00L!. there will always be DRAMA!. one way to avoid it is ignore whoever you have problem with. If they say something tell them to get a life. cuz you have your own to deal with.
Last but not least, just have fun. its not hardd. you'll meet new friends. Don't try to act out of the ordinary. be yourself. hang out with the people that you know or with your friends. You'll be fine. If you don't know what to do .. ask someone. they'll help you. You're a freshman. .. you'll find AL0T of friends there .. trust me. freshman year is the best year.
good luck. and have fun. =].
hope I helped.
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i understand what you are going through. my advice to you is to stay calm. i was just as terrified as you are when i started, but then once i got used to everything it was fine. dont be too shy but dont be the loud and obnoxious one either. just be ur self and ppl will like you for who you are, not wat you pretend to be.
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