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My feelings in a relationship aren't clear to me.
I have a boyfriend [of almost 3 months] he's amazing, believe me. But we have seem to have nothing in common, only that we are "weird". I spend a week with him over break... and now that we are in school again.. I'm kinda bored with my relationship.. because all we seem to do is.. make out and laugh at jokes.
But.. I think I like this other guy. I'm not sure if it's just a little crush.. because I'm getting symptoms of liking someone [this i know].. [thinking about them, hoping i see them around the hall corner, blushing, smiling too much when they acknowledge my presence, or when our eyes meet together in class] I think I like him for his looks only.. so I'm just waiting for that to go away.
But how can I be so sure?
I'm stuck..
I like my boyfriend, not love.. because I honestly don't. There is feelings for him.. Maybe opposites attract?
I don't know.
Any help? :[
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You're just tired of being in a relationship. You're not ready for commitment. Yeah, you like you're boyfriend but at the same time you want to have fun. Maybe you should tell your boyfriend that you need to take a break. Take that time to sort your feelings. You don't know what you have until you lose it. So maybe when you're not with your boyfriend, you can date and stuff, then maybe then you miss your boyfriend and appreciate him more. Maybe so your feeling will come back. If it doesn't and you're still the same, then you and your boyfriend weren't right for one another. You both should stay friends, or friend with benefits, or however you like. If you have mixed feelings and you keep on leading this on.. it would hurt him much more when he finds out later.
hope I helped. and good luck on making your decision. Do what you feel is right. =].
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It sounds to me like you may not be ready for an intense relationship which could be okay as long as your boyfriend hasn't been forcing the issue. If you have feelings for other guys, maybe you should consider dating some other guys. If there doesn't seem to be a huge attraction between you and your boyfriend then you two should probably talk and decide if its what you both want to be in a relationship.
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