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My feelings in a relationship aren't clear to me.
I have a boyfriend [of almost 3 months] he's amazing, believe me. But we have seem to have nothing in common, only that we are "weird". I spend a week with him over break... and now that we are in school again.. I'm kinda bored with my relationship.. because all we seem to do is.. make out and laugh at jokes.
But.. I think I like this other guy. I'm not sure if it's just a little crush.. because I'm getting symptoms of liking someone [this i know].. [thinking about them, hoping i see them around the hall corner, blushing, smiling too much when they acknowledge my presence, or when our eyes meet together in class] I think I like him for his looks only.. so I'm just waiting for that to go away.
But how can I be so sure?
I'm stuck..
I like my boyfriend, not love.. because I honestly don't. There is feelings for him.. Maybe opposites attract?
I don't know.
Any help? :[ (link)
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It sounds to me like you may not be ready for an intense relationship which could be okay as long as your boyfriend hasn't been forcing the issue. If you have feelings for other guys, maybe you should consider dating some other guys. If there doesn't seem to be a huge attraction between you and your boyfriend then you two should probably talk and decide if its what you both want to be in a relationship.
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I have been dating (lets say bob) Bob for a year and 3 months. I love bob very much and always will for what we have been through together. I recently went to spain for a week and realized that as much as i love him and love dating him i dont think i am in love with him any more. It makes me sad but when we are together it just doesnt feel right any more.
My best friend and i have come close to dating before and (lets say his name is Cory) Cory and i will always have a common like for eachother even if we never date. The thing is, today when we were all together i wanted to be with Cory more than my own boy friend. I mean i love cory as a friend and a little bit more but I have been through Everything with Bob.
Bob has been so supportive of everything i have been interested in the past few months and he has been so lovable and there for me no matter what. He is so happy about our relationship right now and as much as i dont want to hurt him i dont think its right to fake being in love with him.
So my question is should i stay with him and just see if my feelings for my best friend pass or should i tell him my feelings of not being in love with him any more and just see what he says.
Its been happening for a little while well the past couple of weeks and I am just very confused.
Thank you for the help. (link)
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Maybe you should see what Bob thinks about taking a break. That way you can go on a date with your friend and see if there really are feelings there. After that, you and Bob should talk and decide if you think staying in the relationship is a good idea. It's a tough decision but you really need to just step back and see what your feelings really are.
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