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boy trouble
15/f
so theres this guy and i really like him a lot but the thing is he knows i like him but doesnt know me or even what i look like ... and one of my best guy firends is best friends with him and my best guy friend is dating my best girl friend so me and my biff have been trying to set something up where all 4 of us could hangout together...we are probably hanging out tommorow ... so 1st do you think this will be awkward? 2 what should i wear?!? 3 i need conversation topics .. ive never even talked to him before at all! (hes uber shy)
ahhh im so worried i really need some help i really want and need this to work i havent had a boyfriend in over a year and i havent hooked up in 6 months so i really want this to work out and i reallyyyyy like him
please and thanks <3
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okay first of all, RELAX! second of all, BE Y0URSELF is the best policy. If this guy doesn't like you for you then it wouldn't work out.
Something to wear, okay.. depends where you're going. If you go to the movie and mall.. then be casual but also dressy. Wear jean and tank top with a sweater over and sandals? or skirt and a tee and flats or sandals. Wear earrings, light make up, and accessories not too much. I'm not sure what you have in your closet so I'm just do random pick. ask your friend for opinions too.
Topics you can talk to him about .. well just talk to him about anything. be random. talk to him like you would talk to someone you know. Don't try to impress him. Ask him what he likes, get to know him, but also be flirtyy. Then something will come up and you guys might have a few common things. Just be yourself! don't try to impress him to where you're not you and its a totally turn off.
hope I helped. good luck and have fun =].
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so i am basically in the same situation. but what you to do is just be yourself that way you know he would be liking you for you and not who you would be pretending to be. but one thing is make sure that you arent pretending to be stupid, from what ive heard from guys they hate it when girls do it. for the awkward part...no it shouldnt be awkward since you'll have 2 of your bestfriends there. talking should normally just come when your like all talking. and as to what to wear, whatever you want. i always go with whats most comfratable to me =]
hope this helped
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