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okay so, i dated this boy for about a year, after all that time, he started taking everything we had for granted and bragging about things that had happened, i had liked this other boy for a while and i found out he liked me and it pushed me to break up with my boyfriend, we dated for two weeks, he got drunk, and broke up with me through voicemail, after a week of crying and not knowing he was drunk when he had done this, he now tells my bestfriend that he regrets everything and started talking to me again, in the week or so we weren't talking, i started hanging out with my ex, and i still really like the other boy, but i don't know if i should trust him enough not to do the same thing again over the summer. help?
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Hey, well i personally think that you should date neither of the guys. Now, my way of thinking is very different from most girls that i know. The way i see it, once someone does something to me to screw me over, there on the bad side of me FOR GOOD. Whether there freinds, bestfriends, or boyfriends, thats my way of seeing things. Also i believe once a cheater, always a cheater. You usually cant change the way that someone is, especially at this age (im assuming that your a teenager). The reason why you cant is due to the maturity level that all guys have and there way of thinking of girls. Also the lack of respect that they have for girls. Most relationships at this age dont usually last. I would just look for new guys and maybe guys that are a little older. I mean a year or two older, nothing drastic or illegal.
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well.... since you dont trust either of them you
should hang out with both of them, take it slow.
if you cant make up ur mind about which guy you want, then neither one matters b/c if it's too hard to decide between the 2 of them then.. i guess you dont really like 1 more than the other!
hope this helps!! ;)
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hmmm... well it sounds like your weaving a tangled web here. if you really like this new guy, then maybe you should give him a second chance. but dont just pick things up right where they left off. make it clear that you dont trust him as much as you used to. if he really wants you back and he is truely sorry, then he will be willing to work a little bit for it. whatever you do, dont go running to him. let him come to you and just play it cool. as for the other guy, your going to have to choose one eventually but for right now i would take things slow with both of them and see how things play out.
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I say you should give it a break and date neither of the guy. Just take to them and have fun. Since trust is an issue right now. So why not have fun and while figuring out your feelings than make your choice and regret. I think you should talk to your ex and the other guy. See how it goes with both. Have them gain your trust and work hard to get to you. Let them know you're not some kind of cheap hoe that they can have and leave whenever they want. Its summer, have fun. Don't get involve in a relationship that you're doubting. You'll winding up hurt or lust. keep your options open and see which guy you have more connection with.
good luck. hope I helped. =].
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