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hi im rachel and im open to any questions ud like to ask. ;p"...THE FRUSTERATION AND ANGER BURNING INSIDE ,WHY I CANT EXPRESS HOW IM FEELING INSIDE BOILS OVER LIKE A SLAVE CHILDS AMBISHION FOR FREEDOM IGNITES A FIRE THE SAME FLAME THATS BURNS ETERNALLY AT MARTIN LUTHER KINGS GRAVE ..I CRY BECUASE MY SOUL IS IN PAIN AND MY LIVING IS IN VAIN BUT STILL I PRESS ON FOR THAT BRIGHTER DAY ...THATS WHY I CRY..."
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im 16 and i got my lisense in feb.
i had for 2 monthes now
my moms friend says she thinks the law says i have to wait a year untill i can drive my 8 year old sister around
is that true or can i drive my sis whenever i want
well ive just got mine and it says you can drive family members in the car, but i live in texas and idk if the lawas are the same in every state....
As a percentage, how effective and reliable is the birth control pill against pregnancy?
I know it doesn't protect against STI's.
they say its like 99% but thats not true its usually around 85% and thats only if you take it everyday and the same time give or take a few minutes off.....
i coloured my hair black with a semi permanent yesterday. but i can see it fading away a little.. is there like a special shampoo, or tips to stop it fading??
if u want the color not to fade id suggest dyeing your hiar with permanent hair dye instead...
can ppl with astigmatism have them?
i have astigmatism, and yes u can have color contacts!
alright so I got my lip pierced about two weeks ago. I think that at one point it was infected (there was greenish gooey stuff) but I kept cleaning it&now it doesn't have discharge, it doesn't burn or hurt, &im pretty sure that if it was infected, its not anymore. but I was putting a new stud in earlier today, and I noticed that on the inside, the skin around the piercing is like an off-white, slightly grayish color. is this normal ? what could it be ? please respond with what you think it is, &how sure you are that you're right. thanks !
same thing happened to me wen i got my lip pierced, but it'll be fine if you keep cleaning it...
Ok so this guy (who is now a senior, "Ben") and I (now a sophomore) have been on/off for the last 6 months. In January, we met at school, and we liked each other, but I stopped liking him after I found out he was a player and crap. So then we didn't talk and I got another bf meanwhile, but then, "Ben" and I started talking in May and we got together. After 2 weeks, he broke up with me OVER A TEXT and it literally didn't phase me at all. I wasn't sad, or anything. I just moved on. 3 weeks ago, I went into the store he worked at, not even knowing he was working, and saw him. I was with like 5 other guys, and that night, he texted me and asked me a bunch of questions. We started talking, and we got back together. We hung out twice, and the second time, it was a date with his friend and my friend. That day did not go good at all. Half of the day, he was mad at me because the two did not "hit it off" so I got blamed(go figure). Then he broke up with me again over a text, and this time I was crushed. Idk why, it was just hard because I kinda wore my heart on my sleeve with him and trusted him. His excuse was "He's moving and needs time to think..."
Idk what to dooooo :/ I can't move on.
it only seems like it now, but on and off boyfriends are not that great. just be friends with him and try and find other guys that ur interested in...
i would like hair like
http://i247.photobucket.com/albums/gg128/JDanielle89/l_ce64e139700254123d077b543efadd36.jpg
but i dont know what to ask for. can someone help!
ya i agree with naynaybby
just print it out ive done this hundreds of times and just give it to the person thats gonna cut ur hair and itll loook ok...
trust me its easier than trying to tell them
it can turn into a real disaster that way.
I am seeing a therapist soon, so I know I can ask there... but I was just wondering...
If someone feels depressed for a few weeks, then all the sudden back to happy (seemingly out of nowhere?) is that a symptom of depression?
ya its called borderline depression.
http://www.nimh.nih.gov/health/publications/borderline-personality-disorder.shtml
http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/borderline-personality-disorder/DS00442/DSECTION=8
http://www.behavenet.com/capsules/disorders/borderlinepd.htm
http://www.behavenet.com/capsules/disorders/moodis.htm
hope this helps ^_^
is there any way to make my boobs bigger?
some birth controls make ur boobs get bigger, yazmin works ok.
hello. I just started using birth control this month, so I've obviously been on it for 28 days. I'm on yasmin, and today I'm starting a new pack. throughout the entire month, I've been finding extremely small and tiny amounts of "blood". I literally just got off of my period. I started it on like saturday I think. it looks like now I'm finally off of that. so my period would've lasted 6 days. my reason for going on this, was because every month I'd get extremely sick. anything hot made me sick, nothing was helping my cramps, during the first few days of my period I'd bleed a lot, my period always lasted seven days, and I'd be throwing up every single month. my period has always been this way. my older sis takes yasmin so I thought it might also be good for me. I noticed a change in my cramps when I was on my period. They weren't as bad as they usually are, I didn't bleed as much as I normally do, but it still seems as if I stayed on my period for a long ass time. I thought using birth control was supposed to make my period shorter also, i didn't think I'd still be on it the same amount of days. I knew I was on it because I got bad cramps this time around, and the blood was actually red this time. with this "spotting" or whatever you wanna call it, It's always a lightish brown color. sometimes it tends to be darker. it seems like no matter what i do I'll never be able to go without using a pad, pantyliner, or tampon, because I'll end up staining my clothes a little bit. I ask my older sis about this all the time, and she just says I'm stupid if I stop using it. I read the whole booklet thing on this birth control, and it says it's normal for spotting to occur within the 1st three packs of pills, when you start using this. I'm starting the second pack today. what I'm wondering is, has this ever happened to anyone when they started birth control? Because I know this is normal, but I thought it wasn't gonna be like this every single day. even though It's just spotting, I've felt like I've been on a period this whole month. just because if I didn't use anything, I'd be staining my underwear. if this has happened to anyone, can you please inform me about it, and tell me what kind of birth control you were on? and also, I'd like to know if i should just wait it out, until after I've finished using a third pack of pills, and then see if the spotting stops. or if I'm better off just not taking it anymore? since this is my first time using it I don't really know what some good reasons are to switch to a different kind of birth control. It's not tons of "blood" that comes from me, but if I go without anything I'll stain my clothes like I said. It's fine when i pee and everything, but when I wipe myself, there's a light brownish color on the toilet paper. Does anyone think this spotting will stop soon, or am I better off finishing the 3rd pack next month, to see if it stops? I've been using those carefree thong pantiliners for this spotting, because it's not a lot that comes from me. Someone please respond if you'd know anything about this. I'm really sorry this is so long. If my sister would give me any straight answers I'd ask her. I'm getting really frustrated with this. Thank you so much to anyone who answers. Please answer asap :) happy valentine's day everyone! I hope you enjoy it!
hon i was exactly the smae way when i was on yasmin but its cauz the pill your on isnt a strong enough dose to fully stop your period so it becomes a brownish color and/or spotting. but if i was u i woul dgo to your doctor and ask for a different brand trinessa works fine and ive been on it for like a year and i dont spot like i did when i was on yasmin.
hope this helps! ^_^
ok so i'm a freshman and i've been thinking a lot about college, do you think it's too early? i'm just excited haha.
perfectly normal cuz college is way better than high skool.
15/f
okay,so way before i even knew what it was i was attracted to girls.ive been attracted to guys,but a lot more girls.So i was pretty sure i was bi-sexual.But i had sex and done everything with a guy,and didn't get any enjoyment whatsoever.not because it was my first time,because even after that.i just am not attracted to a penis.touching it grosses me out unless im drunk or something.but i still think a lot of guys are hott and thought i was like in love with one.but its just so wierd now,cause when i did everything with a girl it just seemed right and everything(of ocurse the first time was kinda awkward tho)
but yeah so now im really confused
ya your most likely bi b/c if you were totally a lesbian you wouldnt be interested in guys at all you see im just the opposite of ya cauz i like chics and guys but to me im not all that interested in having sex with girls cauz it just doesnt feel as good as when your doin it witha guy. but i still like girls, almost as much as guys so hon your bi for now and dont be ashamed of it.
14/f.
I think guys are waywaywaywayway hot.
Like, I totally like guys.
But sometimes, I think girls are hot.
Like, I think Mandy Musgrave (the actress who plays Ashley Davies on south of nowhere) is wayyyy hot.
And I think her kissing gabriel ("spencer") is way hot.
But, I wouldn't want to actually do anything with her.
Same thing goes for these two chicks at my school,
and one of the ppl in T.A.T.U. (the russian band)
idk, like, i think they're hot,
i think them kissing other girls are hot,
but i wouldnt want to kiss them or anything, like i would a guy.
soo what does this make me ?
youre probably just bicurious.
does anyone know the name of the song that goes,
" be bad be bad, OH! be bad be bad "
want to be bad by tegan & sara
17: female
so ive known this kid for about 5 years now. we've been like supposively "best friends" for about 2 years now. he is my cousins neighbor so we use to hang out ALL the time. like everyday in the summer. before he was going out with his girlfriend everyone would be like are you two going out (because of the way we acted towards each other) but since we go to different schools i hardly see him anymore :( he has a girlfriend of about a year and a half. keep in mind he is 16. ive always had a thing for him for about 2 years now but he doesnt know anything about it! im not one to share my feelings; ive never had a boyfriend. but everyone thinks im so gorgeous and are blown away when they find that out. we have the greatest talks but im just so jealous because i wish he could be mine. but i know he is compeletely in love with his girlfriend and she is absoultely gorgeous. he texted me one day about two, three weeks ago and was like i miss you so much. i was talking to nick (my cousin) at lunch today and i was like gosh i miss her alot, i really wanna hangout with her again. i was like awww. i seen him tonight at a hockey game because he wanted me to go. it was a girls game and it was his school vs. my school and his girlfriend was playing. when i came with my two other friends he was like come on kristin sit by me and told my cousin to scoot over haha. so he would like wisper stuff in my ear. he always jokes around and was like yeah kristin (me) was the first time i "did it" and we always just joke around like that and i fall for him all over again & there was this older guy that he knew from hockey that was sitting next to him and he was like gosh isnt he pretty, and the guys looks at me and just smiles. i use to just be really angry at him because all he does is hangout with his girlfriend and cares about her now, and plus im jealous but everytime i hangout with him it feels so right. nobody knows i mean like nobody that i have a crush on him =p i try so hard to get over him because i know him and his girlfriend will probably be together for a long time (unfortunately) and i know if they broke up we could probably have a thing. telling him my feelings wouldnt help any either. i mean i know he is in LOVE its obvious. he doesnt see any other girl like he sees his girlfriend. she is his first everything (if you know what i mean). what do you think i should do. hes my best friend. and i really care about him & always feel comfortable around him. i try really really hard to be happy for him and i am happy that he is happy but for me, its like im dying inside. and i never want that night to end when we hangout...
thanks - sorry soo long.
ive beenin this cituation many times befoer and the best thing you can do is justy be his friend for now b/c he already has a gf adn it sounds to me like he really likes her. so just be there for him when he needs you, as his friend, unless he becomes single or tells you hes interested in you b/c it could make your friendship akward if he doesnt feel the same way about you.
ok. last night i had a dream that I was in a car crash and died. I was right next to a place called Hendricksons. Well I talked to my friend who lives in Arkasas. And he told me that this morning some one died in the same way I did in my dream going to (Hendersons) Is this weird to anyone else? Cause i'm freeking out here.
ok its probably just a coinsidance cause no one can predict the future.
Well i am 14/f, and i know im young but i think i am in love with this guy. His name is Chris, and hes 16. Well, we are like best friends. Hes always over my house, and im always over his. Well we about to cross the street, and it was night, we wanted pizza. Well a car went speeding past and he ran and pulled me back. We both got cuts and bruises, but he saved my life. And he was so worried he carried me home and stole his parents car and took me to the hospital. another time, i was locked out of my house, and he came and picked me up, and walked me to his house, I ended up sleeping over his house, in his bed with him. Well nothing happened, but we were cuddling. We have this thing that we get each other, and our families are so messed up, divorced and dead. But...he has a girlfriend, of 3 months, on and off. She is a whore and cheats on him but shes really attractive, and she has a hold over him. He tells me that he cant get over her and doesnt love her, and she hates me and curses me out, and i told her i love him and she punched me. He got so pissed and broke up with her but they got back together. What should i do? Tell him? or no? Thanks in advance
you should tell him! it sounds to me like he is interested in you since he did break up with his gf for a while when she punched you.
how many crunches should i do to get abs as quikly as possible dont worry im eating healthy and walking 30 min so just tell me thanks.
50 regular crunches, 50 crunches to the left side of your legs, adn 50 crunches to the right side of your legs. work your way up to 100 each.
tomorrow I have my first date with this guy ive known since 5th grade. I'm in 9th now. I'm going with him another guy and 2ish other girls. Ive heard that he wants to make out with me. Ive never made out before and im kind of confused. I know how its done but I don't at the same time. Any techniques or advice from anyone?
ok uve got to relax cause even if you know wat youre doin, when ever your tense and nervouse your mouth with be stiff adn that just is a turn off. dont like shove your tongue down his throught just start off with a normal kiss and slowly open your motha dn lick his lips every so slightly to see if hes interested and if he is he'll moast likely open his mouth too and then you just have to play with his tongue, adn guys love it if you nibble on their lower lip but be gentle. and please dont open your mouth so wide cause itll be like your tryin to eat his face off.lol
Well here it goes ..
This is kinda silly but i found out i really like this guy in my class..
Well everything was going fine until i saw him like constantly with other girls and how he acted around them. Like when he's with me i feel like a princess but hwne he's with the other girls it's like i'm a nobody cuz what he like does/says to me he says to other girls ..
Then he asked me to sit with him i'm like nahh .. cuz i was sitting with my girls and then he just randomly asked someone else like he really didnt care, if i were to sit with him or not. When i'm talking to him this girl "EM" walks by he totallyy freezes. thats made me feel even worse.. So now i'm really mean to him because of how he treats me . And he acts like helikes me trys to talk to me and make eye contact and stuff because he knows i'm mad at him . But i cant tell him why i don't want him to know i like him because he use to like me and i liked his best friend at the time .. and so he stooppeedd .. and i try to be nice but all i can do is act mean because i think in my head be nice and when it comes to flashbacks of how he treated me comes and i act like a b**** .. and the more i see it he cares when i'm mad and he trys to talk now a days . What should i do ?
i want him to like me ?
I don't know what to do ?
and being mad had made him turn to my best friend ..
and she likes him now and he might like her.. oh please answer :)
hes a player ¡DUH! this happened to me like a few days ago adn so na id leave him alone cuz hes just playin with all ya girls to see how ya react, so he can find whotever hes interested in.