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I think i love him...


Question Posted Friday January 25 2008, 9:02 pm

Well i am 14/f, and i know im young but i think i am in love with this guy. His name is Chris, and hes 16. Well, we are like best friends. Hes always over my house, and im always over his. Well we about to cross the street, and it was night, we wanted pizza. Well a car went speeding past and he ran and pulled me back. We both got cuts and bruises, but he saved my life. And he was so worried he carried me home and stole his parents car and took me to the hospital. another time, i was locked out of my house, and he came and picked me up, and walked me to his house, I ended up sleeping over his house, in his bed with him. Well nothing happened, but we were cuddling. We have this thing that we get each other, and our families are so messed up, divorced and dead. But...he has a girlfriend, of 3 months, on and off. She is a whore and cheats on him but shes really attractive, and she has a hold over him. He tells me that he cant get over her and doesnt love her, and she hates me and curses me out, and i told her i love him and she punched me. He got so pissed and broke up with her but they got back together. What should i do? Tell him? or no? Thanks in advance

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x2yankeesfan2x answered Sunday January 27 2008, 11:29 am:
I would deffinatly tell him. Like the person before me said life is too short. I was always afraid to tell someone I liked them. Infact I was kinda scared when I told my current g/f lol, but now im really glad I did because I really love her. Everything seems scary the first time you do it, like a ride at a amusement park. the fist time you don't wanna but then after you do you wanna do it again.By the way about that too young to be in love thing, I don't know why older people think were too young to know what it is. Trust me you'll know when your in love.But I'd deffinatly tell him.If he risked his life to save you, im sure your special to you.

Hope I helped. - Sorry that its soo long.

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kittaytoro answered Saturday January 26 2008, 7:48 pm:
You should definitely tell him!
Life is short, and if you don't, you may end up looking back regretting not saying anything. Explain your feelings, and why you're feeling that way. In person would be prefferable, but if you have to do it through a note or something, make sure you talk to him afterwards.
It sounds like this guy REALLY cares about you, and if his girl friend is treating him like this, both of you shouldn't have to deal with it.
You two sound like you really understand each other, and should eventually end up together.

Best of luck!!!

XOXO
Kat!

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redhotchic answered Saturday January 26 2008, 11:03 am:
you should tell him! it sounds to me like he is interested in you since he did break up with his gf for a while when she punched you.

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iloveaar answered Saturday January 26 2008, 1:05 am:
definatly tell him, but nothing like ..to direct that he can get "scared" and go away from you or start becoming distant...just tell him in an indirect way or like kind of jokind asking something related about you two being in a relatinoship...it sounds like he is interested..or avery veyr VERY good friedn,,,but it seems like both things..try to use psycology on him if that doens't work hahahaha saying things that will make him realize his girlfirend s a slut and cheats on him and that you care more for him than she does! ...if your not shy enough just tell him...but somehitng like "its okay if you are not interested i just wanted you to know that i am " ..so he wont feel like pressure to "if you dont say you like me back we might not be as very good friends as now :) good luck!!

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