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my sister is hurt
ok so my 10 year old sister has a 13 year old friend and her friend only talks about what fun she is going to have with her other friends and she never wants to hang out with my sister and she even told her about her birthday party and how much fun its going to be but my sister wasnt invited my sisters friend is always talking about stuff that my sisters isnt invited to it really hurts her feelings what should me or my sister do about it thank you so so so much if anyone takes the time to answer this question PPPEEAAACCCEEE OOUUUTTT
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I know what it's like and it is absoloutely horrible. This girl doesn't sound like a very good friend but part of the problem is going to be the age gap. Although it might not seem like much, there's a big difference between 10 years old and 13 years old and although it's very possible this girl is deliberately showing off about her supposed 'wonderful life' to make your sister feel bad, it's also possible that she's got to the 'self-obsessed teenage stage' that means she just forgets about anyone else's feelings.
Try to get your sister involved in some out of school groups and activities, which will give her the opportunity to socialise with a greater circle of people. Ultimately, this girl does not sound like she will ever be the sort of friend your sister deserves, so she needs to try to make some new ones. Spend some time with her. Help her build up her confidence and then introduce her to a fun group, doing drama or a sport or something else. It will boost her confidence no end and do her the world of good to make new friends.
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tell your sis that if you says that stuff and don't invite her to her parties then she ain't a true friend and she should not hang out with her if she feels that way. and if she says she wants to be her friend then tell your sis to talk to her friend and tell her how she feels about what kind of friend she is being. hope i helped.
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Honestly?
Pull your sister aside, tell her that there will be other parties, and try to help her get over it.
Because she will, eventually, get over the fact that her 'friend' is quite the conceited one.
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