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Being Honest
Well awhile ago before me and my girlfriend were going out, we were talking about sex and our sex lives and whatnot. Well i told her i had sex with 2 girls before, when i'm actually a virgin. I guess i didn't want to feel like a loser or something and she might not have believed that i was a virgin anyway. Well me and my girlfriend haven't had sex but we've fooled around quite a bit. And now that we are going out we might get into an argument or something and she'll bring up "how i had sex with two girls before." And i'll be like whatever, but i'll feel bad because i really haven't been with those girls and she doesn't know the truth. I mean i want to be able to tell her but i dont want her to get mad at me for lying to her in the first place. Also, she probably won't believe me on top of it because one time i was like and i'm a virgin and she was like "lol yeah right." so i dont know what to do about it. i feel like if i were honest everything might get a little wierder because i'm a virgin and she's not. Because i sometimes come off as a horny sex freak sometimes lol. Please help me and give me some suggestions of what i should do. Btw, i'm 16/M and my girlfriend is 15/F.
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Most young, insecure guys lie about that at SOME point to someone. The fact that it was your girlfriend kinda sucks.
If you're going to tell her, sit her down and explain how nervous you were and you knew she wasnt so you didnt want to seem inexperienced. Be serious and she will believe you.
Usually it takes less than 30 seconds of
"I dont believe you!"
"Its true."
"I really don't believe you!"
"Its true."
"That cant be true!"
"Its true"
"I dont... really? Is it true?"
"Yes, its true."
"Wow..."
So on and so forth.
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tell her the truth! she will be sooo much more upset and hurt if you dont! and you dont want to hurt her do you? cause if my bf ever lied to be i would be so upset and sad! its that simple just tell her! good luck! :]
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Tell her the truth!
You two are dating. She may be understanding. Tell her you have to tell her something important and that you are being completely honest. If she asks why you lied...just tell her that you felt intimidated. I honestly don't see why she would get super upset. Think of it this way...at least it wasn't a lie in the other way. If you had told her you were a virgin and you really weren't, I could see how she would get very upset.
And uh coming off as a "horny sex freak"...that can be just about anyone, virgin or not.
Good luck!
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