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I want a boyfriend, but not just anyone
Okay, well im 14/f, and almost all my friends in my school have boyfriends, and i really want one. Well i like this guy named chris and i told him how i felt and he said he felt the same way, but didnt want a girlfriend. He said maybe in a month or two. Well that was 6 six weeks ago, and i feel the same way.
About a week ago one of my BEST FRIENDS asked him out and he said no, but wanted to be friends with benefits. She said yes! I found out from him the next day and at least he had the decency to tell me. I slapped him and walked away. Well he texted me and said he doesnt like her, but thought she was hot, and i was beautiful, and that she was just a fling, and he cared about me, and didnt want to have strings attached. Well he broke it off with my best friend, whos not my bff anymore, and asked me out and he said hes ready to have a gf. I went "so what makes you think i still like you?" he said "idk, but hopefully you do...i really like you."
That was last week, and i avoided him. He is so sorry, he wrote me a song! And calls me every night, and i ignore him, but i never answered, and he wrote me a love note. Obviously he cares for me, but how can i trust him? What should i do? go out with him? say no? ignore him? Am i right to be mad? I am really confused and thanks in advance, and im sorry its so long <3
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idk...first i thought well he didnt want sex did he??? i thought just kissing...but w/e if its just sex the answer is DONT DATE HIM but for other reasons keep reading haha
ok well did he show that he liked you before you told him you didnt like him anymore? or that it was a possibility. i dont think you should be so upset because its not like he cheated on you or anything you guys werent dating and didnt say you were going to take this anywhere so maybe you should be more clear next time? anyway ask him how you know it can be true but the thing is a girl can never believe what a guy says only what he actually does
he said he likes you-he doesnt date you
he says he doesnt want a girl-he gets benefits from ur ex-bff
he says he wants you-the next thing to look at is what he does about it. he is trying to show you he cares and i know its sooo hard to see if a guy is genuine but maybe just wait a little while but if your still comfortable with him and still like him and think you can trust him [note: not want to trust him but think you should as in you have a reason too] then try dating him right now just say you need a little time to think a couple days or a week or two he made you wait 6 weeks he better be able to hold out on you for a little bit! or hes so not worth it! anyway maybe just see if hes acting like he should and being trustworthy dont just start dating him and believe every word he says
i hope i helped and i hope everything works out! good luck! :]
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oh but btw u have def. a right to be mad at ur friend and u do have a right to be mad at him-dont think u shouldnt! i would!! but dont waste a lot of time and energy being mad
and props on slapping him! thats nice girl! ;]
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I'm afraid a week is not enough to prove that he cares. It really isn't. He told another girl that he just wanted her for sex. Even if he does like you more than her, you bet he still mostly wants sex.
It's amazing how, as soon as you stop liking him, he starts liking you.
You have a right to be mad. I think it would be wise to say no and ignore him.
He sounds like a horny player. You can find something better then a guy who likes you, but it willing to fool around with your bestfriend anyways.
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