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On/Off Boyfriend
Ok so this guy (who is now a senior, "Ben") and I (now a sophomore) have been on/off for the last 6 months. In January, we met at school, and we liked each other, but I stopped liking him after I found out he was a player and crap. So then we didn't talk and I got another bf meanwhile, but then, "Ben" and I started talking in May and we got together. After 2 weeks, he broke up with me OVER A TEXT and it literally didn't phase me at all. I wasn't sad, or anything. I just moved on. 3 weeks ago, I went into the store he worked at, not even knowing he was working, and saw him. I was with like 5 other guys, and that night, he texted me and asked me a bunch of questions. We started talking, and we got back together. We hung out twice, and the second time, it was a date with his friend and my friend. That day did not go good at all. Half of the day, he was mad at me because the two did not "hit it off" so I got blamed(go figure). Then he broke up with me again over a text, and this time I was crushed. Idk why, it was just hard because I kinda wore my heart on my sleeve with him and trusted him. His excuse was "He's moving and needs time to think..."
Idk what to dooooo :/ I can't move on.
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it only seems like it now, but on and off boyfriends are not that great. just be friends with him and try and find other guys that ur interested in...
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Right now you dont think you can move on, but trust me soon youll be able to move on. This ben guy really doesnt seem like a good boyfriend, if he keeps getting together and breaking up with you all the time I'm thinking you were right when you said he was a player. Don't worry though, you'll get over him. Just give it time.
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