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Sexual Orientation
15/f
okay,so way before i even knew what it was i was attracted to girls.ive been attracted to guys,but a lot more girls.So i was pretty sure i was bi-sexual.But i had sex and done everything with a guy,and didn't get any enjoyment whatsoever.not because it was my first time,because even after that.i just am not attracted to a penis.touching it grosses me out unless im drunk or something.but i still think a lot of guys are hott and thought i was like in love with one.but its just so wierd now,cause when i did everything with a girl it just seemed right and everything(of ocurse the first time was kinda awkward tho)
but yeah so now im really confused
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A lot of people go through a stage where they get a little confused about their sexuality. It's normal, especially when you're a teenager. I would say not even half of teens who think they're bisexual really are, or still say they're on when they grow up.
And as for the penis thing: I'm 100% straight, and penis' gross me out. I'll have sex and everything, but I think penis' are so ugly and nasty looking, so I guess that's normal, too.
Don't try to rush into deciding what your sexuality is. Experiment if you have to, but don't claim you're something until you're positive it's what you are.
And skylalou_1, that's kind of rude to call it gross. You may not agree with it, but you shouldn't start being rude to someone who's asking for advice.
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idk about if your bi or not but i just wanted to add that most girls think penis' are gross at that age. its totally normal. im 14 and i have a bf but i still think his penis is gross. your so young! idk if you should be all into them this early in life! hope i helped and i hope you figure everything out! :]
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Ok. Now, I didn't write that. I'm so so sorry that that rude comment was made. I was sitting at the desk and I left to go to another room and somebody came and must have gotton under my name. I didn't even know anything about it until my account was banished and I felt extremely horrible. I hope you can forget about that and accept my apology. I mean, I'm against bi's, gays, and stuff like that, but I would never say that. I hope you can understand. Bye. ~ Skyla ~
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Well I can say I am in that same position. I dated a guy for a year and a month and we had sex a lot. I did it to just do it but then this girl came along who was gay and I was really attracted to so we started fooling around and now Im in love with her and we've been together for almost 8 months now. I still think guys are hot but I don't want to sleep wit them. I mean you sound like your bi to me. Its okay to like girls and you might just become gay like I did. Well I hope Ive helped you with your question.
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ya your most likely bi b/c if you were totally a lesbian you wouldnt be interested in guys at all you see im just the opposite of ya cauz i like chics and guys but to me im not all that interested in having sex with girls cauz it just doesnt feel as good as when your doin it witha guy. but i still like girls, almost as much as guys so hon your bi for now and dont be ashamed of it.
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Dont worry so much about finding a label for yourself.
I mean, seriously, theres not a problem here. You might like girls more than guys. You might find you just need the right guy to like guys alot too, who knows. The only way you're going to figure it out is by dating more.
So date more, and worry about what you are in a few years.
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