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ahh geez i knew this would happen
ooook so to make the story short, i liked my best guy friend for a year, never said anything because he had a girlfriend. he breaks up with the girlfriend and we start a friends with benefits relationship, i only gave him a hj and we felt each other up. i started to like him again, like alot, like i thought i loved him and the night i decide to tell him he gets a new girlfriend right before i get the courage to tell him. so we ended the friends with benefits for the month that his relationship lasted...then we started again with the benefits. drama started with his first ex after she found out what we were doing and we stopped for like 2 weeks and then started again. now 3 girls like him and he wants to end it for good. so my non boyfriend is ending our non relationship. i hinted to him that i still like him and he knows i used to like him but him being a stupid guy said "well since there were no feelings involved it should be easy to just stop" now i dont want to complicate all this even more so i told him that i dont like him. guess what i do like him and there were feelings involved. even though it was friends with benefits when we were together it was like we were going out because he was romantic about it. so yeah i feel like we're breaking up and tonight i cried more than i did after i broke up with an actual boyfriend i had last year.
how do i get over this? should i tell him i really do like him before he gets another girlfriend? i know friends with benefits wasn't a good idea if i have attachment issues but its too late for that so dont lecture me please.
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ok so i went to school with this guy .when i first met him i had a crush on hime for a long time . so he is now in my class and i accept the fact that he has a gf so we are friends and throught the year we kind of grew into more . it was very complicated but i decided to tell him how i felt and it was the MOST RELIVING FEELING IN THE ENTIRE WORLD! and all you have to do is tell him how you feel . and DO NOT REGRET IT . all you can do is tell everything you like him why he is special to you be sincere. if he dosent like you the same way thats just the way its suposed to be just accept it . there will be somebody for you. you just have to do it or you will spend the rest of your life wodering and thats worse then being shut down.
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o.k. this is S.U.C.K! ya friend with benefits [FWB] .. there's no such thing as no feelings involved. If there weren't any feelings then you two won't be doing things. He sounds kinda like a player to me. I think you should stay away before you get hurt even more. Unless you know that he have some sort of feelings for you.. otherwise you're risking your heart.
I've been through this first hand myself. This guy and I .. we were good friends. I liked him and somehow we became FWB. Then I started to like him a lot! I thought he likes me too because he gave me all signs that he likes me. Then later I found out he didn't? its confusing. so we stopped when he graduated. Therefore, I was hurted.. I didn't know what to do.
Unless its a sure thing, don't tell him anything. If you like taking risks then I say go for it and deal with the consequences. That means you'll be hurted even more than you already are if he doesn't like you back. Then who knows, he mights like you. Be ready for anything if you are going to tell him how you feel.
This is really up to you. You need to make a decision of what you want. if you want to get over him then don't tell him how you feel. Just let it go and move on. Don't think about him or have any contact with him for a while. Just do your own thing and let time do its job. No more FWB.. if you think your feelings will be involve. If you decide to do FWB .. make sure you can control your feelings.
hope I helped. good luck =].
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Okay... Men are idiots {some}.. this guy seems like he just wanted you b/c no one else wanted him and you wanted him and he took advanage of that. you can't help you liked him though. its how you feel you know? So do tell him yes. He made the situation complicated already by involving other girls. so don't worry about that. tell him how he made it romantic and makes you feel special. he probably likes you too and doesn't care b/c he knows he can have you.
hope I helped.
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