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spelt love? sry its long
alrightie. so im close friends with a lot of guys and stuff. and tonight were going to the movies. my 3 girlfriends and 6 of my guy friends. there is this one boy that i think is eally cute. but im not sure if ilike him. i think i do but jsut the fact that he has a girlfriend is holding me back from liking him. so its me my 2 other girlfriends the guy i think is cute (derek) and 4 of my other/his guy friends. well this week derek has been ignoring his girlfriend. im not sure if they got in a fight or not. but he hasnt been talking to her online/myspace/on the fone/ on AIM. he called me a couple of nights and hes like im bored whats up? and stuff and liek i knew he wasnt on the computer because i can always hear him. hes a loud typer. and since i was on the fone with him he couldnt be with her. and she comments him on myspace sayin baby whats up? havnt heard from you in a while. well we have had this movie night planned since last week. and today his girlfriend called me and yelling at me telling me that im stealing her boyfriend. and im like what? so i asked him about it today and hes like me and her just got into a fight today because she thinks im cheating. but i know thats a lie. because my friend was with him. so does he like me? i mean were going to the movies and i wasnt going to go because im really tired but he like wants me to go hes like i miss you and i havnt hung out with you in a while. and were going to a romance movie. and i know his friends like my friends who are coming. and i just dont know. like what if he makes a move? i mean he has a girlfriend. and the fact that his girlfriend called me thinking that im stealing him. when me and her are like best friends. and now she hates me. also, she might show up to the movies. i was reading my friends comments on myspace. so i have no idea what to do. and i have been trying to call him and hes like in 4 text messages:
1. Look, im sorry i cnat talk.
2. Ok....uhhmmm..so...
and then i texted im liek c na you text cuz you said you cant talk?
he said:
3.Very true. lol sorry i sound wierd. uhm yeah
then im like are you ok? anyways how much money should i take tonite?
then hes like:
4: Ehhh im fine. dont worry bout the money cya tonite
and he normally doesnt write like that..
and the first letter of each text message...spells love...im so confused on what to do. the movies at 1130. i think. so yeah. help!!!
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Wow...drama drama drama. Stay the fuck away from it. Your young, learn it now. Women are trouble sweety. I am sorry to say but they are skankless. And i may be too late to tell you what to do tonight but take my advice...learn to fight back. If she thinks he's cheating, he might be but not with you. You never know about men. They are easily confusing to read. I have been done this road before. Trust me. If she thinks she can threaten you then you go to him. You need to have him make his decision with his gf. She's sounds like the devil and if he wants to continue this relationship with him. Let him. He will not learn from anything but his own mistakes, but if you like him i would stay around while he figures out what he is going to do. BUT FIRST...i must remind you...if he cheats on her with you. HE WILL DO IT TO YOU IF YOU TWO BECOME A COUPLE. Once a cheater always a cheater. The fact that he's 21 shows that he might be a pro. Just be careful. DATE outside your friends group, so if you two were to break up you dont have any contact. Good Luck.
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I think you're reading into this too much. It could just be a coincidence that the first letter of his texts spelt out love.
His girlfriend is already going psycho on you & you & her boyfriend haven't even done anything. She's already freaking out, so maybe you should back off this kid. I mean, you like him, he might like you, but his girlfriend is ready to slam you. Just be friends with him until they're done, & then make a move. And take your sisters advice. She's smart.
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Hi, I know I'm younger but thought I can help. You should just go and act normal. If he makes a move, well remind him that he has a gf. You don't want to be involve unless he sort things out with her. You don't want to be a backstabber to your bestfriend. Trust me.. its not a good thing. Be honest with him. I think he has some sort of interest in you or else he wouldn't talk to you and giving you signals. So just go with the flow. Have fun. Stopp worrying too much. If he makes a move D0NT fall for it. If he cheats on his gf.. imagine if you go out with him. He can do it to you too with your other bestfriends. Just set him straight. [if he makes a move on you that is]. Cuz if you go along .. and hook up with him.. you'll be known for a backstabber, slut, hoe.. etc. N0T A G00D THiNG.
good luck. hope I helped. =].
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