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alright by boyfriend always grabbs me and puts his hand up my skirt and everything. like during school when were watching a movie and the lights our off, he starts grabbing me and tries to finger me. three of his friends laugh when they see and call me a whore and that hes their hero. and i told him to stop and all he does is laugh and says shutup whore. i dont wanna break up with him and im not going too but i need help like what do i say to get him to stop? thanks.
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Because your self dignity is less important that a high school or middle school boyfriend.
He's an asshole, I recommend buying some RAPEX
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Then laugh at him.
Or if you don't want to be a terrible person, just dump him.
Whatever the case, you have to break up with him. You shouldn't allow yourself to be treated like that.
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Don't give yourself excuses to stay with him. You have told him to stop & all he does is laugh. There is nothing else to say to him to get him to stop. "Stop grabbing me & fingering me during class" is enough. There should be no what if's, and's, or but's about that. If he can't comprehend that, then get rid of him, honey. No boyfriend with respect for their girlfriend calls them a whore. You are only making yourself look like an idiot by continuing to go out with a loser like that. & the only reason he continues to do it is because you let him. Your solution really isn't that hard. Making you realize that it is the right solution IS what's hard. You may think my advice is wrong & I'm completely crazy, but I can guarantee you when you mature, you'll realize what an idiot you were to have ANYTHING to do with someone like that. Atleast I did.
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if your not okay with it slap him or something just make him stop...If he continues with some simliar behavior break up with him
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Well have you guys done that before? You don't have to tell if you don't want to. Anyways tell him if he can't stop doing that in front of his MOUCHO friends then he wont ever get a piece again or ever and believe me he should stop. But I'm not saying that you have done anything with him I'm just saying. If you need any more help then just ask.
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So why do you put up with him doing that? Why do you let him get away with doing what he does?
He doesn't even sound like a good boyfriend, he certainly doesn't treat you like a good boyfriend should. If you won't kick him to the curb like you should, I suggest a good kick or punch his groan to show him to stop.
Don't put up with that! It shows a lack of self respect when you let him disrespect you, stop him from doing it by showing him no means no and you want him to stop.
A swift kick to the groin should show him up nicely, it's the least he deserves and the least you can do since you won't end the relationship.
-Ryan
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NEVER PUT UP WITH THAT! you need to stand up for yourself. a true boyfriend should ALWAYS respect you and never call you names like that. its obviously something youre extremely uncomfortable with and bothered by so let him know that you dont want him to do that anymore..dont be afraid to stand up for yourself..if i were you i'd think about maybe taking a break from him if this happens again or if he doesnt apologize for treating you that way. he needs to respect your body and the fact that he called you that is jsut downright WRONG. please talk to him about this and let him know you want respect and if hes not willing to give it then maybe its best you be friends.
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He needs to respect you. Why would you want to be with a guy who doesn't show you any respect or calling you a whore? You need to stand up to him and tell him what you like and don't. If he tries to do what you don't want him to then straight up tell him. "Hey look I don't like what you're doing and you need to stop. if you continue then you won't like the result.". If he continues.. you should slap him and leave , go to another place or hang out with someone else for that moment until he apologizes. Boys are like animals actually [N0 0FFENSE T0 THE GUYS!!]. you need to train them. They are childish and immature. They do whatever that makes them look cool infront of their buddies. So you need to show him that you respect yourself and its time for him to respect you. He can't do what he wants to you just because he's your bf. You just need to put him in his place.
hope I helped =].
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