I am a guy and am usually random I can usually help my friends and play cupid but when it comes to my own love life I can have problems but I can get through. I will help anyone who needs help so just ask guys or girls but im mainly good at friends or love life dilemmas
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Ok i would like for guys to answer my question but girls can too i guess....
#1 If you like a girl how do you show it?
#2 Do you like girls that play hard to get, or flirt?
#3 Do you like girls that actually come out and say they like you to your face, have someone else tell you, or just keep it secret?
#4 Do you like to find out that one of your {girl} friends like you or someone you dont talk to?
#5 If you really say you are a girls friend and you meant it and you find out they like you will you stop talking to them?
Ok sorry i asked so many questions i am really confused lol.
Thank abunch!
XOXO (link)
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#1 If you like a girl how do you show it?
Depends on if the guy is shy or not. He'll probabley stare or smile or say hi when ever he sees you.
#2 Do you like girls that play hard to get, or flirt? Hard to get gets really annoying i'd say just flirt.
#3 Do you like girls that actually come out and say they like you to your face, have someone else tell you, or just keep it secret? Yes that would be a lot easier and not as much pressure, but make sure the guy likes you.
#4 Do you like to find out that one of your {girl} friends like you or someone you dont talk to? Depends really
#5 If you really say you are a girls friend and you meant it and you find out they like you will you stop talking to them? No, you may like her back
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15/f hello...well, recently in class, the people around me and I were discussing relationships. and then somehow...it got to "hookups." what's the difference? and also..how come when I told people that I've never had a hookup, their reaction was "O_O" lol...? are hookups considered bad or something? thank you in advance [= (link)
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Hooking up mainly means like making out but your not dating or anything
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alright by boyfriend always grabbs me and puts his hand up my skirt and everything. like during school when were watching a movie and the lights our off, he starts grabbing me and tries to finger me. three of his friends laugh when they see and call me a whore and that hes their hero. and i told him to stop and all he does is laugh and says shutup whore. i dont wanna break up with him and im not going too but i need help like what do i say to get him to stop? thanks. (link)
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if your not okay with it slap him or something just make him stop...If he continues with some simliar behavior break up with him
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im 13/f and ive had sex with 14 different guys. i know how slutty that it. i was kind of neglected buy my family so i needed a way to be loved. i know regret all of it. i realize how lucky i am to still be not pregnant and std-free. ive been going to church every other day and confessing. what can i do to get my life back together???? (link)
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heh I guess your called a recycled virgin....That is good trying to get back your life.
1. Don't go to parties and stuff and have sex for a long time.
2. Think about what you want and things you want to accomplish sounds weird but it can take your mind off things like you could be thinking for days.
3. Just try and forget if you can't just remember theres no sin that cant be forgiven
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im a freshamn in highschool im fifteen, and i was at my boyfriends friends house it was me and like his four guy friends. there all football players and everything so there built. there really nice and respectful and all but we were ust sitting on the couch and they were asking me really inapropriate questions like when ill get my next period and how old i was when i first got it, and what size bra i wear. it was really uncomfortable so i got up to go to the bathroom and i heard someone behind me so i turned around and it was my boyfriend he started kissing me and he asked me if i felt uncomfortable. we have been going out for a year since eighth gtrade so i could trust him and he was nice to me and everything so i said yeah a little and he started kissing me and apoligized and then in his friends house there was a guestroom right next to the bathroom and he started pushing me into the room and i went along with it since i mean we werent going to do anything. keep in mind hes a football player and weighs like 190 which is all muscle and i weigh 91 pounds. so he threw me (liturally) on the bed and started taking his shirt off and he locked the door. i sat up because i didnt want to do this. and he pushed me back down and started taking my shirt off and he started kissing me again and it hurt since he was ontop of me. i was trying to get him off and kept telling him no i dont want to do this and he always respected my opinion before when we were doing stuff and i didnt want to anymore so i thought he would this time. all he did was start to punch me and tell me i was a slut and a whore. and he started taking my pants off and he started fingering me and it hurt really bad. i just froze i was in shocke he would be doing this. i tried to fight him off which i knew wouldnt work sincehe was much mcuch bigger than me but he took his pants off and went in me and then i started screaming and his friends came but since the door was locked they just asked if i was okay and i said no and then they broke the lock and got him off of me and asked me if i was okay. meanwhile my boyfriend kept telling them i was a slut and he thought thats what i wanted because thats what sluts do and they kept telling him i wasnt a slut then he got all mad and left. the next day he kept calling me and tellling me how sorry he was and he wasnt thinking that night and he loves me and will wait till i ready to do it again. he bought me flower and he wrote me apoligy notes and all. i forgave him and its been like five months im just afraid hell do it again. i need help. what should i do? (link)
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yeah that is rape... you two could be naked and kissing and if you say no its rape..he could go to jail for it...I say dump him and get a guy who could treat you with respect
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me and my boyfriend and his friend derek were watching t.v one time and when my boyfriend got up to go to the bathroom derek sat on me and took off my shirt and pants and started licking and fingering me and i tried fighting him off but hes alot bigger than i am. i started screaming and my boyfriend came and laughed and joined him. i forgave them and we still hang out and they onyl did it three times after that. so i guess im over it and im still with my boyfriend. but i dont know how to move on. help please. thanks (link)
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yeah your stupid....you actually are okay that your b/fs friend fingered and licked you and not him..and that he was okay with it dump him and find someone who can treat you right
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ive wanted this job ever since i was little.
i finally got an interview for tomorrow.
but im really nervous.
there are 2 other people interviewing also.
and im afraid im gonna screw it up.
any tips?
16/f (link)
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Just remain calm...its okay to be nervous because when you do good you will feel even happier. Just practice on what your gonna say and know how to answer questions such as why do you want this job and what makes it different from another place. If you have any weaknesses make a negative into a positive. Such as saying sometimes during lunch you like working instead of eating because your just that dedicated..Good Luck
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I am a freshman. And im popularISHH I am not the most gorgeous person but im cute. I am madly in love with this senior!!!! I like have an insane crush on him. I dont know what to do. He is popular and intimidating. Hes single and no girls {besides me} like him. Its so random to go up and talk and i way to scard to do that! What do i do?
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That is a real problem freshman to senior well it wouldn't hurt talking to him but make it casual not like flirty cause hes probabley mature if hes intimidating. At least be friendly and not giggle a lot.
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15/f
soo, yeah..theres this boy, named jordan. & like everyone tells me he likes me, i posted a thing awhile ago, with the signs.. asking if he liked me. i had like 15 answers saying he did. Hes really shy though. So like.. idno. I'm not one of those people.. who wait forever for someone. & i know alot of other boys who like me. so i wanna just get him to ask me out or something. im basically going to my friendds party well.. its like half makeout party, & half just hang out with your friends... like, were gonna play seven minutes in heaven & stuff.. & so anyway, i basically,want him to like me after this party. i don't really just want to blurt out i like you in the middle of a party. but im also not shy.. so i'm up for anything =)
what should i do?
should i wait for him to come to me?
[hes never had a girlfriend so hes most deff. shy]
should i like make the first move?
ahh help.! (link)
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first move and if you want him to like u somehow in some iono way get the bottle to land on him to see if you like him
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My boyfriend just got braces, and I don't blame him because they're really hard to clean but... His breath STINKS!!! everytime we kiss it's like *Faint*. How can I tell him he has bad breath without hurting his feelings? (link)
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if he really likes u hell understand u both can actually laugh about it or give him a mint
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okay . well my best friend is going out with this kid that i really like and i am going out with his friend & i dont really like his friend at all . and i just started going out with him yesterday , i like him like as a little brother not a boyfriend but idk. i dont want anyone mad at me if i break up with him . what should i do (link)
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wow some may call you a slut some a whore and if your going out with him just to get to his friend you r screwed in the head sry but someone had to say it just stop messing with his feeling and break up with him because if he finds out....i dont even want to got there
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I really need help. Ok there's this guy I like and i'm not sure if he likes me. Well, I think he likes me because his friend told my brother that he likes me. And all the signs are there too. But there's something telling me I shouldn't like him. I don't know why though. I mean we're friends, his brother is friends with my brother, he's really nice, cute, funny, and a great athelete. But I have a feeling that something bad will happen if he finds out that I like him and we start going out. What should I do?
P.S. I'm 13 (link)
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haha well im a hopeless romantic but here it is if he looks at u, always shows off in front of u, or anything like that it means he likes u.... or you could straight up ask him "do you like me" it would be awkward but it has worked so do what ever you heart tells ya
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every boyfriend iv ever had has beet me up.they have choked me,kicked me,punched me.chased me and jumped me,some of my guy friends have hit me with bats and the list gos on and on.i have NEVER had a boyfriend who hasent.there has to be somthing wrone with me because even some of my guy friends have beet me up. whats my problem that i always get beet up.13/f im currently single (link)
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wtf is wrong with u sry to go all out like that but seriously thats abuse and i hate when that happens ! dont let it happen how can they really be ur friends they are fags
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Ok i want to makeout with my booyfriend before he moves away forever to a different country. Weve been together for 2 years its great it took awhile for a first kiss but not a true kiss just a peck on the lips. Now i want to makeout but dont think he even knows how and is like really shy i dont want to force him to do something he doesnt want to but i really want to makeout with him. What should i do? (link)
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Okay well im a guy so I no this type of thing there are a few things you can do
1. ask him he will go with it
2. just do it again he will go with it
3. start with a kiss and move in to making out
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Hi, heres my love story... Theres this girl I really like but I just can't seem to make the first move. I don't have any friends and would like to get to know her alot. I just don't know when to approach her or what to say. The only time I see her is on the school bus. Of coarse theres loads of her friends and people on the bus. What good advice can you give me. I would like it from both girls and boys, but mainly girls. Thanks. (link)
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Well i'm a guy and making the first move isn't easy... and if you don't want to make it in front of people or you'll get nervous. find out if she has a screen name or right her a note. If that doesn't work you have to talk to her on the bus in front of everyone cause if you truly like her then you will take the embarassment
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