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me and my boyfriend and his friend derek were watching t.v one time and when my boyfriend got up to go to the bathroom derek sat on me and took off my shirt and pants and started licking and fingering me and i tried fighting him off but hes alot bigger than i am. i started screaming and my boyfriend came and laughed and joined him. i forgave them and we still hang out and they onyl did it three times after that. so i guess im over it and im still with my boyfriend. but i dont know how to move on. help please. thanks
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Dump his ass RIGHT NOW. That is RAPE. Hell I would even press charges. Don't EVER let someone feel that it's okay to take advantage of you like that. The fact that they did it more than once makes it even worse. Your "boyfriend" obviously doesn't care about you at all. Think about it: he let his friend rape you, he laughed about it, and joined right in! How is that okay AT ALL?!
Tell your parents. Go to the police. Do SOMETHING and stay away from him.
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dump him. like the others said, it's like a form of rape. your boyfriend should know better than that to join in iwth his friend, and his friend should have known better not to do it in the first place.
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eww its almost like they had that planned or something! If my bf's friend did that to me..and then my bf (who i would hope would protect me and punch his friend) actually LAUGHS nnd JOINS (??WTF) then he would be DONEE! That is harassment! Its a form of rape because it was against your will. And it is just plain nasty/sick. They both have problems..definately dump this weirdo..you will be much better off trust me hun
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they're both idiots.
sorry hun but thats the truth.
you NEEEEEED to dump him because thats the only way you could possible get over it.
if they did that FOUR times in total, thats like sexual harassment since you started screaming.
so yeah leave the loser and moveee onn. do a sport or something to get your mind off of it.
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okay... you DEFINENTLY need to dump him!
something is obviously wrong with them, because that's considered rape, since they did it against your will.
if your boyfriend was even ok with someone else doing that to you, and laughed about it, then he has issues, and you have to dump him immediately, because that will probably lead them to do something even worse if you dont act soon!
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yeah your stupid....you actually are okay that your b/fs friend fingered and licked you and not him..and that he was okay with it dump him and find someone who can treat you right
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That's disgusting & completely unacceptable. I can't believe your boyfriend would laugh at that & allow that to happen. Not to mention - I can't believe you are making the dumb decision to still be with him. They are took advantage of you & sexually abused you. If you keep allowing it or just shrugging it off, who knows where this could lead! Goodness, stand up for yourself, leave your boyfriend & put a restraining order on him & his friend. The reason guys take advantage of girls (& continue to do so) these days is because girls allow it to happen. Don't give them the power to do that to you or ANYONE else. It should not be that hard to move on considering the things he has done to you.
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omg. you should dump your bf! thats almost like rape. if you told them to stop and they still did it some more. i'm serious if you wanna do yourself good dump your bf, and never talk to them again!
p.s. thats disgusting
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