soo, yeah..theres this boy, named jordan. & like everyone tells me he likes me, i posted a thing awhile ago, with the signs.. asking if he liked me. i had like 15 answers saying he did. Hes really shy though. So like.. idno. I'm not one of those people.. who wait forever for someone. & i know alot of other boys who like me. so i wanna just get him to ask me out or something. im basically going to my friendds party well.. its like half makeout party, & half just hang out with your friends... like, were gonna play seven minutes in heaven & stuff.. & so anyway, i basically,want him to like me after this party. i don't really just want to blurt out i like you in the middle of a party. but im also not shy.. so i'm up for anything =)
what should i do?
should i wait for him to come to me?
[hes never had a girlfriend so hes most deff. shy]
should i like make the first move?
MelLeDisko answered Monday August 7 2006, 8:50 pm: Well if he's never had a girlfriend and he likes you? Yeah, you'll need to make the first move cause he's going to be very shy and nervous. But don't just blurt out to him right away that you like him, talk to him for a little and flirt a bit and then just mention to him that you like him and have heard he likes you too, and maybe if he'd want to hang out sometime. [ even mention possibly a group hang out for the first cause if he's as shy as he sounds he might feel more comfortable around his friends and people ]. I hope I helped! :D [ MelLeDisko's advice column | Ask MelLeDisko A Question ]
lilteacup answered Monday August 7 2006, 6:00 pm: You definitely need to make the first move. If he's that shy and he's never had a girlfriend, he's going to fear rejection big time. That's the bad thing about shy guys...it's hard for them. Since, you are not shy and you do like him and you think he likes you too, just go for it. He'll probably appreciate it happening that way.
AmandasAdvice answered Monday August 7 2006, 5:24 pm: hey ask him out! before the party! and then [if hes not already invited] ask your friend if YOU can invite him to your friends party. good luck hope i could help you if you need anything else drop one in my inbox ;]
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