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i dont know what to do
okay . well my best friend is going out with this kid that i really like and i am going out with his friend & i dont really like his friend at all . and i just started going out with him yesterday , i like him like as a little brother not a boyfriend but idk. i dont want anyone mad at me if i break up with him . what should i do
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wow some may call you a slut some a whore and if your going out with him just to get to his friend you r screwed in the head sry but someone had to say it just stop messing with his feeling and break up with him because if he finds out....i dont even want to got there
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Honestly, I think you should break up with the guy you're going out with. If you don't like him and you just like him as a little brother, just break up with him now. You're only leading him on and as you get into the relationship, you're only hurting him more by being with him and not liking him in the way he likes you. So, I think you should definitely break up with him, in this case. Just explain to him that you think of him as more as a little brother, then as a boyfriend. Tell him he's a great guy, but you guys just don't go well together.
Now, if your friends get mad at you because you're breaking up with him, that is their problem. It's not THEM that are with this guy, so it shouldn't even matter. It doesn't even concern or effect them in anyway. So, if they do get mad. Let them be mad at you for awhile. Because that is really immature. ♥
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This is only YOUR buisness.If they wanna get mad at you they can go to hell.Its YOUR life,not theirs.Does your best freind know you liked this guy before she dated him?If she did then shes not a true best freind.You need to tell her this if she knew you liked him.If she DIDNT know,then its really not her fault and it would be really cruel for you to break them up.Break up with the kid you dont like,before you break his heart by not telling him.You wouldnt like it if a guy YOU liked did that to you.
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dont date someone if you dont like them. that just leads them on to thinking you do like them. soo i would break up with him
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Break up with him.
Its not anyone else's buisness if you do, its better that - then leading this guy on.
You know? I'm sure you would want that as well.
Just tell the kid the truth, that you honestly dont like him like that, and your sorry it hurts his feelings but you didnt want to lead him on.
And to anyone who gets angry at you, tell them that its not their buisness about your relationship, and that you didnt like him like that, or dont explain it to them, it is not their buisness anyways.
Good luck hun.
<3
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Honestly you should NEVER go out with someone who you dont like in that way. Because its mean cause the person likes you but you dont like them. I mean its understandable you dont wanna be alone but you shouldnt go out with someone you dont like in that way. I think you should break up with him, no matter if anyone gets mad at you. Because its not fair on his part that he likes you, but you dont feel the same. So break up with him & hopefully you guys can stay friends. You can always say to him "I think were better off friends because I think of you more as a little brother then a boyfriend" or something like that. Well hope I helped <3
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It's understandable that you don't want anyone to be angry with you. But, the thing is...you are the one that is dating them...not everyone else. If you're not happy with him, it's not as if everyone else has to suffer. So if you don't like him..and you don't see it going anywhere, I'd suggest to break up with him. Nip it in the bud..before he really starts to like you.
-Teacup
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You should break up with him if you don't like him! It isn't fair to him if you really like his friend and if he find sout from someone else he will think you are using him and things will only be worse. Don't just dump him. Break up with him and tell him why. Tell him that it just isn't fair to him. HOPE I HELPED
~MORGAN
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You shouldn't stay with anyone that you don't have feelings for, that's something that might make people mad in the future. Breaking up with him shouldn't make anyone mad at you as long as you talk to him about it and explain it to him.
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