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my boyfriends and their friends always ask me when im on my period and its annoying. they always ask me how it feels and if i like it. and if they can see it. i tell my boyfriend to tell them to stop and him to stop too but he just says im over exageratting and to shutup because im a slut and i like it? which isnt true. i like him alot though and he is very nice when he isnt around his perverted friends. and im not going to break up with him but idk what to do or how to get him to stop. alright thanks.
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You should never let a guy call you a slut. It is also inappropriate for them to ask you things. You need to stand up for yourself and do not let him say these kind of things to you. He cannot act one way with you in private and then like an ass with his friends. If he's with you and genuinely likes you, he'll be the same despite the occasion. If you speak to him reasonably and tell him that he needs to stop, and he does not, then maybe you should not be with him. Having a boyfriend treat you like dirt is not worth it.
Good Luck.
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They are very immature as you know by now and likely curious about girls and all aspects about them including menstruation which of course they being guys don't do.
Nobody has taught them how to behave around girls/people and what not to bring up and any lessons about tact. You shouldn't have to put up with this shit and your boyfriend shrugging it off and not paying attention to your feelings.
If this ever happens again tell them "A girl's period and especially this girl's period is her business only. If you want to know about the subject head to a library and borrow a book about puberty which from the looks of it you both need as you haven't gotten through it."
Next tell your boyfiend "you have a choice here keep your perverted friends and laugh this off or learn to grow up, admonish them and protect me."
If I were you hon, I would recognize the fact that all 3 of them are immature and you are the only mature one and deserve a man not a teenager with the intellect of a 6 year-old as your boyfriend (which you might not like me saying but it's the truth). Ditch all three of them is what I would do and give 'em hell.
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that's gross.
ask them if they want to know what it feels like then punch them in the balls so that they can bleed. then be all like yep you like that don't you?
haha. no.
just tell them seriously to knock it off or you're done with them.
or go all out and tell them/show them. that should shut them up.
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tell him that you really dont feel comfortable with them saying that kinda stuff, and it's really getting annoying, and that you dont like it and that you're really not a slut.
say that if he really liked you, then he would stop, because you get upset when he says that kinda stuff. tell him how you really feel about it, and if he doesnt stop, then hunny im sorry, but he might not like you enough as he should, so you might wanna consider dumping him. (if he doesnt stop)
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