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My boyfriend cheated.
I lost my virginity to my boyfriend about 3 weeks ago. he seems crazy about me, i never ever guessed that he would even think about kissing another girl. but last night he kissed one of my good friends, then grabbed her boob. and masterbated like in front of her.
i really dont want ot break up with him but if i have to i will.
what should i do?>
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i think you should break up with him. yes you may want to stay with him but he obviously doesn't want to stay committed to you. you could probably find someone so much better who won't cheat on you, especially with one of your good friends. letting go is hard, but you'll find someone better and it'll all be worth it.
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to be honest, he seems to me to be one of those stereotypical guys. you know, the ones that are only out to get in your pants or to get a piece of ass.
i'm a guy myself. and all i can say is that he's a jackass. he cheated on you, and went to 2nd base with your friend. that's not right, and if i were in your place he'd be long gone.
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i know how you feel
when i thought this kid loved me and i loved him
he cheated on me 1st
and then i cheated on him
our realationship went wayyyyy diffrent after that liek in a bad way so you should break up with him before he does it when he gets tired of you
and you knowing he did that
your not gonna have like the same feelings to do stuff with him like you did before trust me
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i dont think you should let him get away with cheating. because guys just think they can do whatever they wantt. you should defiantly break up with him becasue you shouldnt have to tolerate that kind of pain!
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boy's can't be trusted , that's onee thing you should realize. It's hard to find a good guy , most guy's think they are " player's ".
my advise is break up with him , & see how he reacts. If you let him get away with this , then hun he'll just keep doing it to you :/
obviously he don't care about you if he's going to do something so scandalious like that!
x ' kaylaaaa
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Your in love with your boyfriend, that is why you gave up your virinity to him, a very precious thing, and this he how he rewards you? He is not in love with you, he is in love with sex.... which is normal for his age, but no fun for you, and the many other girls that he will hurt while he is young and immature. Yes I think you should break up with him, he is only going to do more of this. He was not thinking of you when he did this, he was thinking of himself. He is going to run into to many girls who will allow him to do this, and he won't stop because you love him. He will think of his own gratification, and then cheat on you. I hope you find the courage to break up with him.
Michele
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i really think you should break up with him. if he had just kissed her, then you could stay with him... but since he felt her up and jacked off in front of her... that's way too much to put up with. <3
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That definitely sounds like cheating to me. How did you find out about what he did last night? Did he tell you that? Props to his honesty but that does not mean you should be obliged to stay in the relationship. He may continue to do the same things in the future and you don't want that. It'll just cause more heartbreak and heartache. I think you should break it off while you are still hurt by this one incident before anything worse happens. If you found this out from someone else, it may be a rumor. Ask him. If your good friend told you about it then, ask him about it as well. Hear his side of the story too, just to be fair. Then take action. Seriously, he sounds like a scumbug. No offense to you.
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Sorry to hear that. Unfortunately, you might have to just break things off. This probably is really difficult for you, since he was the one you lost your virginity to. Why would you want to be in a relationship with someone who cheated? In a lot of cases, once a cheater, always a cheater. He basically destroyed the trust in the relationship. Without trust, a relationship can rarely be successful. You shouldn't stay with him just because you had sex with him though. You'll get hurt down the line, especially if he cheats again. No one on advicenators can tell you what you should do. It's your decision, he's your boyfriend. Just know that you do not want to get hurt again & regret dating him/breaking up with him. Difficult decision, but it's one that has to be made sooner or later. Talk to him about it. Be defensive, do not just give in to what he says. Give him a chance to explain, but don't just go along with it. You have a right to be mad/upset & be angry at him for it. Even though he did take your virginity, that does not mean he gets to take your pride with it. Stand up for yourself & talk to him about it. Explain how you feel & hopefully you both can work something out. There's nothing wrong with being friends.
-hope that helped!♥
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Listen, if you let him cheat once, he will think it is alright, and just keep doing it. You have to let him go. You can find someone better, and you will not have to deal with his immaturity. It is better for you to get rid of him now, then have to deal with a bigger heartbreak from him later. I am sorry that he cheated, but you have to put your foot down and say that enough is enough.
hope i helped.
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