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so kissing
ok im 14/f
and hes 13/m
but we just meet like umm two weeks ago kinda i kinda saw him around school but never talked to him till friday nioght at the mall idk why i even did but then he found my myspace and we talked a lot and later i found out he liked me!
and i mean hes not my type of guy i more of the preppy kinds of guys but hes total skater and im liek wow
but any way he asked me out an d i said yeha:\ i really cant tell you the reason why but i did and on friday night like 2 weeks later i swe go see juno ok! and of course i see my friend with benefits zac:[
i was like upset because i liked him alot and omfg whos he with but on of the guys my friend tryed to set me up with!and so im all upset because im seeing all these guys i like"d" and then i see nathan !the guy that stude me up:[
wow what a great night right but during Juno i tried to like you know kiss my boyfriend! and we kissed so i tried to make out with him! and he dedise me!like he pules away!what the f"er" i mean come on!right and now im regretting going out with him so what do i do because i like to take things fast and hges a prude dude!
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ok 1st KC is an idiot read this cloumn carefully shes 14 ok 1.you should have taking it slower 2. he might of thought you were coming off to fast 3. dont take avantage over a 13 yr old its ok yall are going out but dont rush things with any guy you need to slow down. cuz in high school youll be known as a tramp if you take things to fast just slow down and give it all a chance dont rush into it trust me im a guy of course some guys want sex but i dont think he wants to rush it and just do it i think he actually likes you and wants to make a commitment sooo take it slowly and yeah if he pulls away dont try anything to egg on to it just take you time.
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First you need to calm down. Second you should probably rewrite this so it is easier to understand. But onto the advice..
You are 14, so you don't really know much about relationships yet. If you regret going out with him because he did not make out with you in a movie theater? I'm sorry, but that's kind of low. You should NOT take things fast for many reasons.
1) You are 14 years old.
2) That may not be what HE wants.
3) It is just not needed.
It is not fair to him also that you have all these other feelings for different guys. You need to sit and think about what HE feels also, not just YOU. You have so much more to learn still, so having relationships at this age might not be what you need right now. I do not mean to sound harsh, but the truth does not need to be sugar coated all the time.
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I would probably be able to read this better if you spoke in a way humans could understand.
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