I'm a 13 year old female. There's this guy I like A LOT, it's different from the other guys too. I was planning on kissing him tomorrow night at the movies, but now I'm having second thoughts, because I was on the phone today earlier and we were talking but his friends were at his house, which whom I can't stand, and vice versa. So they kept grabbing the phone and hanging up. I quit trying to call back but then I tried one last time, and then he answer, not his friends. And we talked for like 30 minutes, because he told me he was supposed to be meeting a girl B which I have no problem with but more girls too. And I was like oh, then he was like who are you going with and I said my friend A which he can't stand, and he said not A.C right. I was like nope wrong it's her. And he was like then don't bother trying to find me, and I'm not calling you when I get there. I was like you are so inconsiderate and mean. And he said how, I said because your inviting all your little girlfriends, and I can't bring my one best friend? You don't even care about anyone else's feelings! And I don't know but he went to go do something, and I heard one of his friends say I don't want you to talk to her. So I decided I wouldn't call back. But tomorrow night what should I do? Should I act like none of it happened and kiss him, or just not watch the movie with him at all and keep ignoring him? Please help, sorry if it was long.
shadows answered Thursday August 2 2007, 8:31 pm: yeah us guys do say bros before hoes i sau fuck that shit ill go and talk to what ever girl i want to i dont care what anyone says if my friend don;t like who i am going out with tuff for them because i am in love with this girl and no matter what happens i wouldnt let my friends take control of that but hey to me if his friends are going to be there i wouldnt go and wouldnt talk to him at all i say drop him and move on. [ shadows's advice column | Ask shadows A Question ]
OhMyPEACHYKEEN answered Thursday August 2 2007, 7:23 pm: If he lets his friends hang up on you then it shows he doesnt care much. I mean all guys say bros before hoes but still they are considerate to people they like. I say you can still go to the movies but why kiss him. Dont let him get that satification. That will be just playing way to easy to get. And if he doesnt like your best friend then you should be thinking "hoes before bros" because thats your friend. Sounds like he was being rude on the phone and being rude doesnt earn him a kiss. If he knows that he can be rude and still get that what will keep him from being more rude? or mean the next time you guys talk on the phone. Guys are real idiots on the phone too. I know i said they are still considerate to those they like but some guys act really different around their friends then when theyre with a girl. So maybe he is the kind of guy who just listens to his friends but once he's sees you and is alone he'll be real nice. That type i would stay away from. Because who wants a jerk on the phone and a sweet heart in person. You know ? So take my advice and be cool with him the next day but not like nothing happened at all. Basically just dont kiss butt. Good luck and if you need any more advice, im here for you. -peachy [ OhMyPEACHYKEEN's advice column | Ask OhMyPEACHYKEEN A Question ]
morgan75019 answered Thursday August 2 2007, 7:14 pm: in my opinion i think you shouldnt meet him there but if you like him ALOT i can understand. but in my experience with boys like this if they dont like your best friend then once they get to know you they wont like you. sorry hope i helped [ morgan75019's advice column | Ask morgan75019 A Question ]
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