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Torn
I went away on a week long school trip. When we were there, i had a fling with a guy even though i have a boyfriend. I had a crush on this guy for a few months, like a year ago. But now i have a boyfriend, and we've been together for 8 months. I know he loves me, and i love him too, but since i had a fling with this guy on my trip, i can't stop thinking about him. I'm torn between both guys, 'cause i know the fling guy would want a realationship, he's liked me for 2 years. I really have feelings for both of them, i've been thinking about this for the last 3 weeks, and i decided to stay with my boyfriend, but then when i go to school and see the other guy, i get the butterflies in my stomach, and i can't stop thinking about the way his lips felt on mine. i see myself having a future with my current boyfriend, but i can't help but wonder what it would be like with this new guy. I can't have both!!!!!I don't know!!!!!!!!Any advice would be GREATLY appreciated.
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ok no you cant have it both ways and playing them isnt very nice you need to decide who makes you the happiest then go with that if you truely love your boyfriend you wouldnt have feelings for someone else so theres a reason why you have feelings for this guy so maybe you should take a chance but you also need to realize what you have with your boyfriend and if its worth throwing it away.
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Oh man I kind've know where you're coming from. I felt the same way towards a guy when I was with my boyfriend a while back, but I never hooked up with the other guy. My advice is: Stick with your boyfriend not only because ya'll are in love, but you know that he would never do anything to hurt you and you shouldn't be having to choose between both guys because of the guys is 8 months too late when I'm sure he had other opportunities to let him know. Plus, if you hook up with that other guy again, you will just be stuck in a hole with no way to get out because you'll gain more feelings for him. I don't know. If you are this confused then maybe you shouldn't be with your boyfriend because it shows that he really isn't for you when your attention is also on another guy, but it's up to you to decide your fate and who you should be with.
I hope I've helped!! Good luck!!
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