The name is Kayla.
I'm 17.
I'm in college at Augusta State University.
I love coffee and chocolate.
I drink a glass of orange juice every morning.
I love the outdoors and the arts. Painting is probably my favorite thing to do in my spare time.
I have 6 siblings.
I'm spending the rest of my summer in California.
I travel probably more than the average person my age.
I love giving advice so if you'd love to take some .. just ask. I won't be mean, rude, or obnoxious. =] Pinky promise.
I've been through a lot. So. Try me. More than likely, I can help you. =]
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Gender: Female
Location: Georgia
Occupation: Student
Age: 17
Member Since: May 9, 2007
Answers: 29
Last Update: June 19, 2007
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is kissing a guy with a lip ring more of a turn on then kissing one without.... (link)
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I actually love guys with lip rings, but when I've kissed a guy with a lip ring I don't really find it any different than one without one. Although, there are tricks you can use with a lip ring, so I guess it is more of a turn on. =]
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14 1/2 /f
So my best guy friend (not bf) sort of hooked me up with this other guy (who's 13 and a rising 7th grader, but i'm a rising freshman) and we talk online sometimes and I think I would like to date him, because he thinks I'm pretty and everything and he likes me. (even though we haven't met in person)
oh but i do know that he's real because he goes to my best guy friend's school and they're good friends you know so this isn't just a random online hookup. so please don't say anything like "oh it's unsafe to do that".
Oh, but my best friend said that the guy said that I had to ask him out, not the other way around because he's shy i guess... should i do it?
he's mexican and I'm white... does that matter?
I just want to know what everyone thinks of the age difference. (i'm super mature for 14, and I look like i'm 16 or 17)
oh he is taller than i am though.
any advice greatly appreciated. i just want to know what everyone thinks of this whole situation. (link)
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Honestly. I don't think that you should ask anyone out until you hang out with him a couple of times and ya'll get to know eachother and actually see if he's who you want to be with. Leave your options open. You're going to be in high school soon &I just graduated from there. Trust me. You will WANT to leave your options open. =] So make sure he's what you want because he is going into 7th grade and of course he's going to like older girls, what guy doesn't? Haha. See how it goes.
Hope I helped!!
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15 f (might be long jsut please bare with me, i will rate!)
ok so i broke up with my bf because i felt we didnt have communication anymore or trust. we were together for 9 months. i still really love him. i asked him for a break but he didnt want it. so now hes always online adn i have the urge to talk to him always, so i aimed him today and he was alwys liek being eman to me. so i told him why are you awlays mean to me like i did something horrible o you. and he said "omfg, the funny thing is that you ask me that! wtf, you know what you did" so he blocked me right after that. i know what i did and i feel horrible for brakign up with him but he had no trust. i still love him though. and i dont know what to do. i know hell unblock me, what should i do? any advice? comments? about us? anything? thanks (link)
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Take that break you asked for for a couple of days. Let him breath &think about what he's missing out on. Then when he unblocks you just tell him that you still love him and miss him but you can't be in a relationship with someone that doesn't have equal trust in the relationship. Unless you did something wrong, he really shouldn't have a reason not to trust you. Try hanging out with him without dating him and let him know what he's missing out on.
Hope I helped. =]
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theres this boy, and him and i like eachother, but were not going out yet, becuase well he thinks young relationships are dumb, but he wants to do all the things boyfriends and girlfriends do.
should i?
or shouldn`t i, becuase were not dating.
and its basically taking advantage. idk. (link)
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Honestly. I don't think you should because in the end you will be the one who is hurt. If he doesn't want a relationship then he obviously isn't as into you as you are to him. Sorry, but if all he wants are the additions you have in a relationship, then don't allow for it until he agrees on having a relationship. Otherwise, just move on. There's plenty of great guys out there!
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What are some major turn ons for guys? Are there any special things i should do/try while kissing? or aaanthing? I want to blow my boyfriend awayy. (link)
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Run your fingers through his hair. Touch his face. Rub your fingers on my stomach and back and sometimes his leg depending on his position. A lot of guys like that.
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I actually have sat down with him and tried to talk to him but he never talks properly and never looks me in the eye. We end up argeuing a bit after but we would say hi to eachother afterwards. I dont knwo what to do! I hardly see him and when we do talk its like a waste of time. Help please! (link)
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Can you fill me back in on which problem you're having so I can remember. I'm sorry. I've answered a lot, but just write a couple sentences for me so I can find the question you asked and read over it. Thanks so much. I'll answer this question right after, k?
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is it wrong for a 17 year old boy
going out with a 13 year old girl ?
please leave your oppions and commets (link)
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In my opinion, it is wrong. Not just because of the age difference, but the difference in maturity. The 17 year old is a lot older, more experienced, and more mature with certain things as sexual experience, peer pressure, and things like that. Where as the 13 year old has not gone through anything near a 17 year old has. Honestly, I think it would be a bad idea to get the two involved. It would be a lot better later on down the road when the two of them were older and around the same maturity level and understandings of certain things.
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I went away on a week long school trip. When we were there, i had a fling with a guy even though i have a boyfriend. I had a crush on this guy for a few months, like a year ago. But now i have a boyfriend, and we've been together for 8 months. I know he loves me, and i love him too, but since i had a fling with this guy on my trip, i can't stop thinking about him. I'm torn between both guys, 'cause i know the fling guy would want a realationship, he's liked me for 2 years. I really have feelings for both of them, i've been thinking about this for the last 3 weeks, and i decided to stay with my boyfriend, but then when i go to school and see the other guy, i get the butterflies in my stomach, and i can't stop thinking about the way his lips felt on mine. i see myself having a future with my current boyfriend, but i can't help but wonder what it would be like with this new guy. I can't have both!!!!!I don't know!!!!!!!!Any advice would be GREATLY appreciated. (link)
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Oh man I kind've know where you're coming from. I felt the same way towards a guy when I was with my boyfriend a while back, but I never hooked up with the other guy. My advice is: Stick with your boyfriend not only because ya'll are in love, but you know that he would never do anything to hurt you and you shouldn't be having to choose between both guys because of the guys is 8 months too late when I'm sure he had other opportunities to let him know. Plus, if you hook up with that other guy again, you will just be stuck in a hole with no way to get out because you'll gain more feelings for him. I don't know. If you are this confused then maybe you shouldn't be with your boyfriend because it shows that he really isn't for you when your attention is also on another guy, but it's up to you to decide your fate and who you should be with.
I hope I've helped!! Good luck!!
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I have been in a relationship with my partner for just about four years. I recently moved to another city to study, while he stays in my old town until the end of the year.
I moved away because I felt that I needed some space and our relationship hasn't been meaning as much to me as it used to for some time now.
Recently I met someone very special who I have pretty much fallen head over heels for. They feel the same way and I'd really like to be with that person - and I really am not the kind of person to be impulsive or fall for people easily. I really mean it when I say there is a special connection between us.
So I need to break up with my boyfriend - I don't want to carry on our relationship, even if things don't go anywhere with the other person, because the fact that I am feeling the way I do means it's not fair on either of us for our relationship to continue. But how do I do it? I am so scared, because I know he still loves me very very much and I don't want to hurt him, I think he's a great guy and he has been my friend since we were kids, but I'm just not in love with him any more. This is a really difficult situation so I'd really appreciate some advice. Thanks :) (link)
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Wow! Ya'll have been together for a long time which leaves me to say that you owe it to him to sit down face to face and let him know how you feel. Ask him if he can meet up with you one day and sit down and talk and everything you said about your feelings being different and it not being fair for the two of you, you need to tell him. You'll know what to say when you see him as I'm sure you know that you can't plan anything ahead because you won't end up saying those exact words and if you do you'll be able to tell that you planned it. But, you need to let him know everything that feel inside of your heart and let him know that you still care for him and will still be there for him, but your feelings have changed and it just isn't fair for either of you to be in a relationship when only one person is still way into the relationship. Who knows. He may feel the same way about you and just doesn't know how to tell you or is too scared of what it will be like without you. Good luck!! I hope I helped!!
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ok so whenever i even get a TINY bit hot my arm pits get sweaty and leave marks on my shirt and its sooo embarecing i can never lift my arms or else people will see. i use plenty of deoderant but it doesnt seem to be helping at all. even if im not that hot it still happens. i hate it! any help??? (link)
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Make sure you wear an undershirt underneath every shirt. This will help keep some of the sweat from getting on your regular shirt and keep you sweat free longer. Hope I helped!!
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(14/f)
I like my guy best friend. Flatout. He has liked me for 3 years and i kept rejecting him. Now when i like him, hes not responding. Its really confusing, but im not sure whether he likes me or not. About a week ago, he asked me to have sex with him. I obviously said no, and asked him after if he liked anyone. He simply replied no. I was really shocked because i thought just maybe he would see ME! Anyway, hes always looking and me and poking me and talks to me when he has the chance. Which is hardly ever! But really im not sure whether he likes me or not! He has liked me for sooo long and its weird how hes acting towards me. He wouldnt look at me in the eye anymore but i still get a sense that he likes me. How do i know?! (link)
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I just sort've answered a question about this, but um, I'll try to help. My best friend liked me for 3 years also and finally ended up telling me when I was with my boyfriend at the time and when my boyfriend and I broke up I tried things with him, but only for about a week when I realized that I just didn't see him in the same way as he saw me. So, as you say your best friend is acting differently and he's acting the same way my friend did when I kind've rejected him. You just need to sit down and talk to him about it and see what he says. He may just feel like he's been rejected one too many times and that he needs to move on because he feels like you won't ever like him that way. Therefore, you need to talk to him and let him in on how you feel otherwise you may regret it and you will never know how he feels about you now if you don't.
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so i took a shower, brushed my hair, then braided all of it. do you think itll look good in the morning when i take the braids out? if it doesnt im just going to put it up. but when i take the braids out can i brush my hair? or will it ruin it? (link)
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I love when people braid their hair and then wear it that way, but def. dont' brush it. Your hair will look great without brushing it and if your hair is anything like mine: whenever I used to do that, it was always super soft. Anyways, don't brush it, just let it be and I'm sure you'll look beautiful.
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i loved her, she broke up with her boyfriend. I knew she liked me. I did'nt ask her out or anything, because she would probally have said no. she really liked me too. she even told me she did, she just "didnt act on her thoughts" she didnt know why. now, i missed my oppurtunity and she is startin again with another guy. we both stil ahve feelings for eachother. she is leaving soon too. i already missed my first chance i guess, and now maybe i missed the 2nd too, is it to late?!?! HOW TO I WIN HER BACK, even though she never let me the first time :( (link)
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Oh man. I was in this exact situation, but my best friend was the guy in your position. Um. I dated a guy for seven months. My best friend had liked me for 3 years on and off and about a year and a half in total .. well so he said. Anyways. You def. need to tell her. You know. I didn't even realize he did like me as more than a friend and I always had a thing for him, but in the end it didn't work out for us because I just didn't want to lose him as a best friend. But, you need to tell her. She deserves to know and nothing between you two will change unless you let her know. I mean. My guy didn't tell me for 3 years and that killed him .. you shouldn't have to go through that. Just let her know and see what happens and since you already know she likes you, what can hurt? You'll feel better in the end, I promise.
I hope this helped. =] Good luck.
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okay so theres this guy that i like alot.
&&i want to go out with him so badd !
but besidess that i think i'm in love with him.
how do you know when your in love?
thanks
--Ashley (link)
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Love is when you can't go a day without seeing them. Love is missing them even when they are right next to you, but missing them because you know you'll have to leave him for the night. Love is when you're in your own world with him and nothing else matters. It is purely when he completes you and you learn all the small things about him like when a guy uses ketchup on something strange and you know he likes a lot of it and you can go ahead and order it for him. Things like that are love. It takes time and energy, but it's worth it.
It seems you just really like him, but try hanging out with him, talking to him on the phone, and hinting to him that you like him. If ya'll are meant to be in love, then it will happen, trust me.
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Ok so me and my friends are wanting to hang out this weekend but we all are flat broke and we need ideas of things to do that won't cost much money. thanks (link)
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Hm. I don't know where you're from, but I'm from Georgia and down here when we are bored with no money we go fishing, play some volleyball at the park, watch a movie, go downtown, go to a party .. things like that. Hope that helps ..
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my guy friend has recently been saying he wants to go up his gf's shirt. his gf is COMPLETLEY flat - like, as flat as her back. so, my question is, how do guys go up girls' shirts when they have absolutely NOTHING? what is there to feel? why would they WANT to when theres nothing there? (link)
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Honestly, this isn't meant to sound mean at all, but why are you worried so much about him? I guess he just likes her a lot and wants to do things with her .. going up her shirt will lead to other things more than likely and you never know what he has planned. So. She must have something if he has the urge to do that ..
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Ok, so i met a girl at a concert on saturday and we danced a little bit and hooked up. the thing is i dont know much about her at all. all i know is that she goes to a catholic school near me, and her name. she lives a little far away, but she gave me her number. should i bother to stay in touch? (link)
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Heck yes you should!! Listen, obviously she's interested since she gave you her number so if you don't call her at least once then she'll think you blew her off. You should def. give her a call and soon since it's Wednesday and she gave it to you Saturday. She may think you don't want to talk to her .. so def. give it a go.
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15/f
I'm so sick of feeling like I'm just wasting my life away. Everyday I come home after school and do homework for a few hours and then do whatever and go to bed. Sometimes on Fridays I'll hang out with my friends, and like rarely Saturdays. The thing is I don't have a lot of friends, atleast not one's who I actually hang out with. I have two best friends who I basically only hang out with except for occasional times where there's others. I'm really shy, so that's the reason for that, and I have a hard time making new friends. My freshman year is just about over, but definitely next year I'll do a sport and join some clubs hopefully to meet new people. But right now, even my 2 best friends aren't always there. My one best friend has an extremely overprotective mom who makes no sense, who won't let her go to the mall or a recent carnival, yet she'll let her go to on a plane to Florida on a band trip. And a lot of the time she's busy, either with sports or she's with her family. My other best friend is more like me, her mom gives her more freedom and she's available more often, but I guess she doesn't like hanging out with just me or something, since most of the time the other one can't. And she like NEVER calls or texts me, only IMs. AND WE'RE BEST FRIENDS! I'm just sooo sick of it, I know I need new friends but it just doesn't happen that easily. And it's hard to not be shy around people. I don't know what to do anymore! What do I do? How do I make new friends and not be shy? How can I make my friends realize that like, we're best friends! And we should seriously act like we are, not just in school! I don't want to waste my weekends away, I'm 15, I feel like I have no life! And don't even get me started on this summer, if it goes any way how this school year has been, I'll like become depressed. I know what I want, I just don't know where to start. Please help. Sorry for the length & thank you so much! (link)
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Well, you are 15 so I'm going to assume that many of your friends don't drive. Here's the thing: There isn't many things to do until you and your friends can drive, that's how it was for me for sure. Now, I have a friend that moved here a year and a half ago and before I met her she was the shyest person I have ever known. Now she is outgoing and has made a lot of friends. Honestly, you just have to put yourself out there and talk to people, introduce yourself. Of course you won't be one of those loud, really outgoing people because that just isn't your personality. But just sitting in a room where there's people around and not talking to them because you don't know them is something you will have to overcome. They as well don't know you and they will continue to not know you until you put yourself in that position to get to know them. Try doing those things and as you get older I promise there will be more things to do and more places to go.
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Ok so here is the problem: I am really scared to put anything in my vagina. I just turned 13 and in 7th grade. Don't worry i'm not plannin' to have sex anytime soon but I really want to use tampons. But the thought of putting anything inside of me just makes me shiver and I get uncomfortable just thinking about it. Like, when I read questions on here about people fingering I think to myself wouldn't that hurt more than feel good. And also I'm really scared about that first time when I put something up there and it hurts and I bleed! Yeah and also I tried to look to see what whole it goes in for when I do work up the courage, but even after reading all articles on periods I STILL can't tell where it goes! Any advice!!??!?! (link)
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Calm down, it's alright. Girls use tampons all the time and trust me, it doesn't hurt. The first couple of times you use one it will feel kind've strange because you aren't used to it, but you'll get used to it just like everything else. There is a hole down there that you stick it in. If you put it in the wrong place, you will know it for sure because it will hurt. Also, there is typically a sheet of paper inside of the tampon box that gives you step to step details on how to use it and where it goes. Make sure to read that if you have further information. It's alright to be nervous, I was once and I can assure you that you aren't the only one. =]
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my boyfriend wants to have sex.
im cool with it, except for the fact that i have bad tan lines from my bikini.
i LOVE to lay out by the pool and therefore have tan lines. going to a tanning bed is out of the question.
what should i do? im self conscience about my tan lines. (link)
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Honestly, if he wants to have sex with you, he doesn't care about tan lines, he cares about you. Don't let your tan lines get in the way because he sees you a lot and I'm sure he knows you have tan lines and it doesn't bother him. Leave the light off if you are that self-conscience, but honestly, I don't think he'll mind. Good luck girl!
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