theres this boy, and him and i like eachother, but were not going out yet, becuase well he thinks young relationships are dumb, but he wants to do all the things boyfriends and girlfriends do.
should i?
or shouldn`t i, becuase were not dating.
and its basically taking advantage. idk.
iliveadream answered Sunday June 17 2007, 2:44 am: Honestly. I don't think you should because in the end you will be the one who is hurt. If he doesn't want a relationship then he obviously isn't as into you as you are to him. Sorry, but if all he wants are the additions you have in a relationship, then don't allow for it until he agrees on having a relationship. Otherwise, just move on. There's plenty of great guys out there! [ iliveadream's advice column | Ask iliveadream A Question ]
KELLY_ELIZABETH answered Saturday June 16 2007, 10:44 pm: Agreed. I don't think you should. Sounds like he doesn't want commitment, and he just wants to use you. The problem with this is that it is just like friends with benefits. Someone always falls for the other, and gets hurt. He probably doesn't want to be tied down with one girl, and/or have a girlfriend over summer. I know a lot of guys that do both of these things, and it never turns out well. Good luck!
christina answered Saturday June 16 2007, 7:33 pm: No, you shouldn't. He wants to do the things a couple does, but doesn't want the official name for it. Sounds kind of weird to me. Either he's playing a game with you, or he's insecure & shy & doesn't want people to know.
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