I like my guy best friend. Flatout. He has liked me for 3 years and i kept rejecting him. Now when i like him, hes not responding. Its really confusing, but im not sure whether he likes me or not. About a week ago, he asked me to have sex with him. I obviously said no, and asked him after if he liked anyone. He simply replied no. I was really shocked because i thought just maybe he would see ME! Anyway, hes always looking and me and poking me and talks to me when he has the chance. Which is hardly ever! But really im not sure whether he likes me or not! He has liked me for sooo long and its weird how hes acting towards me. He wouldnt look at me in the eye anymore but i still get a sense that he likes me. How do i know?!
iliveadream answered Thursday May 10 2007, 11:45 pm: I just sort've answered a question about this, but um, I'll try to help. My best friend liked me for 3 years also and finally ended up telling me when I was with my boyfriend at the time and when my boyfriend and I broke up I tried things with him, but only for about a week when I realized that I just didn't see him in the same way as he saw me. So, as you say your best friend is acting differently and he's acting the same way my friend did when I kind've rejected him. You just need to sit down and talk to him about it and see what he says. He may just feel like he's been rejected one too many times and that he needs to move on because he feels like you won't ever like him that way. Therefore, you need to talk to him and let him in on how you feel otherwise you may regret it and you will never know how he feels about you now if you don't. [ iliveadream's advice column | Ask iliveadream A Question ]
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