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a guy and my friend and some other stuff
Kay so I knew this guy from swimming, and some stuff happened and I didn't get to see him for a long time. So I just saw him today, and the last time I saw him was in April. I used to really like him, but it's been so long that I kind of tried to forget adn move on. A girl that also liked him took me to his house today. He is kind of a man whore, and also has done some bad stuff, but still is realllly nice. SO anyways,he made out with my friend. While I was there. Sitting next to them. Then he tried to kiss me. But since I hadn't talked to him in several months, and he had just made out with my friend who likes him a whoooole lot, I said no, but really I have never been kissed before and I'm just to scared to. The other girl has made out with 9 guys. Yeah so seeing the situation, I said no, and now I'm really sad and don't know if I like him or not or what to do and why I couldn't have just kissed him first. I'm 15. He's 15, she's 16. Help?
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He sounds like a player if he went in for a kiss right infront of the girl he JUST madeout with. And only you can decide if you like him. Having a crush and liking someone are two completely different things. Haveing a crush is thinking someone is cute/good looking. Liking someone is when all you think about is them and you have a hard time getting them off your mind. You have to decide which one it is, or if it isnt any of those. And I think it is kind of rude that she would go makeout with him right there. If I'm not mistaken, I would say that she was trying to make you jealous/see if you would makeout with him because you know that shes madeout with 9 guys. I mean, if she is a good friend, keep her. If she isnt, then you can decide. If you want to talk further, you can I*M me at Cheez it 1603. But I wont be on for a couple of days, so you could just leave one in my inbox.
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..Well its a good think you didnt kiss him..You dont want you for first kiss to be with someone who doesnt care that much about you..Or just made out with your best friend..And since hes a man whore your best bet if to move on and just be friends with him..
And kissin is very easy..
Wait for the guy to make the first move and then you just go along with him..If he moves his tongue fast you do too..If he moves it slow you do to..But its easy once you start..Hope i helped`
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seeing as i'm with you on the never been kissed thing too,so i can only help you so much.
i have a boyfriend and its pretty hard to tell him no when he wants to make out.
but kissings natural,(supposidly, lol)
when you really want to, your body will know exactly what to do.
i've had many many friends who tried the older girl/younger guy relationships...
4 times outta 5.. they break up extremely fast cause the guy isnt as mature as the girl.
well, i hope i helped...
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hmmm. I think you should get his screenname and/or phone number from someone (or the other girl who you were with) and tell him "hey, im the girl you hung out with (whenever).. whats up?" and then eventually move your way up to making plans with him. Go to a movie with him (the BEST place to kiss). Maybe even invite him over or go over there, just the 2 of you. Thats a great way to bond, who knows? maybe he'll ask you out. ;]
Hope i helped ! ♥
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