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Sex-First Time
Me and my bf really want to start having sex. It will be my first time and i'm kinda really worried about the pain. I cannot handle pain very well lol. we've tried 2 times and it doesn't fit in. however we've been "stretching" me out down there so it wont hurt as bad. i think its pretty wide enough but there's like a wall kinda thing that i always hit and it hurts so badly(not the hymen).
Does anyone have any advice on stretching out or just 1st time sex in general lol?
I'd really appreciate it!! :)
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LUBE! Haha, that's all I have to say. Lube. I had the same problem as you when I tried to have sex the first time, it wouldn't fit no matter how hard we tried. But then, some KY came to the rescue, it slid right in. You only need a little tiny bit, and a bottle is like $4.50.
Honestly, try it, you may not have to stretch it anymore. And about the pain, it's going to stretch or break your hymen no matter what. So there's really nothing you can do about making that hurt less. Maybe take some advil a little before so that you're prepared for the pain? Idk, I can't think of anything that would make it hurt less.
And some advice on your first time, idk if you've had an orgasm before, but I hadn't before my first time. And I was so focused on the pain that I couldn't let myself enjoy what was happening enough to orgasm. So my advice is, just focus on your man and how good he makes you feel, not on whats going on below the belt.
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It's going to hurt the first few times. And there's really nothing you can do about it. You just have to keep doing it and eventually it won't hurt as much.
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It's gonna hurt the first few times, just keep n stretching it out and also keep trying to put it in it'll help.
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