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Love's neverending story
Hello. I am a teenage chick whos 17 years old from the USA. So I've liked this guy for um about 3 years now and I know that he doesn't like me back and I don't think he ever will. He keeps calling me, IMing me and talking to me so its like really hard to get over him. And the worst part about it is that whenever I feel down about that, he always wants to come and talk to me and he wants to know if I can talk to him about it. Obviously I can't!!!! So its like confusiing becaus eit seems like I'll never get over him and my crush is going into a neverending loop! Do I really love him or is this just a 3 year phase? I like him because hes the only guy who actually listens to me, the only guy who actually talks to me, and hes a really awesome person who is completly unique and gorgeous and... everything. My dad says that we should get together. That made me feel even worse! lol. See my dilima? HOW DO I END THIS CYCLE????
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I'd suggest that you just tell him how you feel and acknowledge that he probably doesn't return you're feelings. Make him aware that you're okay with that, that the two of you can still be friends... But that you need some time and space to get over your feelings for him before preceeding with your friendship. That means that he doesn't call, doesn't IM for a while... And that if you say you're depressed and don't want to talk about it he needs to lay off the subject.
You may find out that he actually does reciprocate your feelings. And if he doesn't, that's okay too. While I understand that this guy is special... He's not the only one. You'll find a guy equally special one day that obviously does reciprocate you're feelings. If he's the only guy who actually listens and talks to you... It sounds like you may like him just by default. I challenge you to meet some new guys and challenge my theory.
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I know you will probley think Im crazy for telling you this , but you have to tell him what you are feeling like and ask him to please not talk to you. My first love broke up with me after a year & 3 months ... The worst thing I ever did was talk to him , it's just a reminder of what you DONT have and it hurt's even worst knowing you like someone who doesn't want you back. Guy's work in [ very ] WiERD ways , If they [ know ] your waiting on them .. They will KEEP you waiting , Trust me <3 [ YOU ] have to distance your self from him or your 3 year cycle will CONTiNUE !
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