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what do i do
me and my girlfriend have been together for 2 years and i love her sooo much you know it wasn't that first sight love it was that first kiss that made my world change just that first kiss and all of a sudden she doesn't love me for no reason after she has done everything bad to me and all i have done is love her, her friends hate me and put things in her head all the time, i just want to take her and leave and be alone and happy forever just the 2 of us and just start a new life i love her and i dont know what to do i have done everything she has asked lost firends everything you can think possible and now i have nothing but her i just don't know what to do
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I really hate that this is happening to you, but things like this do happen. You out grow people or just lose that spark. My boyfriend and I of 3 years broke up around 8 months ago, I broke up with him because I just felt like we were growing apart. Maybe she just needs sometime to herself to think about what she is feeling. I think you should talk to her and let her know that you are feeling hurt and ask her what she is feeling. If she needs space, then give it to her, if she says it's over I'm sorry, but let her go. Stalking her and harrassing her won't help, thats what my ex did and it made me competely hate him. Maybe if you are lucky and she does break-up with you then you can still hang out as friends.
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Hey, I'm sorry you have to go through this :( you seem like a great guy. My question is, how do you know she doesn't love you anymore? If she's just saying it, it might just be because she's scared. Since her friends "hate" you, it may be that you two were spending too much time together. Maybe you took her away from her friends and they hated that. I dont mean to jump to conclusions, but if that's the case, you two still need outlets and other friends to hang out with often. She might feel trapped, and the more and more her friends tell her bad stuff, the more she's going to want to stray away from you. That is my guess, I think she still loves you. My advice would be to have a serious talk with her. Take her out on a romantic date, tell her how you feel as sincerely as you can, and tell her you can accomodate to her wants and needs. That's if you want to. Good luck hun!
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okay. you have 2 choices.
1) talk to your girlfriend aboutt his. tell her all that you feel about her, her friends, and her and you together. make sure she knows how you feel!
or..
2) (which i doubt you'll choose) break up with her. if you gave up everything for her and she didn;t do anything, maybe she isn't worth your time or love. think about this and it may hurt you to do it, but realize, what has she done?
best of luck. sorry if my advice isn;t what you wanted to hear.
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Hey, the first thing you need to do is step back and look at the bigger picture. You have given everything up for her, but what has she given up for you. Girls will come and go, but your friends are there forever. Maybe she's just not ready to make a big commitment. This probably means she isn't the one for you. I could be wrong, but only time will tell.
Thanks and remember to come back for more advice.
volunteergirl
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i say if she don't stop what shes doing then shes going to loose somebody that she loves dearly, but thats my point of veiw. i think you should tell her how you feel and that if she don't stop acting the way she is that your going to brake up with her. and then see what she says.
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She needs to be her own person. Sadly she is not if she is letting her friends tell her what to do. Someone you love should never tell you to get rid of anything that you care about. She needs to grow up and learn from her mistakes. If she loses you and learns that that was not a decsion on her part hopefully she will come back to you a better person who can handle a relationship.
It sucks...I know but I am sorry that is probably the way it has to be...just remember that it is better to have loved and lost then have loved before...I know it might not seem like it but remember how happy love makes you and how overwhelming it is!
I hope I helped...It is a sucky situation but I believe you can get through it!
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Until you are totally and completely honest with yourself and everyone around you, you will be unhappy the way you are now.
Love is about growth and compatibility, not hate.
When you have been honest with yourself for over 6 months, ask yourself if you're in love with her then.
-- Stay Honest
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okay, there's two sides to the story.
maybe you were or weren't doing something that she didn't like, or wanted you to do...
if you think you've done anything...
then it's up to her now...
sorry
keep in contact though...
you should always be there.
but talk to her
ask her why.....
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Hey , again =) Im glad my advice helped you out . If ya got any other relationship questions , please feel free to talk to me or ask me . I would love to help you . Me and my boyfriend have been togetther for a year and a couple of months so trust me , i been through it all :)
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