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Well, i went out w/ this guy for 2.5 months, and then i broke up w. him, cause he said to another girl i'll break up w/ her if you'll go out w/ me, and then i broke up w/ him and then he said that that was a stupis reason to break up w/ him, and then he started going out w/ another girl (who's one of my best friends) not even to days after we broke up. And now i lke another guy. And i think that my ex is mad at me, so would you be mad and do you have any good advice about how to ask out a guy? (link)
if hes going to do it to you and date your bff then i say fuck him and do what you want and date another guy.


how easily is it for the average [horny] 15/16 yr old guy to get hard? (link)
its not that hard, theres nuddy magazines and vidoes and other stuff 2.


13/F so my freind for a long time likes me and i dont like. like that and i kinda like. but im still young im 13 and i dont kno how to date yet and i dont kno wut to do (link)
its not that hard but if you like the guy then go out with this guy and theres allways more boys out there so if this relationship don't work out then move on, thats why your young, but make shore that he likes you back.


me and my girlfriend have been together for 2 years and i love her sooo much you know it wasn't that first sight love it was that first kiss that made my world change just that first kiss and all of a sudden she doesn't love me for no reason after she has done everything bad to me and all i have done is love her, her friends hate me and put things in her head all the time, i just want to take her and leave and be alone and happy forever just the 2 of us and just start a new life i love her and i dont know what to do i have done everything she has asked lost firends everything you can think possible and now i have nothing but her i just don't know what to do (link)
i say if she don't stop what shes doing then shes going to loose somebody that she loves dearly, but thats my point of veiw. i think you should tell her how you feel and that if she don't stop acting the way she is that your going to brake up with her. and then see what she says.


i'm 15/f and i have never had an actual boyfriend and i've never kissed a guy. I feel so behind from all the other girls at school. I just don't feel like i want to take on all the drama that comes with a relationship.

I'm not ugly or anything and i think guys don't ask me out because i'm kind of one of them. I love video games and playing guitar, and skateboarding. The dresses and stuff don't really get me.

I'm worried about being single for the rest of my life! I want to keep my guy friends though, they're like my brothers and i'm worried that if i ever get a guy he won't let me hang out with my boys! (link)
if you get a bf and he wont let you hang out with your guy friends (who are like your brothers) then he is not worth it, you should even ask your friends that , if uyour bf doesn't let you hang out with thwm ,then he's not worth the trouble b/c theres plentyof guys out there that you can date, but if you do get a bf and he has no prob with it be carful bn/c he will get jelous.


I was with someone for a year and a half. I met someone so much more wonderful and a few weeks after konwing him and spending time with him I broke up with my boyfriend out of the blue because I couldnt ignore what I was feeling for this new boy. It was clearly a mistake to jump right into a relationship and have sex a week later. I felt too uncomfortable with it so I confronted my ex boyfriend because I felt that he should know because I still cared about him. He forgave me and we started dating again but three days later we broke up and I was with my new boy again. That was the last time I ever dated my ex boyfriend. Ever since Me and my new boyfriend have been on and off mostly because of the reason of me not being completely over my ex. My ex was my first for everything and I shared an obsessive love with him. I grew close to my ex every now and then but only realizing how unattracted I was to him and how selfish he was. I no longer had feelings for him. My boyfriend was hurting and was confused as was I. I love my boyfriend but I recently found out he was doing pretty much the same thing to me. For his sake I stopped talking to my ex even though I had no feelings for him anymore. About a month ago around my birthday during one of our fights he called his ex and told her that he wanted to have sex with her. Called her right after he was masterbating. Ive done similar but not to the extent of telling anyone i wanted to have sex with them. Whenever I did anything wrong I would go straight to him and tell him. He kept this from me and the only reason I found out was because his ex girlfriend got into the picture again and slipped saying it while she was drunk. It hurts. Not only that I just moved away a few weeks ago to a new state and since then hes stolen things and got in trouble and had some beers. If I did anything like that he would yell at me and make me feel so low for it. Hes being unfair. I saw a picture of him and his ex together naked. All I have are bad images. To think he told me he loved me the day after he talked to her. I dont know what to do in this situation. (link)
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all i have to tell you is if your still dating this guy, well you should brake up with him. because what hes doing to you is not right, u should tell him that the more that u started hanging out with your x that you relized that you don't love him any more and that he was a jerk and you want to be with him(your bf)but if he doesn't know what to say or says yea thats ok or he still is doing the things behind your back honey you need to break up with him.
samantha bedford


okay well i went out with this boy a few weeks ago. We broke up because he wanted to make out after one day and i said sure tommorrow when we hangout he said okay then he couldnt hang and we broke up the next day to make out with another girl. They madeout like 20 times and i didnt like him until today when i saw him. I have also seen him like a million times before and liked other boys. Now i like like him again and i want to makeout with him or go out with him. But i dont know if he likes me and i dont have the guts to ask him. so please give me tips.
and i dont care if i sound whorish.
and sorry its realy long. (link)
well get ur bff to do it for u. thats what i would do.


both me and my boyfriend have mono and have had it for idk how long a few weeks im thinking or ive had the pains for thas tlong we just found out yesturday that its mon o that we have.....my question is can we still kiss and do what we normally do or will it just make us have it longer and make things worse!?!?! cuz i absolutely LOVE kissing him and ahh cant go to long without some love..


please help

thanks (link)
well really it don't matter b/c u have it and so do what u want as long as yall are together and don't break up then yall should do what yall want.


Hey do you have msn, you answerd one of my questions and said you could help if i talked to you online,well if you have msn mine is paintballer_5551@hotmail.com (link)
no sorry i don't but i got your e-mail so heres mine. bedford_samantha@yahoo.com i'll add you today and if you ever need to talk just send me a messagr ok l8ter.


if i was pregnant,
what would i do about my belly button ring? could i just get one of those bendy belly button rings? or no?

andd...
what should i do about cheerleading? in a varsity cheerleader for my school.

also...
what should i do about school? (link)
stop cheerleading b/c its not good for babythe runing part and keep gping to school.


Why is it that Christians worship Jesus more than they do God? Jesus isn't God but it almost seems that he is more important to Christians than God. (link)
ya that might be true but we worship god as much as we do jesus, b/c when you pray to jesus yourprating to god. so please don't say that about god.


Ok me and my ex have been broke up since Nov 14th, I love her so much! but she is going out with another guy now who treats her like shit!! he doesnt even really love her. I want her back so much! me and my freind oliver were talking and he said "man she just told me like a week ago that she was finaly over you". the other night me and her were talking about our romantic memories i could name off 5 in great detail, but she couldnt. She has started to smoke to and I HATE smokers. And she said that its an escape. But i really just think she is doing it cause her new boyfreind is, and hes a loser. I dont know what to do, i said told her that i thought i knew what the problem was, it was that i boerd her. And she said yeah i think it was, not trying to be a bitch. She said there was something about me that she still likes, it was that i held her. I dont really like that fact that me and her did nothing but she has oral sex with her new boy freind, but her told me she isnt going to loss her virginity to him. I just dont know what to do! help me! Im really consirned about the smoking, cause they wont be together for to much longer i know that and she might get addicted. So how can i help get her back and get her off smoking?



Btw she is a stuborn 15 year old who wont listen to anything, she will if i make a really strong point without getting mad. thanks (link)
well if she said that shes over you than shes over you but that all depends on how long it took her to get with this other guy, but you sound cute but you should try to move in but if you can't then you should wiat till her and the other guy brake up and before some other guy askes her out you need to do it first. but you should talk 2 me i can make u feel better but only on line sorry.


OK...I will try to make this as short as I can. Basically, for reasons we don't understand, I have fallen out of love with my husband. We have been married for almost 9 years now & have 2 kids together. He doesn't beat me or anything like that. He's a pretty good guy, but, for some reason I always like someone else better. No, I am not acting on anything or going after anyone. I just end up falling for other people. I really want to fall back in love with him! I miss that feeling & I honestly couldn't imagine finding anyone like him. What can we do? Thanks. (link)
well i'm only 15 but i herd that if u and your husband go on a wild adventure and get hot and heavy while ur on that adventure a spark will come back and the two of you will fall in love again or show a naughty side that hes never seen bevore and just fancy up your love life thats what i think you should do but thats just me you don't have to take advice from a 15 year old.


my bf and i were dating and it was the only relationship I've ever had that was serious. I've dated like 7 other boys, but they meant nothing to me compared to the way I feel about my last. Since we broke up I can't seem to be able to focus on anything, school work, sports,i can barely sleep or eat anymore. I know I'm still in love with him and I've told him how I feel but he doesn't feel the same way. Is there anything I can do just to get my life back? (link)
nope u can't b/c i tryed that and my ex bf leland well we went out for 8 months and i broke up with him and then i relized that i shouldn't have and so 5 months go by and i tolled him that i still loved him and would like another try and he thought about and gave me another chance but then 2 months went by and he ended up braking my heart to go out with a friend of mine and even to this day i still tell him that i still love him and always will but he tolled me that he doesn't have the feelings for me like he use to. so i'm getting over him by going out with this new guy at are school josh. i hope that i helped.


15.f
I need everyones opinion on this topic please.

would you go out with your ex boyfriends cousin? Or do you think it wouldn't be right? ....

Boys what would you do if your ex went out with your cousin?

Girls would you go out with your ex boyfriends cousin? (link)
yes and no. yes b/c you can go out with whom ever you want 2. and no b/c thats your ex bfs cousin and that could make family probs so, but its really up 2 you if you really like this guy then i say go for it but if not then your ex will probably think that your trying to get back at him and tell his cousin that, thats what ur trying to do is get back at him.


heyy im very anxious about having sex 4 the first time!!all my friends told me it hurts like hell.is it true????? im really really scared (link)
it feels so good


What's a good place to hide condoms in my room where my parents wont find them? It's not like they'll go looking through my stuff, but they clean it a lot and sometimes find stuff they shouldn't. (link)
tare a hole in your matress and shuve them in there.


do you think it's possible to have a friend that is attractive and never ever have any romantic feelings for them?!..if so why or why not?! (link)
yes because i have that same problem with my best friend kyle and its hard but your just going to have to deal with it unless you know that your buddy likes you back.


There is this young lady that I am in love with and i think that she has something for me. We have stopped speaking mayby 4 times but each time we found each other. when I am out and around I can see her looking at me or when we step into a room no matter where or how many people we always spot each other. Lately thing have been rough between us.. I was talking to her and somehow no matter how hard I try someone is always around do not like that too much any.. This morning I sent the Good morning email and she responded. " FINE I DO NOT WANT TO UPSET YOU BUT I DO NOT FEEL LIKE TALKING, HAVE A GOOD DAY' I RESPONDED "ONE QESTION THOUGH, DO YOU NOT FEEL LIKE TALKING OR NOT TALKING TO ME' AM i READING TOO MUCH INTO THIS. BECASUE i FEEL BAD NOW.. (link)
all i have to say if she doesn't want to talk than just leave her alone and talk to her the next day and see what happens from there.


well...i have been with my boyfriend for almost 4 months and we have already run into some problems(at least from my point of view). he is the greatest guy i have ever met, but it just seems like he has problems with committing too fast!!! okay...so he already told me that he wants to get married and he keeps proposing to me but i am not even finished with school. so...what should i do??? cause i have already tried to explain to him that i don't want to right now. also i told him that i don't want to have sex until marriage and he is having a hard time understanding that. what should i do about all this??? (link)
ok all that i can tell you is that (the way that you say that hes nice and stuff) but do you really like this guy to give him up b/c aparently he wants to marry u and ur not ready and he doesn't get it so you should tell him that your not ready and if he doesn't understand then you need to tell him that its over and that your not ready for a long thing like that, pluse you 2 have only known each other for what 4 months you said. so do that and if he don't get it say i'm done theres more fish out ther that will wait on you to merry them and to have sex with. but when a guy is bushing and bushing it normaly means that ,that guy doesn't really care, he might say he does but he really doesn't if he doesn't respect your wishes.

your wellcome gurl with boyfriend and commitment problems.




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