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Want to fall in love again
OK...I will try to make this as short as I can. Basically, for reasons we don't understand, I have fallen out of love with my husband. We have been married for almost 9 years now & have 2 kids together. He doesn't beat me or anything like that. He's a pretty good guy, but, for some reason I always like someone else better. No, I am not acting on anything or going after anyone. I just end up falling for other people. I really want to fall back in love with him! I miss that feeling & I honestly couldn't imagine finding anyone like him. What can we do? Thanks.
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Go ahead and try to act on your impulses and you will see what scum is out there and you will appreciate what you have. Anyone single is so for a reason. They are either abusive, chemically dependent or incredibly perverted
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Ask your self why you fell out of love and go from there. Take some time off and spend time with just him. Drop the kids of at your mom and dads or something. The first step is actually wanting to fall back in love and your already there. so try and talk to him about it. But the number one thing you should do is just spend a weekend or two just you guys. Be creative about it to, have fun, you cant go wrong there
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You need to ask yourself WHY youve fallen outta love with him...did he treat you better before?Or did you just get bored of him?If its boredom then you better find some ways to bring your relationship bak to life for your good and your kidz.Try to think of new things to do with him and new places to go and new hobbies to share,all of that makes it a lil more interesting
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well i'm only 15 but i herd that if u and your husband go on a wild adventure and get hot and heavy while ur on that adventure a spark will come back and the two of you will fall in love again or show a naughty side that hes never seen bevore and just fancy up your love life thats what i think you should do but thats just me you don't have to take advice from a 15 year old.
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well, when you say you fall in love with other "people" plorally, does that mean you do it alot? Because that could mean that you need to mix it up a little, has your life been boring lately? find a babysitter and go out with your husband alone. Maybe you want to do something as a family. Watch some home videos, you will say "thats why i love this man so much" maybe you are not exactaly loving other guys, but wanting something...anything from them that you wish you could get from your husband (lets keep this on the same level...) Ask him if he loves you, maybe he feels the same way...does he stutter or take his time or seems like he doesnt care when he answers you? Does he refuse to tell you that he ACTUALLY loves you, example, he says "honey, you know i do." if he gets upset for asking him just re-assure him with "i love you." In the end, it really sounds like you guys care for each other deeply. GoOd LuCk!!!
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Get your parents to watch your kids for the weekend and devote that time to both of you only. Have some fun/romantic things planned that you like to do. Or do little things that you know he loves like write him notes or something.
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