okay well i went out with this boy a few weeks ago. We broke up because he wanted to make out after one day and i said sure tommorrow when we hangout he said okay then he couldnt hang and we broke up the next day to make out with another girl. They madeout like 20 times and i didnt like him until today when i saw him. I have also seen him like a million times before and liked other boys. Now i like like him again and i want to makeout with him or go out with him. But i dont know if he likes me and i dont have the guts to ask him. so please give me tips.
and i dont care if i sound whorish.
and sorry its realy long.
helperorhelpee answered Monday April 28 2008, 3:30 pm: i know this isn't what you want to hear but, this guy is wasting your time. he doesn't really like you, he just wants to make out with girls all the time. even if you did get the guts to ask him he would probably cheat and makeout with other girls or break your heart. i think it's best that youu move on and forget about this guy. best of luck. [ helperorhelpee's advice column | Ask helperorhelpee A Question ]
Jeanne answered Monday April 28 2008, 1:52 am: I'm sorry, but... no, he doesn't like you. He might want to make out with you, but that's it. If he really liked you (the way you want him to like you), he'd like you whether you were making out or not.
Don't make the mistake of thinking that if you make out with him, he'll suddenly start liking you. It just doesn't work that way. If anything, it will make him like you even less, because he'll lose respect for you. That's because the message you'd be sending is, "I'm so desperate to go out with you that I'll do anything." Guys aren't attracted to desperate girls. They're attracted to confident girls who know what they're worth and won't settle for less.
Better to leave him thinking, "Dang, I lost my chance with her because I acted like an idiot." At least he'll have some respect for you, and you'll still have some for yourself as well. [ Jeanne's advice column | Ask Jeanne A Question ]
sizzlinmandolin answered Monday April 28 2008, 1:17 am: He does not like you. Period. Don't bother with him. If he couldn't wait for TWO DAYS without getting with another girl, he couldn't care less about you. Do not try to get into a relationship with him. It will not work. Don't be his makeout buddy. It will cause more pain that it's worth. I know you can't just forget him, but you really do need to let this one go. There will be other guys. Guys that actually like you. [ sizzlinmandolin's advice column | Ask sizzlinmandolin A Question ]
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