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my boyfriend and committment
well...i have been with my boyfriend for almost 4 months and we have already run into some problems(at least from my point of view). he is the greatest guy i have ever met, but it just seems like he has problems with committing too fast!!! okay...so he already told me that he wants to get married and he keeps proposing to me but i am not even finished with school. so...what should i do??? cause i have already tried to explain to him that i don't want to right now. also i told him that i don't want to have sex until marriage and he is having a hard time understanding that. what should i do about all this???
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ok all that i can tell you is that (the way that you say that hes nice and stuff) but do you really like this guy to give him up b/c aparently he wants to marry u and ur not ready and he doesn't get it so you should tell him that your not ready and if he doesn't understand then you need to tell him that its over and that your not ready for a long thing like that, pluse you 2 have only known each other for what 4 months you said. so do that and if he don't get it say i'm done theres more fish out ther that will wait on you to merry them and to have sex with. but when a guy is bushing and bushing it normaly means that ,that guy doesn't really care, he might say he does but he really doesn't if he doesn't respect your wishes.
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Obviously you've got him wrapped around your finger. It seems like this boy really cares about you, and thats a good thing. The whole wanna get married thing is a little scary, but I mean how cute is it that a boy likes you so much he doesn't want to be with anyone else. Really. But he needs to realize you need to finish school. Your not ready to make that big of a commitment, and I don't think he is either. Even if he may think he is. I would just tell him that. If he's pushing it even farther, I don't think things will work out.
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You have to make him understand.
Tell him that if he loves you enough to want to marry you, then he should have enough respect for you not to rush you into things you aren't ready for.
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