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Question Posted Wednesday January 16 2008, 4:14 pm

do you think it's possible to have a friend that is attractive and never ever have any romantic feelings for them?!..if so why or why not?!

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Jeanne answered Thursday January 17 2008, 1:37 am:
Yes, I definitely think it's possible. I had a guy friend who was like every girl's dream guy... good looking, smart, sweet, romantic, everything! All the girls were in love with him, but lucky me, I was the one he wanted. But try as I might, I just didn't have any romantic feelings for him. I couldn't figure out what was wrong with me, but I think it's just that there was no "chemistry" there for me. So yeah, it's definitely possible.

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Psycotheis answered Wednesday January 16 2008, 9:57 pm:
Heck yea! I've actually had lots of those. Its all normal. Usually, a person would have feeling for someone either they cant have, or someone they know very well have have a lot in common. Not having feelings for someone whose attractive simply means your not compelled to be with that person in a serious relationship.

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uisforukelele answered Wednesday January 16 2008, 7:19 pm:
yes, i think so. i don't really count "romantic" the same as lust though. someone is more likely to lust after an attractive friend. but yeah, it is possible, because i have a few friends that other people think are complete hotties but i don't have feelings for them.

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orphans answered Wednesday January 16 2008, 7:00 pm:
Of course. Many people are attracted to their friends, but have no desire whatsoever to develop a romantic relationship with them. If you feel this way about someone, it is usually because you are attracted to them physically, but their personality is not what you would desire in a commited or romantic relationship.

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samanthab15 answered Wednesday January 16 2008, 5:07 pm:
yes because i have that same problem with my best friend kyle and its hard but your just going to have to deal with it unless you know that your buddy likes you back.

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jealousyxo answered Wednesday January 16 2008, 4:42 pm:
Yeah its possible.I have alot of guy friends who girls pretty much go gaga for all the time,but i really dont have any interests in like a sexual way with them.I mean dont get me wrong,my friends are cute i must say but i think of them in like a brother kind of way in a sense like i can talk to them about everything and i know they wont judge me or anything like that.People tell me well if you have that connection with someone then why not?! but you cant help who you like,just how i see some really attractive guys with well..not very attractive girls.You just listen to what your heart tells you :)

♥ danielle

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thelaura answered Wednesday January 16 2008, 4:29 pm:
Yes.
People can tell whether other people are attractive or not. It's just how it goes. It doesn't mean because someone's attractive you're going to have "romantic feelings" for them.. if that was the case, you'd be having "romantic feelings" for many, many people right now! You also don't know what the person is like. Just because they're attractive doesn't mean they're nice - they could be total asses.

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orphans answered Wednesday January 16 2008, 4:27 pm:
yes of course because all because someone is cute dosnt mean that you have to like anyone just because there are cute it really depends on what kind of person they are good luck i hope i helped

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