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Would You Be mad if he did this to you?
Well, i went out w/ this guy for 2.5 months, and then i broke up w. him, cause he said to another girl i'll break up w/ her if you'll go out w/ me, and then i broke up w/ him and then he said that that was a stupis reason to break up w/ him, and then he started going out w/ another girl (who's one of my best friends) not even to days after we broke up. And now i lke another guy. And i think that my ex is mad at me, so would you be mad and do you have any good advice about how to ask out a guy?
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if hes going to do it to you and date your bff then i say fuck him and do what you want and date another guy.
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Its not a stupid reason and i hope (sorry) that hes mad @ you bc he will prolly ask you bak out n everything tha whole routine! so just steer clear of him 4 awhile then after a couple of months things will calm down and forgotten. as for asking the guy out just start becoming friends with him and just be yourself (sorry 4 tha cleche) and whenever n e one tells u "dont make a fool of yourself" it adds pressure so just start hangin with him and things will (hopefully) start to heat up!! hope this advice works!!
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You did the right thing by breaking up with him. He basically asked another girl out while he was still going out with you. And in a way, that's like cheating. (What he should've done is break up with you first, and then talk to the other girl about going out). So no, your reason was not stupid at all. It was completely justified.
So anyway... now you like someone else. And your ex has a new girlfriend. So does it really matter if he's mad at you? He has no reason to be! Your relationship is over - because of him - and you're both moving on. So don't let him get into your head and control your emotions. Focus on the future and this new guy you like. At some point, you might be able to be friends with your ex again, but that will probably take some time. In the meantime, put him behind you and look toward what's ahead of you.
As for asking a guy out... I'm sorry I don't have any good advice on that, because I'm kinda old fashioned that way. I think guys generally prefer to do the asking out, and in my experience, it usually works out better if you let them. But not everyone agrees with me, and I know lots of girls ask guys out and it works out fine. I just don't have much good experience with it, so I'll let someone else answer that part of your question.
Good luck! =]
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He screwed up his chances of being with you by saying that to another girl. It is a good reason to break up with him. If he wants to be immuture let him. He is the one to blame for this.
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of course i would be mad! he was going to break up with you if that other girl wanted to go out with him. he was being a jerk and apparently doesn't value a relationship. your ex is just mad because you broke up with him. i don't think it's a stupid reason at all to break up with someone. i would do the same. talk to your ex and friend about this. if you aren't comfortable with your friend going out with him tell her. i would be afraid that he is going to either cheat on her or break her heart. Tell your ex how you feel and that he has no reason to be mad. best of luck.
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I would be mad at him. He sounds like a creep. I think you should ask out the guy you like to maybe a movie or bowling. Just be like do you want to hang out at the movies on friday. don't say "Go out" unless you're sure about how he feels. You can even make it a group thing if you don't know if he likes you.
Good Luck
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Well, first off, your ex is a dick. You have every right to break up with someone that'd say something like that. If he's mad at you, it's just his way of trying to shift the blaim so that he doesn't have to admit that he did something wrong.
As for asking out a guy, it's really simple, just wear something cute, and ask if he wants to go see a movie with you, or something along those lines. If you are too shy to ask straight out though you can always try building up to it. Start hanging out with him more, ask him to join you for lunch or something every once in a while, and once you feel confident enough around then ask him out.
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