So, my name's Blake to start off. I live alone in a bachlour appartment and rather enjoy it. I'm a health nut for the most part and love things like martial arts and the likes. I'm also some what of a geek though in the sense of pretty much the only thing I watch is anime. I'm a very open person and I never really shy away from a question or topic. I've had to go through a lot of strange things already in my life so I help my experiences can help people on here. If you'd like to know anything in particular about me feel free to ask.
Hobbies:
Biking
Cooking
Photography
MMA
Wrestling (sure it could go into MMA but meh)
Playing with weapons
18+ rated activites
and I'm sure there's more but I can't think of any right now.
My universal advice (These are things that I would urge everyone to take to heart):
1) Drink more water, because I'm almost positive you're not drinking enough.
2) Excersize at least once every day. It only takes like 5 minutes to do a few push ups and sit ups, and no, it's not as hard as you may make it out to be.
3) Eat properly. Try to eat at best 6 smaller meals a day and to get all the food groups. Also try to limit your intake of junk food.
4) Try to find one thing about yourself that you like every day.
5) Don't have friends that will just drag you down. Trust me, they're not worth the effort and will just make your life a lot harder.
6) Don't focus on the negative things in life. If you keep a happy demeaner then you're life just seems to start working better.
7) Stop putting yourself down. If you think you're ugly/fat/both or whatever. Then either accept it or do something about it. If you keep going on about how your fat or whatever then that opinion will rub off on others. If you want to look good, then just believe that you do, it really is that simple. And if that's not enough for you, then refer to advice 1, 2, and 3.
8) Sleep more!
Finally, I have a challenge for everyone that has visited my page. For a week straight set a schedule for yourself. Make sure that you get up at the same time every day, when you get up, do a set ruitine for an excersize (if you need help figuring one out just message me), make sure that you eat properly through out the day (no junk (come on, it's only for a week, don't make such a big deal out of it)), make sure you drink lots of water, make sure you get to bed at a good time (if you want to you can do another excersize before going to bed, you'll get the best results out of that), and then repeat the cycle the next day. I don't care what you're lifestyle is, if you do that for a week you will see a significant difference in your life. Although you will feel slightly sick for the first day or so due to your system being in shock.
Anyone that actually does that challenge I'd love to hear from and get their opinion/testomony/rant about wasted time.
And that's everything outta me for now. I hope that I can help at least a few people on here.
E-mail: ice232@hotmail.com
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17/f. i have a slight fat pack on my lower stomach. im skinny and wear a size 1 but i really dislike it. are there any workouts that specifically target the lower stomach? crunches dont help at all. (link)
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You can do something called a V sit up. It involves you keeping your feet off the ground, and then bringing your upper torso, and legs up in to the air at the same time, and trying to touch your feet with your hands. Make sure not to bend your knees while doing this, and make sure to keep your feet off the ground until you're done your rep (I would recommend starting with 3 reps of 10, with about a 30 second break in between each).
As for foods, drink lots of water for starters. Avoid excessive alchohol, and try to cut back on caffeine, since they both take water out of your system, which you're body needs to function properly. Also, eat peanuts, as they are known to increase the body's metabolism.
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whats is a very effective birth control. say it be pills or injections or whatever.
16/f (link)
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Abstinance! ...sorry, I had to!
But in all seriousness, most birth control have the same percentage for effectiveness. The main variance is actually the person. For pills, some people forget to take them and then they're not as effective, for the patch, they can sometimes come off without the person noticing, condoms can break or puncture or be defective, etc.
If you're wanting to have sex, find the type of birth control that's you'd be most comfertable with, though I would recommend away from injections due to the increased chance of blood clots. Also, if you really want to make sure, then use a condom as well as the birth control.
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okay. i was protected when i had sex about a month ago. but he messed up. it was only his twice having sex and he came but didnt tell me and he kept going and the condom fell off on me
but i picked it up and the semen was still inside.
i know there is a possibility of it spilling or him dripping on me from residue.
i wiped n i saw no semen
i missed my period for march
i then got a bladder infection the following day after having sex with him
i went a week later hurting bad from the infection he turns out i did have a bladder infection. he did a prengnacy test on me and he said i was fine. but it was only like a week and a half since i had that sex. after i got rid of my bladder infection i had light blood then dark blood but usually my period are very heavy n nasty with many cramps but my past few periods were not very painful but this time there was really no cramps except for dark reddish brown blood. and not a lot except for three quarter sized spot. just thursday morning i got diarrhea n i had a little of it all the way until now. sunday.
i threw up twice last night.
but my friend had a stomach virus just like i have now . all three of us hung out. first he got the virus then my other friend n i got it and we both feel better now. i feel my abdomen n once i press down i feel my stomach is a little harder. but i dont find myself bleeding anymore.
in total i bled for about 5 days. remember the doctor tested me. (link)
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Alright, lots of things to cover about this then. First things first, if you want to be absolutly sure that you're not pregnant, go buy yourself a test from a store (there about $20 for a box with 2 in them) and follow the instructions on it.
Now, the bladder infection you got was probably caused by the fact that you needed to go to the washroom before you had sex, and you didn't go afterwards. That's the most common cause of it for woman.
As for your blood, it can change for a lot of different reasons: your diet, ammount of physical activity, ammount of water you drink, stress levels, etc. all effect your period.
Also, one cool little fact is that having sex can actually reduce the time it takes for your period, as well as reduce cramps. Remember that sex releases endorphines and adreniline in to your system (that would be the body's natural feel good drug, and pain killer).
In all likelyhood, you're diarrhea and vomiting are caused by the same virus that everyone else has. Drink lots of water and eat chicken noodle soup and you'll hopefully get over it soon if you haven't yet.
As for your stomach being harder, one possible explanation for that is that your stomach is getting a work out while you're having sex. Most people don't realize but if you're going all out in sex you're normally working a lot of muscles.
Anyways, again, if you want to be sure, just go get a test from the store.
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alright, let me give you a little background. in past sexual experience im used to bein dominated 99.9% of the time because of the guys ive been with, plus the fact that i used to do a lot of drugs with the guys i was with. im also used to black guys.
now im not datin a black guy, and i had a conversation with my boyfriend and he said he wanted it to be an equal thing. the thing is, though, ive been sober for a while now and im not used to the kind of guy im with. so now i kind of have to learn sex all over again.
so i have a few questions. one, when a guy thrusts in me do i thrust with him at the same time? and when im on top should i just bounce on him if you know what i mean? or 'booty pop' (which i can do when im dancin, not sure about sex) and just any tips for really good sex basically.
any help will be appreciate him, im a girl btw :) (link)
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You're going about this in the wrong approach. There's no one tip or another that's specifically right or wrong in an equil relationship. Just when you're having sex, do what feels the best for you. If you enjoy just bouncing on him, then go for it, if he doesn't enjoy it then he'll talk to you about it. Since every person is different no one here can really tell you exactly what to do. You need to feel it out, and learn what makes you feel good, and what makes him feel good. The best advice I can really give is don't get caught up with thinking too much, sex is a natural thing and as such I've always felt shouldn't be contemplated very much. Go with the flow!
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Hi look im really woried im really SHITTING my self. I have a girlfriend of 10 months and we have done everything exept full intercourse. Now she made me come and I fingerd her. But what I want to know is because shes still a virgin can she get pregnant? She missed her period, and im getting woried. Could my sperm from my hands of got into her vagina?? Could this of made her pregnant?? Im so woried about this. Will you please find some helpfull links about this subject and your honest opinion. Thankyou so much for reading this mail . Please im so woried. Im desperate. (link)
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Hey, first off you should calm down. Panicing wont help the situation at all no matter what the out come.
Now, on to the issue at hand. First I should say that while yes, it is possible for it to work like that, the odds of it are very, very low. If you're worried about it that much, go spend $20 dollers and buy yourself a pregnency test. You can get kits that come with to tests in them. Get her to take the first one and if it's negative, then wait a few weeks and get her to take the second one just to double check; if it's possitive then you'll both have to be mature about it and think seriously about what you want to do. This is just my opinion, but if she is positive, then I would recommend that she aborts it, as it doesn't seem like either of you would be ready to support a child.
Just so you know, there are plenty of things that can cause a period to be late. Things like daily activity, diet, even stress levels all effect it.
Now for the case of her being a virgin: while speaking in the since of she's never had sex she's a virgin, that doesn't mean that biologically speaking that is true. The term "virgin" refers to a thin layer of tissue that is inside the vagina that is normally pierced by the penis during intercourse. This tissue can accedentally be ruptured though from lots of different things: bike/horse back riding, rigerous sports, etc. can cause it to break, which really doesn't mean anything biologically speaking - which is to say it's not that this is a bad thing, it's actually rather natural in this day and age - it just means that that layer of tissue wouldn't be there to prevent dirt etc. from getting in there.
Anyways, I again go back to my original statement by saying just go buy a test and answer the question yourself. Either that or wait for her to get her period and spend your time guessing about it. One way or another, if you have any questions just feel free to ask me.
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Alrighty.
So I'm dating Boy 1, and have been for more than 8 months. A while back I met Boy 2 and fooled around. Yes.. Do not need to have "Dumb Idea" reinforced.
So when I did this I was on Birth Control and Boy 2 said he had been clean and I was and I knew him through a friend so I'm all "No worries, she's slept with him so it's all good."
Hah! Alright, so here we go. He's positive for an STD, I'm positive for an STD and I'm breaking up with Boy 1.
Now.. Can you give me any idea about how to break it to Boy 1 that he has to go and get tested and treated? Yet not tell him I screwed up (literally and figuratively). And tell him that it's over between the two of us? (link)
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Well, you can either do it the honest way and tell him the truth, or you can say screw honesty and make up something. Or I guess if you wanted you could just break up with him and never even tell him about the STI. Or you could be sneaky and go get the pills for whatever it is and give them to him without him knowing, I think that's illigal though. Anyways, best choice, honesty, easiest choice, just say screw him and leave him to his own devices. Or make up some story about how you contracted it by cutting yourself at a public place or something like that.
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a few random ?'s
-is it possible for rin and kagome to be realated?
cause in some episodes it talks about how alike they are and i realized they even look a great deal alike
-why is it seashoumorou takes rin with him?he claims he hates all humans
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No, I really doubt that they're related, especially since in Japanese mythology spiritual powers are normally passed down through the females of the family. That would mean then that Rin would have to a priestes (sp?). It'd be more likey that she was related to Kikiyo...that is if she wasn't dead.
Also, as for Sesshomaru (I think that's how you spell it), he may claim that but pretty much that hole family has a weak spot for naive females I think. Anyways, it's there way of trying to make him a bit more compassionite so that he'll eventually be able to relate to his brother.
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I don't get them because I was at school and like a boy started staring at me all the time and thenthe next day it seems like he hates me. Then another boy was saying like oh my gosh why do keep acting so weird. and then i asked how i was acting weird. he said that i smile and move my lips weird. then i asked him why are you looking at my lips and he said that oh i just notice that you are moving them weird. one more boy has a pic in his locker and it's of me and that is his only pic. oh my gosh i don't get boys!!my last delimma is how to you ask a boy to dance at a sloe song?
I don't know what is up but i think they are trying to flirt with me. but i'm a girl i don't know everything. and please tell me what you think is going on and then i'll take it and maybe use your info you give me! (link)
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Well, you need to remember that not everyone is very good at talking to people they like. The easiest thing you can do to someone to get their attention is tease them, and that could quite possibly what's going on here. It's just like back in elementary school when if someone liked someone they'd always pick on them. That kinda behaviour doesn't really go away, we just find more acceptable ways of going about it. That's probably what the whole thing is about. The guy with a pic of you in his locker really probably has a thing for you hence that being the only picture.
As for asking them to dance, it's really simple, you really just have to ask. If they say they don't like dancing or something just take their hand and drag them up. Most guys (at least until higher grades) try to get away from dancing with girls just because they're probably scared of making a fool of themselves. Just relax and ask him, get the point across that you really just want to dance with him.
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16/f. I feel extremely hurt right now. Ok, so my mom basically defends my dad in any situation whatsoever, even if he's wrong. That includes defending him in fights between me and him. I used to get into a lot of fights with my parents but now that's kind of been reduced because I've learned to not overreact to things and just to be the better person in the situation. My dad gets into a lot of cranky moods. He'll be really nice sometimes and cranky other times. My mom knows he's always cranky and admits it. The thing is, he always takes his moods out on me-almost on a daily basis. When he does that, I kind of talk back (not fight), which, as a person with feelings, I think I have the right to do when someone picks on me for no reason. So, he just picks these fights with me all the time when I never did anything. Once, in a blue moon, but not very often, though, I'll admit that maybe I'm the one who starts a fight (but what teenager doesn't fight with their parents?) In cases like these, my mom steps right in to defend my dad. Trust me, she gets FULLY involved and gets even more mad at me than my dad is. But that doesn't happen real often. However, when my dad picks these almost daily fights with me, she NEVER EVER defends me and even finds little ways to defend my dad. I'll go to her after the fact, when my dad's not around and be like, "why does dad vent his moods out on me every day?" and she'll be like "he's cranky, just ignore him" So, clearly she agrees that he's not treating me well. So she without fail defends my dad when it's my fault, but never defends me, when it's (more often) his. Oh and also, he's moody to her a lot to and she doesn't do anything about it. Plus, he's even cranky to my friends and one is even afraid to call our house anymore. Today, I talked to my mom about the situation and asked her why she never defends me. She was like, "I'm not getting involved in your fights with him" and then I said "you get involved in the rare occasion that it's my fault" and she had no answer. Another thing she said was, "He's the adult, you're the child". And she just kept on saying "don't drag me into this." It really hurts me that she fails to see that even though I'm a "child" I have feelings too. And it really hurts me that she never ever defends me and I'm her DAUGHTER! She doesn't care about my feelings. She must be afraid of him somehow but, I don't know why and I don't know why she's always (since I was born) doing this.
So, what are your thoughts, and more importantly, what in the world should I do about my mom? (Sorry it was long) (link)
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This really sounds a lot like my teenage years. My dad is an increadibly irrational person and he used to do the same thing. Of course since I was the youngest of the children anything I said back was just being being unappreciative and lippy according to my siblings. The only trick I've ever found that worked is try to stay calm the whole time, and think up a point they can't defend.
As for your mom, I could say for sure why she does what she does, but it's very possible that she doesn't want to fully accept that your dad has his faults. It's a very commen thing for a couple to simply ignore what's wrong about the each other for the sake of staying together. It's not healthy but it does happen. It's probably been happening for a long time now but now that you're involved it's finally being dragged in to the light and your mom probably just doesn't know how to handle it. In my opinion at least, you should try talking to your mom about it more, and keep insisting about it until you find out more and you get her to understand your side. That or just wait it out until you can move out. Second one worked for me.
I hope this helped. If you need anything feel free to contact me. Us bullied children gotta stick together ^_^
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Ok so heres the deal. I have a really good and easy job. Im basically a concierge at a resort. I get paid good money for doing almost nothing. There is only me and one other girl that have this job. The problem is that my boss is totally unfair and my coworker gets everything her way. For example, the past 2 weeks she has gotten a extra day off and i got none. I keep my mouth shut all the time but i just got hit with the last straw. We are changing our schedules for the summer time and it was supposed to go into effect on a saturday which would mean my coworker would be workin on friday. shes arguing and doesnt want to work friday. neither do i. but my boss gave her her way and shes now off friday and i have to work for her when its supposed to be my day off. i tried sayin its not fair but everyone expects me to be so easy going that it doesnt matter what i say. i still have to work. and it makes it more difficult because my boss is my girlfriends dad and i live with them. (by the way i am female too). im soo fed up at this point that if it were any other job i would quit but its too good of a job. how can i get them to take me seriously??? i really need some advice. (link)
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Well, in a sense you dug yourself a hole by never speaking up until now. But that doesn't mean that they shouldn't be taking you seriously. Unfortunatly, you'll get people like your boss a lot that just prefer to favour one person for whatever the reason may be. If you really want to make a deal out of this though, just go and pull him aside and talk to him head on. Explain your point, but try not to be too accusational. Just explain how it's not fair that he'd volunteer you to take someone elses shift without ever asking you. Either he'll listen to you and respect what you're saying, or he wont and there's nothing you can do about it. That's unfortunatly the way jobs go.
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Well, i went out w/ this guy for 2.5 months, and then i broke up w. him, cause he said to another girl i'll break up w/ her if you'll go out w/ me, and then i broke up w/ him and then he said that that was a stupis reason to break up w/ him, and then he started going out w/ another girl (who's one of my best friends) not even to days after we broke up. And now i lke another guy. And i think that my ex is mad at me, so would you be mad and do you have any good advice about how to ask out a guy? (link)
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Well, first off, your ex is a dick. You have every right to break up with someone that'd say something like that. If he's mad at you, it's just his way of trying to shift the blaim so that he doesn't have to admit that he did something wrong.
As for asking out a guy, it's really simple, just wear something cute, and ask if he wants to go see a movie with you, or something along those lines. If you are too shy to ask straight out though you can always try building up to it. Start hanging out with him more, ask him to join you for lunch or something every once in a while, and once you feel confident enough around then ask him out.
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hey i know you're 19 and all and you probably get 23094832 questions regarding boyfriends & crushes from silly 15-year-old girls but i still need your advice :)
there's this guy a year older than me & he is in the grade above me in high school. well, online, (like facebook / myspace) he hits on a lottaa girls. he always calls them "hot" or jokes around with them, but his page is FULL of posts from other girls. in any case, the good news is that not a lot of them like him, and they only respond to be polite. some don't respond at all. some are really rude. but he STILL tells them those things.
we would talk for a while online, and i always felt like i was just one of his little puppies to be used. but like after he told me i was "beautiful" and ALLL this other stuff, i really started liking him (this was a few months back) and then i forced myself to stop because of how much he used to hit on other girls. but recently, he wanted to hang out with me and he doesn't really hang out with a lot of girls, but we got together (we didn't DO anything) and we didn't talk for like, four or five days after that until really recently.
he acts so chill all the time, and it really really hurts when he talks to other girls & says things to them that he said to me. i would ask him if he says that to everyone everytime he'd give me a compliment, but he denied it and i brushed it off.
but after we hung out, i really started liking him again. he hurts so much though, and he makes me feel SO bipolar (i'm not though.) one day he makes me say, "omggg he's such a sweetheart i like him so much" if he says something really nice, and other days he can ignore me all together or accidentally say something mean and i'd say how stupid i was to have fallen for him.
the thing is, he's not allowed to date. at all. and he told me he's not interested in just hooking up with girls & dropping them. well, no, he doesn't hook up with girls often, but he hits on them a lottt. it's so hurtful.
so i'm asking you. should i hang out with him again sometime or should i just stop this pain & move on? i can easily get over him i just need to convince myself that he's just not the guy that i want to be with. -- even if i could. he just seems so perfect except for the fact that he hits on so many girls, you know? like he is smart, attractive, & can be soo so sweet. no guy has ever been as sweet as he has been to me. there are so many pros and SO MANY cons! it doesn't bother me that he can't date; he doesn't have the greatest reputation so i wouldn't be proud of dating him anyway. i just wanna hook up with him and get to know him better and just spend time with him as he is...
what's your opinion? sorry this is so longgg. (link)
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Hey, don't worry about it, I like it when people come to me for help.
Anyways, about this guy, I'd say you should probably stay away from him. He just seems to be too insincere and he'll probably end up hurting you more in the end. I could just be making assumptions here but it seems like he just enjoys flirting with people and doesn't really care who it's with. That's not the type of person you want to open yourself up to because it'll really get you in the end. If you really want to pursue him though first off you should ask him if he's actually interested. I know it probably seems like a really blunt way of going about things but hey, if you never ask you'll never know right? Also, if he is then you should ask him to stop flirting with everything he can.
Btw, just as a side note, I don't know very many people that refuse to date simply because they're not aloud. Considering most people like to defy their parents anyways, this kinda sounds like his escape plan so as to not actually having to hook up with anyone.
Hope this helped. If there's anything else I'm here.
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how long will i need to wait to have sex after i get birth control? like we reaaaaaally want to. we've been together for 7 months and haven't! i mean..do we have to wait a full month for the bc to kick in? does it work at all right when you start using it? (link)
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Last time I was in a clinic with my gf at the time getting BC we were told that it takes a week to fully circulate through the system. So after a week is gone go at it. I'd still advise using a condom though just because it's a good habit to be in and makes it just that much safer.
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i was wondering if anyone had any good tips on giving head.
i need some quick and easy ones.
and i'm not sure what else to do along with head..
theres a million things..but anything would help.
thanks a load. (link)
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Alright, well I there's a lot of pretty simple things that will feel really good. Really easy one, if you can't fit him fully in your mouth then cup your hand around the base to make up for the difference. Make sure not to let your teeth scrape along him (it's not really a fun feeling).
Remember that the head of the penis is the most sensitive, so if he's not circumsized put the forskin back. You can try just using your tongue on the head, as well as you can suck on just the head (be careful with this one though because it's a very intense feeling and can get to be too much pretty fast.
Another good one is while your using both your hand and mouth twist your head one way and your hand the other way. Make sure you don't have such a death grip as to pinch the skin, just enough so that it slids a bit. Make sure that he's properly lubed up with saliva or whatever first though.
Also, one thing that a lot of girls overlook is the testicles, there's a lot of nerves in them and they make for a good place to take the attention away from the penis for a while.
Last thing to remember, the most important thing you can do is to constantly switch up what you're doing. Don't just sit there constantly doing the same thing for 10 minutes straight. Use your hand for a bit, then use your mouth, then maybe go pay attention to another part of the body, then come back about a minute later, you'll find that's he's gotten a lot more turned on and a lot more sensitive. You can keep doing this for a while if you want, but don't do it too many times or he'll become over sensitive. If you want any more help or advice feel free to message me.
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Hi!
What is a conftorble (but cute) outfit to wear on a long airplane? (About six hours?)
What shoes do i wear? How do i do my hair?
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Unfortunatly, the only cute about airplanes is really getting off them. I'd say focus more wearing some clothes that'll let your skin breath. If you really want to look cute though purhaps a skirt and a nice top, that way you'll be able to not sufficate but you can still show off a bit, as for shoes, since it's an airplane I wouldn't advise high heels or stillettos or anything like that. Find something comfertable and stable and that goes with your outfit. You're hair is really up to you and what you decide for your outfit.
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I recently got a job that my friend "but her butt on the line for me" to get,but I dot like it. What should I do? (link)
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Well, in cases like this there's not that much you can really do. You can either suck it up for the sake of your friend, or you can look out for yourself and say screw the job. I'd say like or not stick around for at least a few weeks, things might get better. Also, if you do plan on quitting, talk to your friend about it first and explain yourself. Otherwise it might just look like your in a sense spitting in their face for the effort they put out for getting you the job.
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ok i know there's no such thing as being a "bad test taker", but i was wondering if anyone had advice on doing really well. i'm a good student and i study hard before a test, and when i get the test i know everything on it, but when i get it back i've made the stupidest mistakes, even when i've quadruple checked. or if i don't remember a simple fact, i start doubting myself on the simplest questions that are meant to be easy points. i don't follow my gut, i don't know why.i've searched online and they say you need to believe in yourself,but i'm at a low point where if i say that to myself it's like i know i'm only trying to fool myself, and that doesn't work. does anyone have any tips on not doubting yourself or making stupid mistakes? thanks for the help! (link)
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Tests are strange things, they effect everyone differently and everyone has their own little methods of dealing with them. Personally for me what's always worked was I'd make sure that I go in to the test with a very happy, up beat attitude, and I take my time just enjoying how really rediculous the tests normally are. If you spend your time relaxed and just enjoying things instead of stressing and wondering if you got things wrong then strangly enough, you'll find that you'll do a lot better. Just remember, if you miss a question, it's not the end of the world, it's just a test. If you make a simple mistake, well so be it, everyone does from time to time, no need to beat yourself up on it.
One thing that may help, if you're allowed to have music at whatever school you go to, make a playlist full of all of the songs you know that just put you in that really upbeat bouncy mood, because if you can get in to that mood you're set.
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i went on a "date" w/this guy(that i initiated) we went out for dinner, though we both never specified that it was anything more than that, and we hung out for a long time. i thought it went well, and he hugged me at the end.i didn't get any hint he wanted to see me again until he brings it up 3 weeks later randomly in the middle of our conversation.the 3 weeks leading to that i became upset b/c i felt maybe he didn't like me, even though he'd always become real happy to see me around.so even though this is what i wanted to hear him say, i guess 3 weeks of waiting overrode my enthusiasm.and later he convinced me to play intramural soccer w/him, i played one game and after the game he texts me and says "babe you're the best".and this is where it gets wierd: all of a sudden he changes and goes hot/cold switching and letting girls flirt w/him around me and not paying attn. to me. i don't understand. and now everytime i pass him by all he says is "will you play soccer?see you monday." he knows i can't play(it's too late at night) why is he being so annoyingly persistent? why would he care anyways, i bet had someone else had said no i don't want to play he'd leave them alone. i'm confused, i guess my question is how you think he feels about me. thank you for reading this and i'm really sorry for it being lengthy but any help would be very much appreciated. (link)
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Have no fear, a male is here! Anyways, I'm pretty sure that he likes you. This is all probably his way of testing the waters. With him flirting with other women, it's either 1) he was judging your reaction and maybe hoping you'd get jealous, or 2) he's a dick and wasn't thinking (lets hope it's 1). He probably likes playing soccer with you because of several reasons, like maybe he just likes sharing an something with you that he likes to do. It might be his way of showing you a side of himself that not everyone gets to see. If that's the case then he's being persistant probably because he feels like it's the only way he can really show you what he's like.
You can tell that he obviously has feelings for you if he always gets happier when you come around. I think you might be overthinking some of this a bit. You should probably go talk to him and just ask him about it straight out though. If you want to be with him then see ask him if he wants you two to be a couple. If so then if he keeps flirting go reem him out. If he doesn't want to be a couple then it's probably best that you find out sooner rather then later.
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I feel like my mind is messing with me. I am 5'5'' and about 135lbs ( 15/female) . Now, technically that isn't overweight, but I used to be 4'6'' and 140lbs a few years ago, and my brain is stuck on that.
Back then I told myself I was healthy, but now whenever I look at myself in the mirror or in a picture I think I look obese. I can usually keep this to my self, but when I am PMSing, it gets worse. I feel like such a fatty all the time. I dont really have any confidence. I dont wear make-up because I have a disease on my skin on my face , so that doesnt help. My family and friends are concerned, but I just cant help it
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how can I make my self think I am normal-looking? (link)
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Well, unfortunatly, society is against you. Probably the biggest reason that you now see yourself as obese is because we constantly see images of toothpick girls that are supposed to be what girls are to aim for. When you're younger you don't typically both with that sort of thing.
Anyways, so there's a lot of ways that you can change the way you feel about yourself. One thing you can do that I particularly like just as a self esteam booster is just find one thing about your body that you like every day. Don't focus on any parts that you don't like, just the parts you do like.
Another way to change the way you think is actually with a healthier lifestyle. Proper diet, proper sleeping habits, and proper excersize all effect the way we think as well as the way we look. If you want to know more about all this feel free to message me.
Finally, one last thing, it really doesn't matter how tall you are or how much you weigh, what matters is just believing in yourself. It really shows if someone can actually believe in their looks. I've seen some people that were about 5'3 - 5'4 and weighed about 200+ but because they could accept their own body and believe in themselves they actually looked really good. Hope this helps you.
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playfully argue with each other. my parents will joke and tease one another. i watch what they do and i some times realize that its just like my friend and I play around with each other. that just odd and we are both girls. i get annoyed by it but i like the attention. whats your out take on this?
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It's just a sign of affection. It just means you to care for each other. My friend and I (both male) have fun pretending stuff like that a lot just for kicks. You don't really need to worry too much about it unless you two start argueing about serious topics and it gets out of hand. Otherwise, just enjoy the fact that you've got such a close friend.
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