Alrighty.
So I'm dating Boy 1, and have been for more than 8 months. A while back I met Boy 2 and fooled around. Yes.. Do not need to have "Dumb Idea" reinforced.
So when I did this I was on Birth Control and Boy 2 said he had been clean and I was and I knew him through a friend so I'm all "No worries, she's slept with him so it's all good."
Hah! Alright, so here we go. He's positive for an STD, I'm positive for an STD and I'm breaking up with Boy 1.
Now.. Can you give me any idea about how to break it to Boy 1 that he has to go and get tested and treated? Yet not tell him I screwed up (literally and figuratively). And tell him that it's over between the two of us?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Ice232 answered Friday May 9 2008, 12:07 am: Well, you can either do it the honest way and tell him the truth, or you can say screw honesty and make up something. Or I guess if you wanted you could just break up with him and never even tell him about the STI. Or you could be sneaky and go get the pills for whatever it is and give them to him without him knowing, I think that's illigal though. Anyways, best choice, honesty, easiest choice, just say screw him and leave him to his own devices. Or make up some story about how you contracted it by cutting yourself at a public place or something like that. [ Ice232's advice column | Ask Ice232 A Question ]
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