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I'm Pathetic
well lately i feel...pathetic! there is this stupid guy (my ex) and he wont talk to me anymore. i dont even like him i just have never been rejected by a guy before and hes not talking to me. hes afraid that i might call him out (hes like that-he hates confrontation) im trying to move on and now that i realized why i kept bothering with him so much i dont think it will be that hard to leave him. but i am so mad at myself for wasting time on him and jor being treated badly. hes a JERK and i keep letting him treat me like shit!! i've started cutting again which i stopped because im so mad at myself and frusterated. what should i do?? i dont know what to do when i feel pathetic instead of cutting...
Please help!! thanks :)
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first of all you are not pathetic even though you may feel this way. as for him treating you badly, you shouldn't be mad. instead you should realize what kind of person he is and then make sure the next guys you date are nothing like him. it's experience and it's not being pathetic.
instead of sitting and cutting, listen to music, eat ice cream, go walking, call a friend and go out to the movies or the mall... do you know how many other things you can do that will make you feel AMAZING instead of sitting and cutting which just gives you MORE PAIN? think about it.
and as for this jerk... let him treat someone else badly. you should be done with him.... think about it this way, why would you wanna be with someone who doesn't wanna be with you. it's a turn off if the person you like doesn't see all the amazing qualities you have. <----- and i'm sure of that =]] so stop cutting and go out and have fun.
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You need to forget about this guy. He sounds like a jerk. I know its easier said than done. I think the best way to go about this is to confront him even though hes avoiding you and just tell him everything that you've been wanting to tell him for all this time, after you do that i think you you'll feel more free and you wont have to turn to harmful things like cutting yourself...and...even when you do feel miserable and pathetic cutting yourself is not the answer, when you cut yourself you're proving that this guy still has power over you, so I'd say that you're first step to forgetting about this jerk is to stop cutting.
I hope i helped.
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What you need to do is find something that replaces what you are doing. Find a common interest to occupy your time for example when I am being pathetic or just plain out frustrated I write stories that let my emotions out in a healthy way or I write songs on the bass to help release my anger. I know it is hard to let someone you care about but also at the same time hate them for the way they treat you. The thing I did was I finally told myself enough is enough. I deserve better and so do you. If you find something you enjoy it will make him seem like the least important thing. Find something you always wanted to learn or an object you found interesting.
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