My name is Samantha, im 13 years old and I know Im young but I give really good advice most of the time. Email me if you want my advice but dont want it public. I check my email periodically throughout the day, so it wont be long before I answer you. Im a lot better helping with relationships and animals and family problems. I have a huge family (10 people in my house) 2 cats, and I have only been (and still am) in one relationship, but ask anybody Ive given advice to--Im helpful. (yes I know, so modest) You can IM me too. I have school from 7:00-3:00 So I wont be around during those times, (those arent school hours but I wont be on during those times) but almost any other time Ill be able to help. REMEMBER! THE MORE INFORMATION THE BETTER ADVICE. You ask a stupid Question and you'll get a stupid answer.
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Samantha
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E-mail: Sammilammi12 AT hotmail DOT com
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Location: Carson City, Nevada
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Member Since: April 27, 2008
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okays well i want to get a myspace. i go onto the website and click the sign up button. then i fill out all the info. it needs. then i click the sign up button at the bottom of the screen. when i click it, it loads the same page except with none of the info. i just filled out on it. then i try again and it does the same thing. it doesnt give me a error message or anything. i cant figure out why it wont let me have a myspace. help plzz.
thank you :) (link)
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Delete your cookies, LOL
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ugh,
okay. so i have an ex let's call him D. and another ex, let's call him J.
okay, so i hung out with D todayy, and made outwith him, like i do alot, when i went out with him.
=D
okay, but when i got home, J called me, and asked me out, i said noo.
he had broke up with me, bc he thought i still liked D. i told him i didn't but w/e.
truth is, i still like D. and when i make out with him, and hang out with him. [[which is all the time]] memories come flowing back.
today, i got quiet while we were hanging out, and he asked what was wrong, and i told him nothing. he gave me a big hug, told me that i could tell him if anything was wrong, and i told him nothing was wrong, after about 10 more minutes of silence, and him carrying me, he asked me again, and i said i was thinking about things. and he asked what things, i told him stuff. so he gives me a hug, and i tell i have to go, he hugs me and i leave,
i think he still likes me,
but idk,
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help.
what should i do about D.
we still act like we go out
he says i love you
and i ask how, he says "as a friend..." after i don't say it back.
with some sadness in his voice.
he's my best friend, i tell him everything.
ilove him.
what do i do about him.
and J.
bc J keeps asking me out,
what do i do.
about D and J ??? (link)
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Okay. D sounds awesome, I think you should go back with him. If you really do love him, when he says "I love you" Say You love him too. This guy seems to really like you, and you are lucky to have found someone at his age that is mature enough for this already.
J seems to be a player/desperate because most of the time when you say No, It means no, leave me alone, LOL. So just tell him you want to be friends, and if he cant live with that you should cut off communication from his for a while so he gets the picture.
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Me and this girl did everything but sex last weekend and now shes saying she doesn't want to
be my first and everything cause i'm still a
virgin. And im like ok we won't i promise. Then
shes like i don't want to hook up. And im like ok we won't. and shes like seriously? and im like
yeah if you don't want to.SO a little about her past, she broke up with her ex a couple months ago
because he cheated on her and that really messed her up emotionally and now has trust problems with
guys which is why she doesn't want to date me or hook up now and why she doesn't want to be
feeling these emotions. Well im starting to like her and i just don't get it. We had this almost same conversation about 2 weeks ago before we had
that one night of greatness lol but she said if your looking for a girl to date, im not it, and if
your looking for a girl to hook up with im not it. So idk wth's going on, any advice? thanksss (link)
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I think she just needs time. She is having troubles because of what happened with the other guy. She doesnt want it to happen again. Maybe she is upset partly at herself too, for having sex with a guy that obviously didnt vare about her much at all. but just be a good friend to her, let her know you'll always be there for her when she is upset, and when time heals what happened, she will be able to trust you. She is going thru major trust issues right now but Im sure that if you just relax and dont try to take anything any further, she will eventually make the next move she is ready. dont keep trying to make it go any further or shell feel pressured and cut off all contact with you. The Time WILL come, so just wait.
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ok so my bf cheated on me but he didnt like the girl he only wanted to hook up with her cause he thinks shes hott.
i need songs saying like i hope she was worth it.
please give me some. thanks (link)
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"Leave" By Jojo
&
Before he cheats By Carrie underwood
Sammilammi12@hotmail.com
Samantha
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I am a 17 year old girl who has lost 10 pounds in the past month. I am obsessed with weight, and I really want to lost 10 more pounds. I was never overweight, but it is just that I want to be thinner.
For breakfast, I have a few bites of applesauce. I skip lunch whenever I can. I eat a normal size dinner, though less than I did before I started this. I try hard not to eat dessert, and I only eat it so that my parents won't suspect anything. Right after that I chew sugarfree gum so I don't eat anything. I also drink a lot of water.
I count calories a lot, and my goal is definitely no more than 1000 calories a day, although I usually try for 800. I exercise a lot, burning between 250 and 400 calories per school day.
After school, I am more tired than usual, and I sometimes feel a little weak in my legs when I walk down the stairs.
This probably isn't an eating disorder, but could it develop into one? (link)
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One of these days you are just gonna pass out from exhaustion. You should take no less than 1300 calories a day. If you are exercising that much you need to shoot for at least 1500. you feel tired because you are burning all your energy. you need to AT LEAST HAVE a piece of toast with Jelly on it and a glass of water. Skipping meals actually makes you gain more. I can help you and talk to you if you would IM me!
Yahoo: Seekersam1994
MSN: Sammilammi12@hotmail.com
AIM/AOL: Lammiangel95
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Hi there. Hopefully someone can help me.
I have a 3 1/2 year old male cat who was desexed as early as we were able to get it done and within the past two weeks he has started to smell horrible. it's not a poop smell; its just a bad smell. I think its like that male spray smell but he has never sprayed before. He is considered weak since he's half rag-doll and thus doesn't fight other cats; but he does get picked on. Is it possible that other male cats are spraying him?
And HOW do I get rid of the smell? He is a very well-loved cat; constantly being hugged and all but this smell is deterring all of us from him. I'm worried about bathing because I think the shock of being in water will freak him out but if it'll help; I'll do it!
any help or information is much appreciated.
thank you!
kat (link)
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I have this spray on stuff that is for cats and dogs and it works wonders. My cat doesnt mind it too much, although he gets frustrated with me sometimes. After you do it, brush him if you have a cat brush, then love and cuddle with him. Let him know you didnt spray him for punishment.
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Samantha
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I just bought my cat a second litterbox and it has a cover and a door flap to get in. her regular box is in the laundry room and we have to open the door for her so she can use it. she will not use this new covered litter pan...i have showed her many times and everytime I put her in there she runs away. i caught her peeing on the carpet. normally she is great with using the pan, but no she is not. I cannot have an uncovered one because of dogs and children. how can i get her to use the new pan? (link)
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Well I just use a tote with a garbage bag lining, and that seems to work. but what you could do is take the top off. she might feel cramped in the box or like she's being put into a pet carrier. Cats dont like the idea of being trapped--at all-- I know it will stink but if it stinks too bad it is cause she isnt getting enough water. Remember, change the box every week. and the litterbox doesnt have to be all fancy like. They POOP in it for God's sake. But I think she will be fine once you take the lid off.
CONTACT ME AND RATE IF I HELPED!
Sammilammi12@hotmail.com
Samantha
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Yesterday I got a new kitten. I already have one cat, female, she had a litter about 4 years ago (spayed now)and lived with one of her kittens for 3 years. (always got along fine)she was an awesome mom. I know it is natural for her to be territorial with this new kitten, but she is growling and hissing all day. just wondering how long you think it will take her to warm up to the new kitten,male, and anything i can do to speed up the process (link)
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I dont really understand your question--so Ill answer both ways it could be asked.
If you meant the Female wouldnt let anybody near the kitten:
You just need to slowly get closer to the female. When my female had kittens, she let me play with them and such right away because she trusted me. But my friends had to slowly get closer to the cats. What I had them do for the first week was just sit in my room and watch. I would talk and interact with the friend so my cat (female named Saint) would trust her because I did. the 2nd week I had her start calling the cat over, and reaching her hand to saint's nose. this seemed to work because by the third week Saint allowed my friend to touch the kittens and interact.
If you meant your female is hissing AT the kitten:
You need to basically do the same thing, the kitten being the friend. The kitten just needs to be in the same room ad your female for a week or so, might take longer tho. When I kept the kitten my Saint had, My older male cat Thunder hated his guts. the kitten(foggy) would jump all over thunder and play with him, and by doing this they started to get along better. it has almost been 2 years and they act completely normal together now. Thunder is 117 years old!!
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--Samantha
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okay so i hate bringing my boyfriend over my house. my parents dont let us shut the door anymore because i guess they see we are getting more serious..they know he is in a gang so now they think he is a criminal...which he isnt. my dad thinks im going to become a chola (thats a girl gang member in my boyfriends gang) and all i hear is how they think hes a nice guy but hes a bad influence. they treat me like i have no brain and cant make mature decisions every since i got a tattoo. its like the tattoo labels me as "DANGER SHE IS GOING OVER THE HILL" kind of kid. AND IM NOT. i make smart decisions. they think im going to turn into my older brother and get myself locked up. what do i do? i dont want my boyfriend coming over anymore and when i go to my boyfriends house im not aloud over for longer then 4 hours. and yes we are sexually active and im planning on asking my mom for birth control...i want to prove to her im responsible and im looking out for myself. i dont exactly know what im asking...i just want to know peoples opinions on my situation.
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I think you need to sit down and have a discussion with your parents. Let them know that your BF is NOT that type of guy, and wouldnt do anything to hurt ANYBODY. Give them some examples of the mature things you have done. And no, You are not immature for being active at the age of 14-15. What's new? Most people are like that anyway. But I think you should (after your parents realize how mature you REALLY are) ask your mom privately for birth control. If i were you, My mom (If she agreed) would get it for me but not inform my dad till I was older.. That's how she rolls. Are your grades poor? If so, try your hardest to bring those up. Do little things around the house like taking care of dinner for mom, or cleaning the bathroom up. Little things like that can raise your maturity level in your parents eyes quite a bit. HOPE I HELPED! Email me if I did!
Sammilammi12@hotmail.com
-Samantha
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Hi.
14/m
I've been going out with this girl. Its been almost a week. We've each gone out before but it was like 4th grade with other people and it wasnt "real". Now we're 14, its the real deal lol.
So weve talked alot and hung out alot (not sure whether to consider them dates or not) and I'm wondering, should I kiss her on the cheek in the near future? I HAVE HUGGED HER BEFORE.
Any advice on cheek kissing/making out is very appreciated.
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I think you should kiss her on the cheek after one of your little sessions with her.. Hug her and then kiss her on the cheek. Smile and say goodbye. She will either slap you, or smile and skip off.
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