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ugh, boy problems, 2 exs. f/13
ugh,
okay. so i have an ex let's call him D. and another ex, let's call him J.
okay, so i hung out with D todayy, and made outwith him, like i do alot, when i went out with him.
=D
okay, but when i got home, J called me, and asked me out, i said noo.
he had broke up with me, bc he thought i still liked D. i told him i didn't but w/e.
truth is, i still like D. and when i make out with him, and hang out with him. [[which is all the time]] memories come flowing back.
today, i got quiet while we were hanging out, and he asked what was wrong, and i told him nothing. he gave me a big hug, told me that i could tell him if anything was wrong, and i told him nothing was wrong, after about 10 more minutes of silence, and him carrying me, he asked me again, and i said i was thinking about things. and he asked what things, i told him stuff. so he gives me a hug, and i tell i have to go, he hugs me and i leave,
i think he still likes me,
but idk,
=/
help.
what should i do about D.
we still act like we go out
he says i love you
and i ask how, he says "as a friend..." after i don't say it back.
with some sadness in his voice.
he's my best friend, i tell him everything.
ilove him.
what do i do about him.
and J.
bc J keeps asking me out,
what do i do.
about D and J ???
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d already told you he loves you so let him know you love him and stop playing games before a girl who is ready to tell him she loves him comes and steals your thunder from right under you. As for J tell him to his face that you are over, give him some space to get over you and then you can be friends. Keep stringing him along and it could get messy.
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Dear toubled,
You've quiet a handfull two guys. Your lucky no matter what happens. But here's my advice for you:
Okay First you need to clear the air with J.It sounds like he's getting on your nerves. So what I would do is call him, or tell him in person that what happened is in the past. You've moved on and now it's his turn. That you would love to stay friends but.. that is IT.
As for D I really don't know what to tell you. Guys are complitcated and if you flat out ask him then it might get awkward. So I don't advise that. If he flirts with you some more over the next few months but still just wants to be friends I WOULD ask him what his feelings are. But As I said it's complicated and I'm not in your shoes so, idk. But I hope you find out.
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Okay. D sounds awesome, I think you should go back with him. If you really do love him, when he says "I love you" Say You love him too. This guy seems to really like you, and you are lucky to have found someone at his age that is mature enough for this already.
J seems to be a player/desperate because most of the time when you say No, It means no, leave me alone, LOL. So just tell him you want to be friends, and if he cant live with that you should cut off communication from his for a while so he gets the picture.
<3
Sam
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I think that you should stick with D and open up to him. He seems like a great guy and he really cares about you.
And J seems like he might have trust issues so i would just stay friends with him.
-hayley
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