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WHAT?! girls are confusing
Me and this girl did everything but sex last weekend and now shes saying she doesn't want to
be my first and everything cause i'm still a
virgin. And im like ok we won't i promise. Then
shes like i don't want to hook up. And im like ok we won't. and shes like seriously? and im like
yeah if you don't want to.SO a little about her past, she broke up with her ex a couple months ago
because he cheated on her and that really messed her up emotionally and now has trust problems with
guys which is why she doesn't want to date me or hook up now and why she doesn't want to be
feeling these emotions. Well im starting to like her and i just don't get it. We had this almost same conversation about 2 weeks ago before we had
that one night of greatness lol but she said if your looking for a girl to date, im not it, and if
your looking for a girl to hook up with im not it. So idk wth's going on, any advice? thanksss
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I think she just needs time. She is having troubles because of what happened with the other guy. She doesnt want it to happen again. Maybe she is upset partly at herself too, for having sex with a guy that obviously didnt vare about her much at all. but just be a good friend to her, let her know you'll always be there for her when she is upset, and when time heals what happened, she will be able to trust you. She is going thru major trust issues right now but Im sure that if you just relax and dont try to take anything any further, she will eventually make the next move she is ready. dont keep trying to make it go any further or shell feel pressured and cut off all contact with you. The Time WILL come, so just wait.
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i think you need to give her time. she feels very uncomfortable trusting guys now because the one guy that she put complete trust in betrayed her. you need to let her build up a trust with you before you two can think about moving any further. just give it time.
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she is probably scared, and a little but hesitant to trust you, because of her ex. which you even said was expected. i don't think what's going on with her emotions are really about you. she just wants to be sure when she literally has sex with you, that it's right, and what she wants. and possibly she is having regrets about whatever sexual experience you two shared last weekend. possibly. but just tell her you are willing to be patient with her, and reassure her that you aren't her ex, and you'd never do what he did. let her know how much you like her. :)
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