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used to one thing, need to do something else
alright, let me give you a little background. in past sexual experience im used to bein dominated 99.9% of the time because of the guys ive been with, plus the fact that i used to do a lot of drugs with the guys i was with. im also used to black guys.
now im not datin a black guy, and i had a conversation with my boyfriend and he said he wanted it to be an equal thing. the thing is, though, ive been sober for a while now and im not used to the kind of guy im with. so now i kind of have to learn sex all over again.
so i have a few questions. one, when a guy thrusts in me do i thrust with him at the same time? and when im on top should i just bounce on him if you know what i mean? or 'booty pop' (which i can do when im dancin, not sure about sex) and just any tips for really good sex basically.
any help will be appreciate him, im a girl btw :)
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I think you both need to talk about what feels good for each of you. There's really no set technique for it, it's all about what feels good, which can be pretty different for different people. Just experiment a little & make sure you leave it open for discussion. In my personal experience, I usually don't like to "bounce", because I think it's kind of hard to do. I just lean in towards him & slide up & down. But it's all about what feels good for both of you.
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You're going about this in the wrong approach. There's no one tip or another that's specifically right or wrong in an equil relationship. Just when you're having sex, do what feels the best for you. If you enjoy just bouncing on him, then go for it, if he doesn't enjoy it then he'll talk to you about it. Since every person is different no one here can really tell you exactly what to do. You need to feel it out, and learn what makes you feel good, and what makes him feel good. The best advice I can really give is don't get caught up with thinking too much, sex is a natural thing and as such I've always felt shouldn't be contemplated very much. Go with the flow!
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