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I dont know if i am pregnant


Question Posted Sunday April 12 2009, 8:24 pm

okay. i was protected when i had sex about a month ago. but he messed up. it was only his twice having sex and he came but didnt tell me and he kept going and the condom fell off on me
but i picked it up and the semen was still inside.
i know there is a possibility of it spilling or him dripping on me from residue.
i wiped n i saw no semen
i missed my period for march
i then got a bladder infection the following day after having sex with him
i went a week later hurting bad from the infection he turns out i did have a bladder infection. he did a prengnacy test on me and he said i was fine. but it was only like a week and a half since i had that sex. after i got rid of my bladder infection i had light blood then dark blood but usually my period are very heavy n nasty with many cramps but my past few periods were not very painful but this time there was really no cramps except for dark reddish brown blood. and not a lot except for three quarter sized spot. just thursday morning i got diarrhea n i had a little of it all the way until now. sunday.
i threw up twice last night.
but my friend had a stomach virus just like i have now . all three of us hung out. first he got the virus then my other friend n i got it and we both feel better now. i feel my abdomen n once i press down i feel my stomach is a little harder. but i dont find myself bleeding anymore.
in total i bled for about 5 days. remember the doctor tested me.

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Additional info, added Tuesday April 14 2009, 3:26 pm:
also, i havent been working out actually. so this hardness of my stomach is just not right ? .

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Ice232 answered Sunday April 12 2009, 11:15 pm:
Alright, lots of things to cover about this then. First things first, if you want to be absolutly sure that you're not pregnant, go buy yourself a test from a store (there about $20 for a box with 2 in them) and follow the instructions on it.

Now, the bladder infection you got was probably caused by the fact that you needed to go to the washroom before you had sex, and you didn't go afterwards. That's the most common cause of it for woman.

As for your blood, it can change for a lot of different reasons: your diet, ammount of physical activity, ammount of water you drink, stress levels, etc. all effect your period.

Also, one cool little fact is that having sex can actually reduce the time it takes for your period, as well as reduce cramps. Remember that sex releases endorphines and adreniline in to your system (that would be the body's natural feel good drug, and pain killer).

In all likelyhood, you're diarrhea and vomiting are caused by the same virus that everyone else has. Drink lots of water and eat chicken noodle soup and you'll hopefully get over it soon if you haven't yet.

As for your stomach being harder, one possible explanation for that is that your stomach is getting a work out while you're having sex. Most people don't realize but if you're going all out in sex you're normally working a lot of muscles.

Anyways, again, if you want to be sure, just go get a test from the store.

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