Hi look im really woried im really SHITTING my self. I have a girlfriend of 10 months and we have done everything exept full intercourse. Now she made me come and I fingerd her. But what I want to know is because shes still a virgin can she get pregnant? She missed her period, and im getting woried. Could my sperm from my hands of got into her vagina?? Could this of made her pregnant?? Im so woried about this. Will you please find some helpfull links about this subject and your honest opinion. Thankyou so much for reading this mail . Please im so woried. Im desperate.
Now, on to the issue at hand. First I should say that while yes, it is possible for it to work like that, the odds of it are very, very low. If you're worried about it that much, go spend $20 dollers and buy yourself a pregnency test. You can get kits that come with to tests in them. Get her to take the first one and if it's negative, then wait a few weeks and get her to take the second one just to double check; if it's possitive then you'll both have to be mature about it and think seriously about what you want to do. This is just my opinion, but if she is positive, then I would recommend that she aborts it, as it doesn't seem like either of you would be ready to support a child.
Just so you know, there are plenty of things that can cause a period to be late. Things like daily activity, diet, even stress levels all effect it.
Now for the case of her being a virgin: while speaking in the since of she's never had sex she's a virgin, that doesn't mean that biologically speaking that is true. The term "virgin" refers to a thin layer of tissue that is inside the vagina that is normally pierced by the penis during intercourse. This tissue can accedentally be ruptured though from lots of different things: bike/horse back riding, rigerous sports, etc. can cause it to break, which really doesn't mean anything biologically speaking - which is to say it's not that this is a bad thing, it's actually rather natural in this day and age - it just means that that layer of tissue wouldn't be there to prevent dirt etc. from getting in there.
Anyways, I again go back to my original statement by saying just go buy a test and answer the question yourself. Either that or wait for her to get her period and spend your time guessing about it. One way or another, if you have any questions just feel free to ask me. [ Ice232's advice column | Ask Ice232 A Question ]
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