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bf cheating with other bf's boy HELP!!!
Alright. So. My Bestfriend, Hali, shes been threw a lot of crap in her life. Summer of 07, she lost her cousin. She died from a cyst on her brain. Well 8 months later, her sister died in a car crash. Well during these times, her boyfriend then was cheating on her. And when she told him to go to a family funeral thing for her sister, he didn't go. He was out cheating on her. Well she finally got over him, and started to date a new guy. I liked him at first, he seemed like he really wanted to date her, so I helped get them together. Well it took them a loong time to finally get together. But when they were "talking" he was talking to other girls, but I was like well oh well, bc they aren't dating so its nothing. Well I just found out that he has already cheated on her with his ex. And before Hali and him started to date, he hung out with my other best friend. Well saturday, we all were sled riding, and he came, and I was like I know he lied to Hali. So I texted her and told her that she better find out where he is, and she asked why and I told her he's been here and that they all are about to get into the hot tub. And shes like I don't care that hes sled riding but why would he lie to me?
When I got to Sandy's house she told me that Martin has been texting her, and that he likes her. He's been calling her "boo" and "hun" and all this crap. Well after I left, they were in the hot tub and I guess he tried to finger her. She got up and moved, bc she too is friends with Hali, but not close like me and Hali. I guess Martin told Sandy that "Hali broke up with me" But the next day Hali and Martin were together at my other friends house.
So I really don't know what to do. I don't want to be trade Sandy and tell Hali. But I hate that this is going on and Hali doesn't know. Like I'm really weird when it comes to Hali, because I know that she has been threw soo much in her short 16 years, and I can't stand knowing this and not telling her. But Sandy is on of my best friends, and I don't want Hali mad at her, and have Sandy mad at me bc I told Hali. HELP!!!
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You need to tell , Say Sandy was going behind your back , and Hali knew ... Would'nt you want to know ? You might lose a friend but hey , you gotta do the time if your gonna do the crime ya know ? Sandy messed up and she has to learn from it . Please tell her , your friend deserves to know .
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Deep breath.
Tell Sandy that you love her, but that she has screwed up and that she needs to either end it and/or tell Hali.
Also tell Sandy you do NOT want to hear about her flirting or doing anything with Martin anymore, because if you do you will HAVE TO tell Hali. Remind Sandy that you would do the same thing for her if some guy was treating her badly.
Then hold your tongue. Let Sandy either put an end to it with Martin, or tell Hali what has been going on herself. If she is Hali's friend, that is her job to do.
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