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Her parents are hardcore rasiest fucks...im sorry she says they just "follow the bible" and think that people of mixed races black with white getting marryed and haveing kids is a sin(no matter how you look at it thats FUCKIN RASESIEM AND SHES IN HARDCORE DENIEL). in that case my famely is going to hell becuse my dad is not white and my mom is. and she says if they ever find out..they will disown her. she says she don't care if they do becuse she loves me...but I don't think she would relly want that and I don't want to be the cause of her parents disowning her... so someone help me here...I don't know what to do...

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Ok , i use to be the same way [ think like you ]. and i still am , to me color is nothing . i love all kinds of people i just see the person as who they are and their personality . But unfortunatly not everyone thinks like that . Yes the bible does what people with their own kind but no one can help who they fall in love with . Im pretty sure your parents believe in god but then again they didnt plan on falling in love it happend right . I went through the whole " if you date other than your race your a dis grace and all this stuff but i told them your gonna have to because there is no color when it comes to love . If she really loves you her parents cant make yall split but if she doesnt , shes just going to listen to her parents because shes scared .


Ok, first of all I'm 16 and a girl and I'm going to try to make this as short as possible (sorry if its long) So I've been dating this guy...we'll call him "Ben"....Well "Ben" and I dated the first time for about 8 months then broke up and got back together about a month later. Now we've been dating for about two months. I'm much happier with him this time and I really love him. The first time we dated I didnt realize how much I loved him. Anyways. A few days ago "Ben" had a party at his house and we went outside by the fire. His mom came out and yelled at him telling him that no one was suppose to pair of (He didnt tell me this before we went outside) but she let us stay out there. Well I was standing in between his legs because he was sitting down but we werent doing anything just sitting there talking. Anyways...Monday we didnt have school and he was suppose to come over but his mom told him he couldnt. So he got mad at her (Im guessing) and they got into an argument and he's grounded. Well today at school he said something to one of my friends (who has lied to me about stuff like this before) and she said that he told her that he got into a fight with his mom because of me. The thing is, his mom still isnt talking to him (almost a week later) and I know they've been fighting alot recently. So I dont know if they fight most of the time because of me or if it was just that one time. But my friend told me that his mom doesnt like us dating. I really love "Ben" but I dont want to cause problems with him and his mom. So I really dont know what to do and would appreciate the help! Please and Thank you!!! (link)
Ok , i understand everything your going through i use to think my boyfriends mom didnt like either. She use to get attitudes with me and just be so rude . It was just " her " i guess or to say its her personality . But all you can do is just show her no matter what shit she does to you thats its N0T going to break up with you Ben. Show her how much you care about him and that you would do anything for him. Trust me it took a very long time to even think she liked me again. Mothers are tough to cope with , especualy with their son's because they think somethings wrong with this girl , or that girl. No matter what , any mother will never find a girl who is good enough for their son. But like i said just deal with it , she'll realize how childish she is acting

Hope i helped


my sweet 16s coming up and i'm wondering who i should invite i mean like do i invite the friends of my friends who i don't really talk to? or just like everyone in my school or what? i'm totally clueless (link)
Your only 16 once , live it up ! Invite people who you love and are friends with , dont let other people say " oh well can i friend come " and this and that . its your party , your rules , your guess and what ever you say .. goes . Just stick to the people you associate with on a regular basis


i use finesse shampoo and conditioner every night because my hair gets so greasy if i dont.
now its getting to the point where its getting greasy even though i shower. its also getting fried. I dont know why my hair is so damaged, i dont straighten my hair or blow dry it that much.. probably 2 times a week? i also have very very fine hair.

can anyone give me tips to have my pretty hair back??? thanks! (link)
You may be putting to much conditioner . Yes its good for the hair to make it [ soft ] but to much can over do it and make it greasier faster .


Hello,
I have just a short and quite simple question. When ever I start to like a guy and I find out that he likes me back I begin to get this what I think of as a scared feeling. And right now i found this guy who is amamzing. he's so sweet and would never hurt me or anything. but when i'm around him i get scared and almso ask myself could i be in a relationship with him? but then when i'm away from him i can't wait for his texts or hugs or just to see him and i don't understand why this happens with me and guys. i think maybe i'm scared to commit to a guy and have a boyfriend who's mine and i'm theirs but i don't know where the commitment issues are coming from. any suggestions or thoughts. hell i'll even take comments. i'll take anything.

THANK YOU =]
btw. i'm 16/f (link)
hey , i use to have the same problem . When i use to like a boy and spend time with him im like alright ? is this really what i want but when we would be apart im like can he hurry And call me .
No advice can really help from us its all in your mind and how much you want him . Hung chill and hang , no need to rush right ?


if i fell in love with tht man so bad and been together long time and have a sexually active, wld it pssible to get climax more often if i show a man more love? if i don't love tht man just for sex will it cause less climax cuz i don't love that man? (link)
you need to explain your story better


Usually I try not to wash my hair everyday because it really dries it out but lately I find that the next day my hair is really flat and it feels really greasy even though it may not appear to be.

Do you know of any hair styles other than the ponytail, braids and buns that I can use for days like that?

What are some products that keep your hair looking fresh and feeling great or to help prevent this?

Thanks (link)
ok , i wouldnt suggest Baby powder like the person under me because it [could] irritat your skin .

Its really the shampoo you use, not the hair style. Pantene is a really good shampoo , That shampoo gives you more body and restores damaged hair . Also makes it shiny and smelling good for a long time .




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